I rarely read these forums and hardly ever comment, but if I were to leave I wouldn't announce it or write about in the forum, I would just delete my account. When I leave it would be for one of two reasons......either I have found my special someone or because this site just plain SUX. The latter is more likely.
SensualVixen: Yes, and no poll or thread on this site is going to stop those who desire to start an attention seeking "I am Leaving" thread who wish for those to beg them to stay, or those who do who never leave, or those who do and then return....
literally w/in the last 3 days this same topic was up for discussion somewhere
i will say now what i said then
what annoys me more is that everyone ignores it
i overlook some things but geez when there is an elephant in the room i say we welcome it and get on with our lives
SensualVixen: I'm not fighting.....seems the OP wishes to though because she doesn't seem to read thoroughly or doesn't understand when someone is joking.
I know you were not fighting... I was just kidding... And I know what you mean about someone misunderstanding someone... It has happened to me many of times... Or was it that many???
SensualVixen: I'm not fighting.....seems the OP wishes to though because she doesn't seem to read thoroughly or doesn't understand when someone is joking.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Ashes: Well, if I ever left, which I did a year ago, I would send private e mails to the friends I have made, but not make a Thread or Poll of it, to each his own, I don´t Critisize or give my opinions openly if someone wants to go, I may e mail them, but never Post.
I have left the site a few times only to come back. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I had too many friends here to individually e-mail, so I made a thread that I was leaving for a while.
I never made a thread to say I am leaving CS for good because I am mad at the site. I guess there is a distinction between leaving for a while and coming back like I do, and leaving for good pronouncements.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
I can confess to having "left" or intending to leave on about 3 occasions whilst having been here, though I can't say I have "threatened" to leave... I am not one for dramatics so not sure what the "threatening" thing is about, other than seeking attention, yes?
Things evolve, change, move on here, just as with RL, I guess. For me personally.... almost all the "oldies but goodies" are gone, each time I have returned its been even more lack-lustre than the last time AND.... I have met someone, of course. All these factors will, and DO, play a part.
Perhaps I no longer have anything worthwhile to contribute (if I ever did)??!
So much features in the equation, change is a good thing and, after all.... nothing is FOREVER, is it?!
I have stayed for the fabulous friends I have made, but then I am in contact with those most special to me off-site.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
mbcasey: I have left the site a few times only to come back. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I had too many friends here to individually e-mail, so I made a thread that I was leaving for a while.
I never made a thread to say I am leaving CS for good because I am mad at the site. I guess there is a distinction between leaving for a while and coming back like I do, and leaving for good pronouncements.
Well for me not to sound arrogant or what have you..
But i will post what i want when i want..
Whether its a good-bye thread and then tomorrow i come back in..
Jul 15, 2009 4:29 PM CST Why do people threaten to leave CS?
liveNlargerin a good place, Kildare Ireland246 Posts
liveNlargerin a good place, Kildare Ireland246 posts
SensualVixen: Sweet, when you start your boyfriend troubles threads are you seeking attention or advice? When you post a joke are you seeking attention or wanting us to have a laugh?
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
mbcasey: I have left the site a few times only to come back. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I had too many friends here to individually e-mail, so I made a thread that I was leaving for a while.
I never made a thread to say I am leaving CS for good because I am mad at the site. I guess there is a distinction between leaving for a while and coming back like I do, and leaving for good pronouncements.
That's fair enough, Ken! It is good to see you still here though, love!
The Forums just wouldn't be the same.... and you know it!
Jul 15, 2009 5:36 PM CST Why do people threaten to leave CS?
liveNlargerin a good place, Kildare Ireland246 Posts
liveNlargerin a good place, Kildare Ireland246 posts
druidess6308: I love the ones that come in and say that who have never posted in the forums. Those are my favorites.
"This site doesn't work and you all suck. Nobody ever wants to talk to me. I'm leaving." Never seen them before...don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya, personally.
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