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Dec 13, 2009 5:10 AM CSTLadies, how many kids would you like?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio, Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts

Ladies, how many kids would you like?(Vote Below)

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No crappy nappies please
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If it was genetically, biologically, and financially possible, how many kids would you like to have, or have had? Do you believe that it's appropriate for women passed the age of 40 to have babies? Would you still want to have kids at the age of 50? Do we need more babies? Should family size be limited? Or is childbirth the ultimate joy and meaning in life for women?

dunno
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Dec 13, 2009 5:15 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
vmars01
vmars01vmars01Canberra, ACT Australia2 Posts
I want 4 kids. I grew up always going around to my aunties house, and I loved the atmosphere over there. She has 4 kids, and there is always something to do, someone to talk to, so fun to be had, trouble being made or gotten into somewhere in her house. I want a house like that of my own :)
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Dec 13, 2009 5:17 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I would have liked more children but had to have a hysterectomy when i was 29, so the choice was taken away.

But i have 2 fanastic children, and a grandaughter I am grateful for that.

I lost a grandaughter last Christmas that makes me really sad.
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Dec 13, 2009 5:18 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
My dear, your blue eyes are irrisistable. My christmas wish for you, is a wonderful husband, a double-story house, and a lounge with 4 beautiful kids. angel teddybear

vmars01: I want 4 kids. I grew up always going around to my aunties house, and I loved the atmosphere over there. She has 4 kids, and there is always something to do, someone to talk to, so fun to be had, trouble being made or gotten into somewhere in her house. I want a house like that of my own :)
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Dec 13, 2009 5:20 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Odysseus101: If it was genetically, biologically, and financially possible, how many kids would you like to have, or have had? I have had 3 biologically and fostered 7 more.
Do you believe that it's appropriate for women passed the age of 40 to have babies? If they have the energy for it.

Would you still want to have kids at the age of 50? That, to me, is the time for grand babies and having un-interrupted sleep.

Do we need more babies? It is the reason for our existence, primal whether we deem them necessary or not.

Should family size be limited? Yes.

Is childbirth the ultimate joy and meaning in life for women? For some women, not for all.
wine
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Dec 13, 2009 5:22 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
No more crappy nappies for me as in a few years and time is passing very quickly...i will be the one wearing the crappy nappies..wink grin
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Dec 13, 2009 5:23 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
Odysseus101: If it was genetically, biologically, and financially possible, how many kids would you like to have, or have had? Do you believe that it's appropriate for women passed the age of 40 to have babies? Would you still want to have kids at the age of 50? Do we need more babies? Should family size be limited? Or is childbirth the ultimate joy and meaning in life for women?


I have 2 girls aged 19 an 21 ..I also got a hysterectomy at 29 ..I wouldnt have had any more kids tho two`s more than enough..wine
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Dec 13, 2009 5:35 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
from 2 to 5 grin
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Dec 13, 2009 5:57 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Good questions! thumbs up laugh

Being a dog breeder, I do know what breeding involves (including the risks). Also, I apply very strict selection criteria for my dogs to be considered for breeding, and I know that I myself could not in all honesty pass all of those, so I doubt I'd be the very best material for continuing the species (unless I found an outstanding sire to complement me where I lack). roll eyes laugh

The next question is the knowledge of HOW to raise a good human. Having read mountains of books and attended courses and seminars on puppy rearing and dog training extensively for the last 10 years, I realize that there must be at least just as much to learn about rearing good children (and please DON'T tell me "it will all come naturally once it's born and placed in your arms", as having taught at school I've seen the results of that approach and sadly there's much to be desired).

That said, I am in awe of and take my hat off before families where children are raised with love AND knowledge, where their abilities and talents are channelled and developed to their maximum potential, and where they are happy and well equipped to continue living their life in happiness.

Do you believe that it's appropriate for women passed the age of 40 to have babies? - I don't care at what age someone decides to have children. Not really my business to judge anyone.

Should family size be limited? - I don't think so, but I do wish some people would invest in birth control rather than bring a new person into this world (where it's NOT easy to survive as it is).

Is childbirth the ultimate joy and meaning in life for women? - If it is, I have yet to discover it, although at this point I think I might rather adopt sometime down the road (when my own life is stable and I am living with a great and dependable guy).
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Dec 13, 2009 6:15 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
What do you lack?....I'm really interested. batting

Weimarlady: Good questions!

Being a dog breeder, I do know what breeding involves (including the risks). Also, I apply very strict selection criteria for my dogs to be considered for breeding, and I know that I myself could not in all honesty pass all of those, so I doubt I'd be the very best material for continuing the species (unless I found an outstanding sire to complement me where I lack).
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Dec 13, 2009 6:18 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
Are you kidding Ody?laugh GM or whatever time it is.handshake wine
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Dec 13, 2009 6:39 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Juneau
JuneauJuneauBlairgowrie, Tayside, Scotland UK87 Threads 34 Polls 2,947 Posts
No - definitely have never wanted children. I don't see what all the fuss is about dunno

I would much rather have a dog any day of the week! applause applause
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Dec 13, 2009 6:42 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Odysseus101: What do you lack?....I'm really interested.


Hey, I don't remember seeing you on the board of the breeding committee.... dancing
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Dec 13, 2009 6:42 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Juneau: No - definitely have never wanted children. I don't see what all the fuss is about

I would much rather have a dog any day of the week!
Your choice wine

But if you had experienced it, maybe yiu would understand its not something you can put into words.
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Dec 13, 2009 6:44 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
My mother once told me that having a family is THE defining experience in life. She said to me, "If you're not going to have kids, what's the point?" I think she was right. cool
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Dec 13, 2009 6:49 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Juneau: No - definitely have never wanted children. I don't see what all the fuss is about

I would much rather have a dog any day of the week!



But you can't teach a dog to do the dishes, cut the grass, sweep the chimney or go to the shops ....dunno laugh
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Dec 13, 2009 6:49 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Odysseus101: My mother once told me that having a family is THE defining experience in life. She said to me, "If you're not going to have kids, what's the point?" I think she was right.


Who knows.
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Dec 13, 2009 6:50 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
My mum. angel

Weimarlady: Who knows.
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Dec 13, 2009 6:50 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Odysseus101: If it was genetically, biologically, and financially possible, how many kids would you like to have, or have had? Do you believe that it's appropriate for women passed the age of 40 to have babies? Would you still want to have kids at the age of 50? Do we need more babies? Should family size be limited? Or is childbirth the ultimate joy and meaning in life for women?



You don't have an option NONE roll eyes

Some women are just not born to be a mothers. sigh
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Dec 13, 2009 6:52 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
RDM59: But you can't teach a dog to do the dishes, cut the grass, sweep the chimney or go to the shops ....
You taught yours???? where did i go wrong ?? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 13, 2009 6:53 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
morgan5: You taught yours???? where did i go wrong ??


rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 13, 2009 6:55 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
"None" would be categorized as "No Onerous Nasty Excrement"....or "No Crappy Nappies"....I covered all the bases, Konig.

Konigsberg: You don't have an option NONE

Some women are just not born to be a mothers.
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Dec 13, 2009 6:56 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
morgan5: You taught yours???? where did i go wrong ??



doh I lied, but at least they are toilet trained and I don't have to follow them around with a plastic glove and a bucket.....laugh rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Dec 13, 2009 6:57 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Odysseus101: If it was genetically, biologically, and financially possible, how many kids would you like to have, or have had? Do you believe that it's appropriate for women passed the age of 40 to have babies? Would you still want to have kids at the age of 50? Do we need more babies? Should family size be limited? Or is childbirth the ultimate joy and meaning in life for women?


ONE. Hey I already had one.applause Been there done that don't think I want to be doing it again.wine
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Dec 13, 2009 6:57 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
RDM59: I lied, but at least they are toilet trained and I don't have to follow them around with a plastic glove and a bucket.....
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I have recently got a puppy, tel me about it doh hug
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Dec 13, 2009 6:59 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
Konigsberg: You don't have an option NONE

Some women are just not born to be a mothers.
Some women are real mother........rolling on the floor laughing hug wine
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Dec 13, 2009 6:59 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
morgan5: I have recently got a puppy, tel me about it


Well I won't be buying any of your cakes .....giggle giggle
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Dec 13, 2009 7:00 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
bloodysue
bloodysuebloodysueSomewhere, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 64 Posts
Personally, I don't want any. They're ok if they're other people's....well some of them anyway...the way some parents raise their kids is absolutely atrocious. However, having my own is definitely not in my plans. Especially since I'm a very solitary person who likes to disappear every now and again.
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Dec 13, 2009 7:00 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
RDM59: Well I won't be buying any of your cakes .....
laugh But she's soooo cute !
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Dec 13, 2009 7:04 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
morgan5: But she's soooo cute !


Awwww, she is gorgeous Morgan ......thumbs up
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Dec 13, 2009 7:05 AM CST Ladies, how many kids would you like?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Good questions!

Being a dog breeder, I do know what breeding involves (including the risks). Also, I apply very strict selection criteria for my dogs to be considered for breeding, and I know that I myself could not in all honesty pass all of those, so I doubt I'd be the very best material for continuing the species (unless I found an outstanding sire to complement me where I lack).

The next question is the knowledge of HOW to raise a good human. Having read mountains of books and attended courses and seminars on puppy rearing and dog training extensively for the last 10 years, I realize that there must be at least just as much to learn about rearing good children (and please DON'T tell me "it will all come naturally once it's born and placed in your arms", as having taught at school I've seen the results of that approach and sadly there's much to be desired).quote]

I was breeding Great Danes and Italian Mastiffs for almost 15 years (which is nothing, timewise if you want to breed and raise high standarts breed.)



I totaly agree with you. There has to be all blood lines researched to 4th (at least) generation of both parents. Genetical predispositions of failures like displasia, character, body type, head and others( it is different for every breed)

Sometimes I wish people who wants to be parents could learn something from us, dog breeders. It might be sounds horrible and harsh that I am trying to compare Human to Cannine family. But genetic is genetic no matter what species. And selective breeding is an art.

Now you, people, may throw all stones on me ... I have a hole to hide in



hole laugh
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