illu_66: I have a range in my head, I think we all do. But it's hardly cast in stone.
There ARE,obviously, limits at BOTH ends, but I'd certainly not cross someone off my list 'because she is 1 year too young or too old'.
How shallow is THAT!
Would I take a 20 year old hottie...? Surprisingly NO?
What do I get? - the initial excitement and 'adventure' of the body, but you get that with any new partner. and the 'kudos' of having 'pulled' a PYT.
SO WHAT! I'd be spending time and emotional effort on something that'd never last.
I'm not after a trophy, I want an equal!
You guys are suprising me tonight by your answers! I was kind of hoping that these polls would show you men up as the shallow ones, but it doesn't seem to be happening!
Juneau: You guys are suprising me tonight by your answers! I was kind of hoping that these polls would show you men up as the shallow ones, but it doesn't seem to be happening!
In fact....looking at the old scoreboards...it's us women that are the shallow ones!! 20% of us want toy boys!!! (not me - honestly! )
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
Juneau: You guys are suprising me tonight by your answers! I was kind of hoping that these polls would show you men up as the shallow ones, but it doesn't seem to be happening!
I'm a bit confused as to why choosing any of the options would display shallowness.
What about people searching for someone who's the same gender as themselves? I'm bi, so does that mean I can vote in both polls? Cuz that's what I'm gonna do! :D
fizzy: What about people searching for someone who's the same gender as themselves? I'm bi, so does that mean I can vote in both polls? Cuz that's what I'm gonna do! :D
Oh it depends ..... for friendship - age is not in question.... But I prefer somone who's not quite dead.... inside...
and someone who doesn't just babble - querrell in endless speaches about her children and grandchildren..... the most boring talk for a man who was unhappy - he never got any himself....... To be honest....
I hate when people say age doesn't matter - because it's a very big lie... depending on what you want to reach in your life..
Age isn't realy an issue, but I would be lost on the conversation with a much younger woman. I have no idea of todays "happenings" so we wouldn't have much in common.
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There ARE,obviously, limits at BOTH ends, but I'd certainly not cross someone off my list 'because she is 1 year too young or too old'.
How shallow is THAT!
Would I take a 20 year old hottie...? Surprisingly NO?
What do I get? - the initial excitement and 'adventure' of the body, but you get that with any new partner. and the 'kudos' of having 'pulled' a PYT.
SO WHAT! I'd be spending time and emotional effort on something that'd never last.
I'm not after a trophy, I want an equal!
are you on both poles'');