You have met someone you are not interested in, is it better to be (65)
I ask for honesty and that is what I will also give.
I would be honest from the get go...
no need to drag someone's feelings or heart thru the mud...
honestly IS the best policy....
but I would never say anything in malice....just truthfully tell them I am not interested
Cheers
Curvy
no need to drag someone's feelings or heart thru the mud...
honestly IS the best policy....
but I would never say anything in malice....just truthfully tell them I am not interested
Cheers
Curvy
I chose honesty as it's the best policy i have met three people and we have both had a laugh just because you meet someone and they're not your type or choice of a long term partner doesn't mean you cant be friends and have a laugh if friends is all you end up with it was/is a success if you run away the persons self esteem will go down and if you lie you will get found out in the end because you will stop messaging them there was a song called "you've got to be cruel to be kind in the right measure"that doesn't mean rude the person must be half right and said some good things to be interested in meeting them in the first place another good saying is
"Don't judge a book by it's cover"
So my advice is meet somewhere safe and be honest with each other treat people how you would wish to be treated
"Don't judge a book by it's cover"
So my advice is meet somewhere safe and be honest with each other treat people how you would wish to be treated
littlemate1: Just curious to know what you think....
Be honest, and nice about it. There's no point lying to someone. I respect the truth and would hope others do to!
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
catchastar2: I didn't vote because I do belive it should be honest, but I also believe you should be nice about it too. And it will only let me pick just one.
That's nicely honest to say you had two picks...
Me too.
littlemate1: Hi some votes are in and I was very surprised at the results
It was THE MEN who said that it was better to be honest, most were over 40! Wow, keep voting
It was THE MEN who said that it was better to be honest, most were over 40! Wow, keep voting
I voted 'Honest' also.
Having said that, we also need to be able to accept honesty from the other person. Not easy, I know.
littlemate1: Just curious to know what you think....
It's always better to be honest...People are not attracted to everyone obviously and it hurts the person more to prolong the inevitable because someone is too uncomfortable to be honest...
Yea be honest
O for god`s seaks just shoot the guy and get it over.
But remember be nice
O for god`s seaks just shoot the guy and get it over.
But remember be nice
Tumpa: That's nicely honest to say you had two picks...
Me too.
Me too.
And no, my choices were not the last two picks.....
But if they were.....it would sound like this....
Errrrrrr, I have to go to the restroom......
Shoulder check......
Change lanes........
Choose exit ramp......
Kick down accelerator......
I think that's numbers 4 and 5 ?
BOBANBOBAN: Yea be honest O for god`s seaks just shoot the guy and get it over.
But remember be nice
But remember be nice
BOb you kill me.....
or you could just tell him that you have really bad gas all the time .
littlemate1: Just curious to know what you think....
Run........as fast as you can.....
littlemate1: Just curious to know what you think....
I think it's best to be prepared for an exit.
All in all I think people really want to be honest and want the other person to be honest. I guess the fine line between honesty and respect is where everyone needs to consider. Sometimes we lose in love doesnt mean it is our fault. I guess there are two ways to look at it; I am still alone or I am free to find the real love of my life.
I guess the option I could have added was "respectful honesty"
So there you go
Thanks for voting
I guess the option I could have added was "respectful honesty"
So there you go
Thanks for voting
littlemate1: Just curious to know what you think....
Just act like you have been married to him for 10 years... then he will run!!
When one is thoughtful and nice, then honesty is welcomed and appreciated.
WELL I BELIEVE IN BEING HONEST, BUT ALWAYS THINK OF THE OTHER PERSON'S FEELING'S, AS THEY ALSO HAVE A HEART THAT CAN BREAK.
You should be honest but do it gently.
its best to be honest altho its difficult to say to anyone . i have told men in the past i just want to be friends and its been ok for a while but they have sometimes still wanted more and weve ended up losing contact altogether
rasgumby: Just act like you have been married to him for 10 years... then he will run!!
No need to be that mean!! 2or3 years is a nice loss of intrest,any more is just hell.u must be honest for the first time u gonna meet him...tell directly what is your feeling about him....
krisha: u must be honest for the first time u gonna meet him...tell directly what is your feeling about him....
bingo.....
littlemate1: Just curious to know what you think....
Be wise in how you let them know
ocean_1: Be wise in how you let them know
exactly...
...like....
...you tell them once nicely....
...you tell them twice sternly....
...you dump them.....
nice and honest
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I didn't write it correctly. You said tell them your not interested quickly and my reply should have been worded as:
NOW you tell me with the emphasis on NOW
It was just a joke.