yes. But I don't always realize it at first sight...it kinda creeps up on you as you get to know the person and then it's like, "OMG, I have loved this person since I first saw him." And it doesn't always follow in kind with an initial lustful feeling, but it can. I have had this happen a few times - not many, and only once did I get to act on it. It is mutual, but all but 1 time in my past one of the both of us was either not available, or we lived too far apart and were returning home. I am just looking forward to the present and the future!!!!!!
Experience has taught me though to take it easy with these things
Well, it is to my understanding that Love is something you just don't hand over upon locking eyes for the first time or after experiencing some lovely dates during the lift-off stage.
Love is earned over a period of time and love overcomes every conceivable adversity presented in a loving relationship.
So no, I don't believe in Love at first site, the end.
tommykp: You get a feeling for someone when you first meet them. If that feeling that hits you is one of love, then you just experienced "Love at first sight".
What kind of love that might be would have to be asked as totally different question - with a million possible answers?
Chances are that if it does happen, the thing that you fall in love with is whatever it is that this person appears to be at first sight, which is most probably because they look like they fit your bill in one way or another.
But I think it's equally possible to make an instant connection with someone, that could very easily be called love in the deepest scene of the word. Every person gives off a different spark/vibe/feeling/warmth, and if that is the same spark/vibe/feeling/warmth that you are looking for (consciously, or unconsciously), then love is likely to follow. Especially if when you actually talk to this person, that they do indeed seem to fit you perfectly, and everything flows naturally. That is how it usually works; in my experience.
I also like this very much. Maybe I should change my opinion of Irish men
Englishman55: Yes, of course I do....... when I saw my two cildren born, it was love at first sight and that's a love that will last a lifetime, so it's extra special because it's "true" love too
absolutely, when my son was born, yes love at first sight.
Love at first sight ohhhhh yes, i fell in love with my fella the very first time i saw him, i loved him so much for many years, now we are not even talking and its so sad, but that's life, i had a lovely time loving him.
i think, for myself, that love is a beautiful space, time when you can be weary and be picked up, a time when you are not smiling and you are picked up again. the wonderful thing is, when in reverse i would want to do that for my partner. We may only fall down now and again but those times are so important, I know love means so much more. and that's cool, i understand.
MusicianfriendSan Andreas, California USA200 posts
I met a guy online...and we texted for months...then we finally talked..after that conversation..I knew he would be special in my life...and now..three years later..we are still tight close best friends...
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