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how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time) (88)

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#21
Jun 3, 2009 12:09 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
YURIMA
YURIMAYURIMASt Louis,MO, Missouri USA31 Threads 706 Posts
YURIMASt Louis,MO, Missouri USA706 posts
Santarosapaul,i agree,becouse your heart tell's
you when you are ready to accept a new LOVE.. thumbs up
wave hug peace

Yuti~edna
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#22
Jun 3, 2009 2:11 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
pikengren: it does vary from person to person. it's been about two years for me, still not sure if i'm ready, but thinking about it. my best approximation , she started about two years before the divorce.

wowcool

you know what i'm talking aboutcool dancing dancing dancing

i should have seen and taken the steps to curefrustrated frustrated

too late nowcheers very mad
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#23
Jun 3, 2009 2:13 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
krisha: what 3 year? 17 year yah know

whatroll eyes 17 years

i call that a recoverybouquet
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#24
Jun 3, 2009 2:19 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
YURIMA: Santarosapaul,i agree,becouse your heart tell's
you when you are ready to accept a new LOVE..
Yuti~edna



yescool

you are truly so right
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#25
Jun 3, 2009 2:21 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
phoenixrising1: yes

you are truly so right
Just don't give up, she's out there somewhere hug wine
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#26
Jun 3, 2009 10:23 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
morgan5: Just don't give up, she's out there somewhere


thanks morgan.....i am sure you are right.....wine
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#27
Jun 3, 2009 10:27 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Sunnn
SunnnSunnnValletta, Majjistral Malta72 Posts
SunnnValletta, Majjistral Malta72 posts
phoenixrising1: just a question..is a real one for me....i probably won't wait near long enough.....and we do not have the ability here to talk about what needs to happen so i will forum that one...thanks

kds


Just sign divorce papers and move on
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#28
Jun 3, 2009 10:27 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
FallingmanDublin, Ireland11,436 posts
Sunnn: Just sign divorce papers and move on
what if you can't write!? laugh
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#29
Jun 3, 2009 11:21 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
CjTenorSax
CjTenorSaxCjTenorSaxAtwater, Ohio USA26 Threads 5,082 Posts
CjTenorSaxAtwater, Ohio USA5,082 posts
It is different for everyone.

I almost got started again right after my divorce. I was 27 yrs old and I was wise enough to realize I needed to heal and called it off almost as soon as it had gotten started. The Guy was devastated. He was a very nice guy. I feel bad to this day.

His Mother and Mine had been in touch and His parents understood.

After that It took me three years b4 I dated again.

I know in Counceling and for Al-anon Family groups they say no major decisions for 6 months to a year. I think they say the same for AA as well, but don't quote me.

That does seem like good advice.sad flower sad flower sad flower
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#30
Jun 3, 2009 11:31 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Sasyecat
SasyecatSasyecatCarroll, Iowa USA23 Posts
SasyecatCarroll, Iowa USA23 posts
This is just something that can't be timed, you can't time how soon you will fall in love, or how soon you will fall out of love.

The best you can do for youself and the next person you are involved with is get past the anger and hurt feelings first.

If your still thinking of your ex everyday, your not ready.
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#31
Jun 3, 2009 2:09 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
CjTenorSax: It is different for everyone.

I almost got started again right after my divorce. I was 27 yrs old and I was wise enough to realize I needed to heal and called it off almost as soon as it had gotten started. The Guy was devastated. He was a very nice guy. I feel bad to this day.

His Mother and Mine had been in touch and His parents understood.

After that It took me three years b4 I dated again.

I know in Counceling and for Al-anon Family groups they say no major decisions for 6 months to a year. I think they say the same for AA as well, but don't quote me.

That does seem like good advice.


thankyou for sharing thatcool

i really had no idea it was such a long process....my wife and i agreed to be separated over over two tears ago and we went different directions,,but on the surface it looked like we were going to mend,,,after the break up....i joined this site with the intent to remarry the day after the divorce...frustrated

i have really gained so much from what has been shared with me...wine i thank you againhandshake
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#32
Jun 3, 2009 2:12 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Sasyecat: This is just something that can't be timed, you can't time how soon you will fall in love, or how soon you will fall out of love.

The best you can do for youself and the next person you are involved with is get past the anger and hurt feelings first.

If your still thinking of your ex everyday, your not ready.


first thing in the morning...no good ? doh doh

how did you know i was angry and hurt?
very mad very mad very mad very mad very mad crying
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#33
Jun 3, 2009 3:17 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Good4U2
Good4U2Good4U2Gallatin, Tennessee USA15 Threads 1 Polls 929 Posts
Good4U2Gallatin, Tennessee USA929 posts
phoenixrising1: just a question..is a real one for me....i probably won't wait near long enough.....and we do not have the ability here to talk about what needs to happen so i will forum that one...thanks

kds
Wait long enough for the prenupual to get drawn up!!! And you might also want the feelings toward the person to grow a little bit...laugh bouquet
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#34
Jun 3, 2009 3:27 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Laura25Somewhere, New York USA8,178 posts
phoenixrising1:
how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)

just a question..is a real one for me....i probably won't wait near long enough.....and we do not have the ability here to talk about what needs to happen so i will forum that one...thanks

kds


There is no time frame for how and when people fall in love.

But it's for sure important not to be in a marriage when proposing another marriage. JMO.
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#35
Jun 3, 2009 5:08 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
CjTenorSax
CjTenorSaxCjTenorSaxAtwater, Ohio USA26 Threads 5,082 Posts
CjTenorSaxAtwater, Ohio USA5,082 posts
You are welcome. I am glad to help.

Be kind to yourself and give YOU time.hug comfort hug comfort
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#36
Jun 4, 2009 12:22 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Good4U2: Wait long enough for the prenupual to get drawn up!!! And you might also want the feelings toward the person to grow a little bit...


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cheers
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#37
Jun 4, 2009 12:31 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Laura25: There is no time frame for how and when people fall in love.

But it's for sure important not to be in a marriage when proposing another marriage. JMO.


i felt i should remarry the day after the divorce frustrated

i don't know what to say devil

I really can't wait to get my feet back on the ground...it feels like the first dip in a rollercoaster ride...for the last 8 weeks

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cheers cheers


hi jmo
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#38
Jun 4, 2009 12:37 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
jvaskiunknown, California USA9,576 posts
Until you see if the credit card accounts have been changed scold
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#39
Jun 4, 2009 1:02 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Why are people opssest with time???

dont waitgrin
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#40
Jun 4, 2009 1:41 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
sweet_saucy2008
sweet_saucy2008sweet_saucy2008Northwest, Tennessee USA506 Posts
sweet_saucy2008Northwest, Tennessee USA506 posts
It is essential to allow ourselves time to exhale. Rediscover who we are. After being a part of a relationship where it is not me, but we, it is important to set up our own home and figure out what we want for our future. Do you want to rush into something blindly, take the time to get to know someone, or have alone time to do things we may have had to sacrifice for someone else.
I have been divorced for 3 yrs. and I am happier being single than I ever was being married. I can be myself and do my own thing. I live by my own rules. I am open to meeting someone, but I do not wish to remarry. You can have a relationship with someone and still have your own space. There are much worse things in life than staying single. beer
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#41
Jun 4, 2009 1:44 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
sweet_saucy2008: It is essential to allow ourselves time to exhale. Rediscover who we are. After being a part of a relationship where it is not me, but we, it is important to set up our own home and figure out what we want for our future. Do you want to rush into something blindly, take the time to get to know someone, or have alone time to do things we may have had to sacrifice for someone else.
I have been divorced for 3 yrs. and I am happier being single than I ever was being married. I can be myself and do my own thing. I live by my own rules. I am open to meeting someone, but I do not wish to remarry. You can have a relationship with someone and still have your own space. There are much worse things in life than staying single.
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#42
Jun 4, 2009 7:37 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
CjTenorSax
CjTenorSaxCjTenorSaxAtwater, Ohio USA26 Threads 5,082 Posts
CjTenorSaxAtwater, Ohio USA5,082 posts
sweet_saucy2008: It is essential to allow ourselves time to exhale. Rediscover who we are. After being a part of a relationship where it is not me, but we, it is important to set up our own home and figure out what we want for our future. Do you want to rush into something blindly, take the time to get to know someone, or have alone time to do things we may have had to sacrifice for someone else.
I have been divorced for 3 yrs. and I am happier being single than I ever was being married. I can be myself and do my own thing. I live by my own rules. I am open to meeting someone, but I do not wish to remarry. You can have a relationship with someone and still have your own space. There are much worse things in life than staying single.


Very true!
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#43
Jun 4, 2009 10:32 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA972 posts
I say whenever your ready you will know it. Just be careful not to fall into a rut and let that failed relationship keep you from jumping back in the game. I started dating about 3 weeks after my divorce. It helps sometimes..............banana
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#44
Jun 6, 2009 10:58 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Sunnn: Just sign divorce papers and move on


THANKYOUcool

ALREADY DONE!

wine
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#45
Jun 6, 2009 10:59 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Fallingman: what if you can't write!?


cool MAKE your markwine
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#46
Jun 6, 2009 11:23 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
I couldn't begin to guess a time cause everyone is totally different.I see getting over a divorce as being no different then getting over a spouse who passed away cause there's still mourning and grieving involved.Only you'll know when the time is right for you to do so.
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#47
Jun 9, 2009 12:33 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
ohiogirl9
ohiogirl9ohiogirl9hubbard, Ohio USA2 Posts
ohiogirl9hubbard, Ohio USA2 posts
I hear they say one month for every year you were together.
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#48
Jun 9, 2009 1:03 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Good4U2
Good4U2Good4U2Gallatin, Tennessee USA15 Threads 1 Polls 929 Posts
Good4U2Gallatin, Tennessee USA929 posts
somechick: I couldn't begin to guess a time cause everyone is totally different.I see getting over a divorce as being no different then getting over a spouse who passed away cause there's still mourning and grieving involved.Only you'll know when the time is right for you to do so.
I think there is a big different. Many of the healing steps are the same but With a divorce your spouse is walking around and that's a big difference...

Hey get with someone as soon as you want to It doesn't have to be forever but it will help you realize there is life after divorce and that someone else can still care about you.cheers
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#49
Jun 9, 2009 7:23 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada1,169 posts
you would know best, as only you know how you feel about it. When it feels right.
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#50
Jun 10, 2009 6:17 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
ohiogirl9: I hear they say one month for every year you were together.



wow, i never heard that before. i wish i had. if you need a guidline, that's the best i have heard.


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