How do you get aquainted? (22)
Turn the dating site off - leave the computer - then hit the local bar ? 
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itsallme112: There seems to be no fixed rule for dating. For me, I enjoy going for coffee and chat first. For others I feel an immediate connection and want to meet right away. How do you get acquainted with a prospect?
my friend josh has a website where you can send someone a dead fish on a plate as an opener....
just thought I'd mention it....
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It's been so long. . . .
. . . . . . . . I've forgotten.
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felixis99: my friend josh has a website where you can send someone a dead fish on a plate as an opener....just thought I'd mention it....
A live fish would be a good finisher.
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Skin on skin worked for me.
And,some light petting.
And,some light petting.
itsallme112: There seems to be no fixed rule for dating. For me, I enjoy going for coffee and chat first. For others I feel an immediate connection and want to meet right away. How do you get acquainted with a prospect?
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jvaski: Turn the dating site off - leave the computer - then hit the local bar ?
jvaski once again misses the point. many of us who are here are here because we do not want to hang out in the bars
jvaski - here you go: Dating 101 : see cute profile within a reasonable distance. send message (s), chat, establish reasonable possibility of attraction and compatibility, say. "Can I have your # to call, call and ask her to meet. Maybe even ask her on a date - now there's a novel idea. I should get a Pulitzer for this!
There's a quiz tomorrow
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"Ask for what you want, celebrate the no."
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Kittykins: A live fish would be a good finisher.
he needs to keep that live fish in his pants until we know each other better
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Dating 102: She turns out to be a complete fake looking for what she can get..
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I like the coffee idea, as u can see the person in their entity. Appearance, facial expressions etc. No hiding behind the computer.
Able to make a better judgemant.
Able to make a better judgemant.
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Hit him over the head with my club and drag him back to my woman cave.J/K
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if I find someone interesting i will message her a few times and then give her my yahoo or AIM so we can talk there. If that works out I will give her a riddle that will give her my phone number. If she solves it then she can call me and if we hit it off there I will meet her in person.
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coffee....movie...
Hockey game...
GO CANADA GO!
Hockey game...
GO CANADA GO!
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somechick: Hit him over the head with my club and drag him back to my woman cave.J/K
OUCH!! is that called having a BONK!!------ This poll is Archived ------
Exchange a few messages, meet for coffee and take it from there.
can I ask re one of the options, how can you be commited unless you have met they person?
can I ask re one of the options, how can you be commited unless you have met they person?
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itsallme112: There seems to be no fixed rule for dating. For me, I enjoy going for coffee and chat first. For others I feel an immediate connection and want to meet right away. How do you get acquainted with a prospect?
Sounds like you are panning for gold to me, still isnt Canada a good place for that!.------ This poll is Archived ------
Email a few times first before meeting in person and I am actually amazed at how high the percentage was for that option in the poll results given the fact that so many men want to meet right away.
If they can't be bothered to get to know you a little online first
PLUS if you don't feel that connection, even if purely based on friendship, then it's not worth meeting. It's not a reflection on anybody, only that there is no connection..
I am chatting to a couple of people at the moment that I would love to meet because the chat is good, steady, interesting; we have common traits/interests/life experiences. But that would take some organising as they are from other countries!!
If they can't be bothered to get to know you a little online first
PLUS if you don't feel that connection, even if purely based on friendship, then it's not worth meeting. It's not a reflection on anybody, only that there is no connection..I am chatting to a couple of people at the moment that I would love to meet because the chat is good, steady, interesting; we have common traits/interests/life experiences. But that would take some organising as they are from other countries!!
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ideally i prefer not to do it on a dating site. when i meet new people locally, male or female I usually just walk over and introduce myself
on here i have had no choice but to use e-mail, which to me seems cold and impersonal, there's no humanity to it, how does one express the genuine warmth and emotion in print?? and from great distances popping out to the nearest pub for a drink and conversation is a ridiculous suggestion.
phone conversations help some at least you can hear emotion in the other persons voice.
next step is traveling to meet, sometimes costly process.
on here i have had no choice but to use e-mail, which to me seems cold and impersonal, there's no humanity to it, how does one express the genuine warmth and emotion in print?? and from great distances popping out to the nearest pub for a drink and conversation is a ridiculous suggestion.
phone conversations help some at least you can hear emotion in the other persons voice.
next step is traveling to meet, sometimes costly process.
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