It all depends on the kind of man you want. 80% of men respect the women in their lives and play games with others. Stop dreaming of those flash men cause they have a lot of women around them. That humble guy next door could be the one to fill the gap.
solsticemoon: As if...do I need to put you on the most wanted list...for crimes you may carry out??
i don't know, maybe. it might be a good idea. i watched that movie,- observe and report, yesterday and there was a flasher in it and i thought, damn, that looks like fun, i could get into that.
Its take a decent women to see a decent man for what he truely is. Looking into the glass as half empty vice half full is a equal (shared) perspective of what a decent person really is. Im very decent, but tend to be taken advantage of by many women (past) for it. Keep looking you will find that decent (quality) person.
RillyNiceGuy: I have always tried to be......and it doesn't mean crap!
............And Sadly,and I really don't want too.....But I have to agree with the above Author.....If you a Decent,Sincere,Genuine and Caring Guy....Sorry to say this.....You just get 'used','abused' and 'hammered into the ground' by the Western European Ladies.....
Welcome more and more decent men come to China, welcome, welcome!!!lol
... Three of my best Friends here in New Zealand, have married highly intelligent and professional Chinese Ladies and all of them have been happily married for over ten years now,and all have started Families too ......and what awesome and wonderful Ladies they are, a 'breath of fresh air',and I mean this in respectable way towards Chinese Woman.......Chinese Woman still have that wonderful 'Femininity' quality.....not The 'Feminist' Brutishness that a lot of Western European Woman have now.....
Its kind of like you cannot see the forest for the trees. Nice guys tend to be overlooked for the bad boys with hopes that they can be changed. Now before I get inundated by all the women with foresight that look past the bad boys and see the forest that actually give the nice guys a chance. JMO
Yes, there are plenty of decent men out there, but you will never find him if you are not willing to take chances, make some moves , etc. I have been on this site for over a year and have only met a couple of women. One was a flake, the other a friend. What I have found is that women (most) don't email guys first, don't reply to half the emails sent, and are not willing to look past the pics (looks) in the first place. Therefore, no decent men for you.....lol
Sorry, not bitter, just honest. I consider myself to be a decent guy, well off, not too ugly for my age, etc. But, yet I am still here, still w/o any emails. So, there is my 2 cents for what it's worth. Good luck with your search.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
virgiomonkey: ..........And you are very correct 'Tainogirl'...I have made my own choice....Hence once my Daughter and Son are a little bit older and they can truly fend for themselves....I am out of here....till then ,I choose on my own accord to remain Single....Its 'Safer' and No more 'Dramas' or 'Crap' in my Life ..........
J.D
You know them Femi's are EVERYWHERE, just make sure you do some research to find their lair before you move to that new country.
tainogirl: You know them Femi's are EVERYWHERE, just make sure you do some research to find their lair before you move to that new country.
..........Don't Worry I have learnt my lesson....But Trust me on this one..... No other Country as 'Extreme Social Engineering Feminism' like New Zealand as...... ..... ...... .....
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