Nov 15, 2010 4:24 AM CST would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
xxfrecklesxx: No way.... Love me love my horse(s)..
they often become an issue with partners, but they know I have horses when we meet, so its no good telling me after a few dates they would want me to get rid of them, same with my 2 dogs, their part of my family, so they would stay too..
only that way is working to me also
never would give away my dog, for nobody if they cannot handle with that, their Love cannot be real, so bye bye
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
inkognito: only that way is working to me also
never would give away my dog, for nobody if they cannot handle with that, their Love cannot be real, so bye bye and I love horses toooooooooooo I envy you
I just sneaked a peak at you're profile...your little dog is gorgeous!
never would give away my dog, for nobody if they cannot handle with that, their Love cannot be real, so bye bye and I love horses toooooooooooo I envy you
Nov 15, 2010 4:39 AM CST would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
inkognito: only that way is working to me also
never would give away my dog, for nobody if they cannot handle with that, their Love cannot be real, so bye bye and I love horses toooooooooooo I envy you
actually, I've to admit, my dog is not really "well-behaved" quite cheeky and spoiled but nevertheless, she's a loveable one, never bad
once an ex only did lift his hand for to beat her she never ever will get beaten, of nobody
I have been there and did see it, so he didn't... but how far can I trust him, not to beat her when I'm just out in another room maybe?
alarm bells went on, if you can understand what I mean?
smoothing talk like "I accept your dog, as it's yours" just
so simply said, someone who does not love animals, just cannot be someone for me, dot!
inkognito: thanks for that comment, that will calm down Steve again also
but lambs in an apartment?
I think, that's also a wrong way of Love of animals
But would you also accept a monkey dancing around in the house? I'm serious asking now, because I've seen that also, in Kenya. I ask, because if we Westerns talk about "pets", we usually think about doggies and cats.
My last partner actually did say that, he wanted me to put my 2 little dogs in the rescue kennels simply because he didn't like little dogs. I ignored him of course and he got used to them. Now when he visits me, the dogs are jumping all over him, he makes such a fuss of them, giving them treats etc. and every time I speak to him on the phone he asks how they are.
Nov 15, 2010 5:08 AM CST would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
mikygr: But would you also accept a monkey dancing around in the house? I'm serious asking now, because I've seen that also, in Kenya. I ask, because if we Westerns talk about "pets", we usually think about doggies and cats.
well, it's a good question as I think, dogs, cats, etc by the evolution,breedings they got pets not that sure about monkeys I also love birds, but I cannot see them living only in a small cage, where they cannot really fly, it's just against their nature even the same with cats, once I had two Persian cats, which might be "house cats" but I just couldn't confine them in the house as they are cats and want out and you will never get rid of these naturally drive of them by any breed of them to force them to stay in the house all the time, to me that's cruel
so I don't know, may those monkeys life free in the house, may they go out? jumping around in the trees? or are they getting caught in a cage the most of the time?
I wouldn't like to have a monkey, as sweet as they are but could I give them what they really need? don't think so
Nov 15, 2010 5:10 AM CST would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
Maisie: My last partner actually did say that, he wanted me to put my 2 little dogs in the rescue kennels simply because he didn't like little dogs. I ignored him of course and he got used to them. Now when he visits me, the dogs are jumping all over him, he makes such a fuss of them, giving them treats etc. and every time I speak to him on the phone he asks how they are.
inkognito: well, it's a good question as I think, dogs, cats, etc by the evolution,breedings they got pets not that sure about monkeys I also love birds, but I cannot see them living only in a small cage, where they cannot really fly, it's just against their nature even the same with cats, once I had two Persian cats, which might be "house cats" but I just couldn't confine them in the house as they are cats and want out and you will never get rid of these naturally drive of them by any breed of them to force them to stay in the house all the time, to me that's cruel
so I don't know, may those monkeys life free in the house, may they go out? jumping around in the trees? or are they getting caught in a cage the most of the time?
I wouldn't like to have a monkey, as sweet as they are but could I give them what they really need? don't think so
That's exactly what I ment, not all animals are made by nature to be "pets", and if someone really loves animals, he must respect this fact. I not only felt sorry about birds, but also about some other "pets" I've seen. And one last thing I would like to mention: Dogs have an extreme sense to know if you really love theme or not. And if you really love theme, you never have to pretend, or even to fear. This is my multiple experience I had, even with "wild" dogs".
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
mikygr: That's exactly what I ment, not all animals are made by nature to be "pets", and if someone really loves animals, he must respect this fact. I not only felt sorry about birds, but also about some other "pets" I've seen. And one last thing I would like to mention: Dogs have an extreme sense to know if you really love theme or not. And if you really love theme, you never have to pretend, or even to fear. This is my multiple experience I had, even with "wild" dogs".
lion131: if you had a much loved pet/pets,and you had met somebody,and it was getting serious between you,what would you do if your lover/partner objected strongly to the pet,and issued you with an ultimatum?you know what i mean..."the animal goes or i do!"what would you do?
I would tell him, "You know where the door is. Goodbye." I HAVE done this and would do so again. If we reached a compromise about what rooms the pets were or were not permitted in, then that would be acceptable. My Furbabies are a package deal. Love me, Love my Babies. Period.
lion131: if you had a much loved pet/pets,and you had met somebody,and it was getting serious between you,what would you do if your lover/partner objected strongly to the pet,and issued you with an ultimatum?you know what i mean..."the animal goes or i do!"what would you do?
A person should never have to choose like that.A pet is part of a person's family.Ask yourself what will they try to change next?
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
Steve5721: Anyone with a brain knows it's mint sauce.
everybody knows if its lamb,it should be lovage leaves.. as for pets,if someone doesnt like my dog,she will decide the way he will be out,walking on his own feet ..or else..
cherrybrandy: everybody knows if its lamb,it should be lovage leaves.. as for pets,if someone doesnt like my dog,she will decide the way he will be out,walking on his own feet ..or else..
cherrybrandy: everybody knows if its lamb,it should be lovage leaves.. as for pets,if someone doesnt like my dog,she will decide the way he will be out,walking on his own feet ..or else..
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they often become an issue with partners, but they know I have horses when we meet, so its no good telling me after a few dates they would want me to get rid of them, same with my 2 dogs, their part of my family, so they would stay too..
only that way is working to me also
never would give away my dog, for nobody
if they cannot handle with that, their Love cannot be real, so bye bye
and I love horses toooooooooooo
I envy you