Is it right for your CS-found-bf/gf to tell you to cancel your account once you started dating? (95)
hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
Well I guess, like me, you have made friends through CS forums. It would be selfish and insecure for someone to pack the online friends in. If that was the state of play when you first start dating then can you imagine after aa while he would probably be asking you not to see your friends in real life. Maybe changing your availability on profile might be a fair request but not to demand you cancel your account.
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
Relationships are all about trust and if he doesnt trust you there is no relationship.
The C/S account is not about searching for the love but about meeting new people and chatting to new friends, so if he doesnt like it then dump him.
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thanks! yes! we just called it quits 
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thanks! yes! we just called it quits
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
Tell him to take a Flying Leap!
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Conrad73: Tell him to take a Flying Leap!
lol! 'sorry, won't ever talk to him again
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
Would he have closed his account too I wonder?
You did right in dumping him.....CS is more than just a dating site.
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EssJay: Would he have closed his account too I wonder?
You did right in dumping him.....CS is more than just a dating site.
You did right in dumping him.....CS is more than just a dating site.
Unfortunately, it was him who dumped me
but yes! CS is more than just a dating site.
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
No, I don't trust you. I barely know you.
If you want to be taken seriously, act serious.
This is a dating site, if my presense here
made my S/O even slightly uncomfortable,
I'd drop you lot in half a heartbeat.
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Ocee35: No, I don't trust you. I barely know you.If you want to be taken seriously, act serious.
This is a dating site, if my presense here
made my S/O even slightly uncomfortable,
I'd drop you lot in half a heartbeat.
This is a dating site, if my presense here
made my S/O even slightly uncomfortable,
I'd drop you lot in half a heartbeat.
I respect your opinion, Sir.
FYI, he is here in my area as well. Yes, you don't know me because it's only now that you've seen me. Me even, I wont trust you because I don't know you, too. But if we start chatting we will get to know each other just like we did. We've seen and known each other for almost a year. I guess there are a hundred reasons why he wanted to cancel my account
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I would never tell a woman something like that, it wouldnt even occur to me because, competition is always there, even after marriage the man has to make the wife feel she is respected and prized and that she knows what to do, he is acting like your both in high school, so it is good you got rid of him. JMO.
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hbateach: I respect your opinion, Sir.
Thank you.
Mostly, I wanted to offer a counter point
to the general consensus.
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
so... you chose a virtual way of communication ..and dumped a real person ...cos that is what you have done ....
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Boban1: so... you chose a virtual way of communication ..and dumped a real person ...cos that is what you have done ....
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elmoangel: I would never tell a woman something like that, it wouldnt even occur to me because, competition is always there, even after marriage the man has to make the wife feel she is respected and prized and that she knows what to do, he is acting like your both in high school, so it is good you got rid of him. JMO.
an answer of a very secured man 
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The Chipmunks are dope heads !! I knew it ! It happens to all the rock stars doesn't it ?? 
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The Chipmunk likes the feeling...
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hbateach: he dumped me
oh dear.... sorry to hear that...
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he has every reason to not trust u. and u hv every reason to continue searching
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
It depends what your on here for.
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hbateach: whatever my reasons are, my respect for our relationship was always on the top priority list...
A very intelligent answer and one I would run with...
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
Depends what you mean by dating. Dating in real or online? If it is just online I would say don't cancel your a/c but maybe as someone else here said change your status if you are serious.
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Could be the first ultimatum of many.
I would take it as a warning sign and act accordingly.
Good luck.
I would take it as a warning sign and act accordingly.
Good luck.
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hbateach: He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?
i met my girlfriend ...on a different site....and we got for her an account here at C S ... not for romance but forums and friends...so ...
it COULD indicate your still shopping ..but ....
not necessarily
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Pixels1: Depends what you mean by dating. Dating in real or online? If it is just online I would say don't cancel your a/c but maybe as someone else here said change your status if you are serious.
i do not see an engagement ring???
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Pixels1: Depends what you mean by dating. Dating in real or online? If it is just online I would say don't cancel your a/c but maybe as someone else here said change your status if you are serious.
totally agree
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