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Dec 21, 2010 8:19 PM CSTThe one who loves the least...
mmichaelm
mmichaelmmmichaelmPort Charlotte, Florida, USA6 Threads 1 Polls 240 Posts

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...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
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Dec 21, 2010 8:22 PM CST The one who loves the least...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?


Absolutely, and I don't think it is a bad thing as long as that person has respect for his/her partner. conversing
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Dec 21, 2010 8:27 PM CST The one who loves the least...
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
I think control freaks control relationships.
Other wise, I prefer an equal, work together sort of thing. cool
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Dec 21, 2010 8:31 PM CST The one who loves the least...
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
jeepers: I think control freaks control relationships.
Other wise, I prefer an equal, work together sort of thing.


ooops dancing
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Dec 21, 2010 8:34 PM CST The one who loves the least...
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
How do you know? Who loves the least.

wine
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Dec 21, 2010 8:36 PM CST The one who loves the least...
jeepers: I think control freaks control relationships.
Other wise, I prefer an equal, work together sort of thing.
thumbs up thumbs up wave def agree
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Dec 21, 2010 8:39 PM CST The one who loves the least...
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Good evening ladies. tip hat
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Dec 21, 2010 8:43 PM CST The one who loves the least...
sasyecats
sasyecatssasyecatsCarroll, Iowa USA15 Threads 3 Polls 1,263 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?



I've heard that a relationship will last if the man loves the woman just a little bit more than she loves him...I guess leaving her to control the relationship..

No wonder I see so many men with really bossy ( to put it nicely ) women, well now I know why.

I want a partnership, not a dictatorship. uh oh
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Dec 21, 2010 8:50 PM CST The one who loves the least...
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
sasyecats: I've heard that a relationship will last if the man loves the woman just a little bit more than she loves him...I guess leaving her to control the relationship..

No wonder I see so many men with really bossy ( to put it nicely ) women, well now I know why.

I want a partnership, not a dictatorship.


I will let you dictate to me any day! bowing
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Dec 21, 2010 9:43 PM CST The one who loves the least...
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada3 Threads 869 Posts
jeepers: I think control freaks control relationships.
Other wise, I prefer an equal, work together sort of thing.
But Buddy...you told me that you like to be controlled. In fact you like to be whipped...and rode hard. I am confused. You are telling me to control you. But I am not in control. You are. Therefore you must be the control freak. Next time you can whip me Buddy. You know you want to!!! (it is payback time)(ahahahahahahahahaha)
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Dec 21, 2010 9:45 PM CST The one who loves the least...
Tnpseudonym
TnpseudonymTnpseudonymmiddle TN, Tennessee USA12 Threads 575 Posts
sasyecats: I've heard that a relationship will last if the man loves the woman just a little bit more than she loves him...I guess leaving her to control the relationship..

No wonder I see so many men with really bossy ( to put it nicely ) women, well now I know why.

I want a partnership, not a dictatorship.
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Dec 21, 2010 9:47 PM CST The one who loves the least...
woohoo128
woohoo128woohoo128staring at the moon somewhere, Essex, England UK80 Threads 3 Polls 5,081 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?






uh oh doesn't get the wet patch uh oh
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Dec 21, 2010 9:51 PM CST The one who loves the least...
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
my opinion is the one who loves more should love themselves enough to exit out and find someone who will love them equally the same..no one should have more control or power over another..Just my opinion on this but have learned to follow my own advise.. lol
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Dec 21, 2010 10:37 PM CST The one who loves the least...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I think it depends on how you handle the situation.

The one that loves the most can also control the relationship if you're willing to take a risk to lose it all.
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Dec 21, 2010 10:54 PM CST The one who loves the least...
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?


I think OP that it is a sad idea, but that it can sometimes be true in the beginning especially where one of the partners seems to make a greater effort, Bit IDK that it means that the other loves less. People have individual ways of sharing & expressing their love.

In a long term relationship of marriage the balance tips now & then both ways. If there is an overall lack of equilibrium or if the love really is markedly unequal for a lengthy time, the relationship will not last - whether long or short term. at least, it will not last with any quality


and it is not always the one who is loved most who ends it. often the one who loves more gets fed up with always giving and not getting much back. often as not that partner ends it, and then, once gone, the other partner realizes with regret what has happened.

this many of us, I think, have learned from experience, unfortunatelysad flower
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Dec 21, 2010 11:52 PM CST The one who loves the least...
JeanMarlow
JeanMarlowJeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA17 Threads 815 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
Not necessarily. If the one who loves the most is smart and realizes he/she is being controled and not valued, that person will either insist on being treated well or will walk. I have experienced this from both sides.
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Dec 22, 2010 1:32 AM CST The one who loves the least...
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
JeanMarlow: Not necessarily. If the one who loves the most is smart and realizes he/she is being controled and not valued, that person will either insist on being treated well or will walk. I have experienced this from both sides.


my opinion as well...
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Dec 22, 2010 2:04 AM CST The one who loves the least...
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
hmm,i would say its more about individual's approach to love and how do we understand love,how giving we are...dunno
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Dec 22, 2010 2:13 AM CST The one who loves the least...
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
cherrybrandy: hmm,i would say its more about individual's approach to love and how do we understand love,how giving we are...


Dobro Utro A wave i'li Good Morning ! all ! wave

Someone once told me to marry a man you like more than love but I couldnt marry a man unless I loved him unconditionaly hence I am still single


moping grin peace
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Dec 22, 2010 2:20 AM CST The one who loves the least...
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
todger: Dobro Utro A i'li Good Morning ! all !

Someone once told me to marry a man you like more than love but I couldnt marry a man unless I loved him unconditionaly hence I am still single
Todgeeeereunion always nice to see youhug
next time im back in June,we should have that beer
same for me with men,if i happen to fall in love,no more rational thinking..laugh and im bloody stubborn too..frustrated
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Dec 22, 2010 2:35 AM CST The one who loves the least...
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
cherrybrandy: Todgeeee always nice to see you
next time im back in June,we should have that
same for me with men,if i happen to fall in love,no more rational thinking.. and im bloody stubborn too..


The realy frustrating thing is people tell you to ''go and get ''what you want but because I am a woman I am NOT supposed to go chasing him frustrated

and yes defo for that wine still waiting to try this Brandy Rakia you promised me

grin yay

we just had 4 feet of snow here in Vlas but its warming up again and maybe 15 degrees Xmas day

santa waving reindeer VESELA KOLEDA ZA TEB hug
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Dec 22, 2010 2:41 AM CST The one who loves the least...
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
todger: The realy frustrating thing is people tell you to ''go and get ''what you want but because I am a woman I am NOT supposed to go chasing him

and yes defo for that still waiting to try this Brandy Rakia you promised me



we just had 4 feet of snow here in Vlas but its warming up again and maybe 15 degrees Xmas day

VESELA KOLEDA ZA TEB
CHESTITA KOLEDA!chestito ROJDESTVO CHRISTOVO!gingerbread dancingsanta
we ve got about 2 inch snow..uh oh
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Dec 22, 2010 3:14 AM CST The one who loves the least...
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
plainlyjune: Has anyone taken your offer yet?
laugh Sadly no! Mailbox is empty! I will just have to keep waiting and hoping!laugh laugh teddybear
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Dec 22, 2010 4:36 AM CST The one who loves the least...
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
I think youre right........but what kinda love is that in which there has to "be" control? hmmmmmmmm??? cool
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Dec 22, 2010 4:43 AM CST The one who loves the least...
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
felixis99: I think OP that it is a sad idea, but that it can sometimes be true in the beginning especially where one of the partners seems to make a greater effort, Bit IDK that it means that the other loves less. People have individual ways of sharing & expressing their love.

In a long term relationship of marriage the balance tips now & then both ways. If there is an overall lack of equilibrium or if the love really is markedly unequal for a lengthy time, the relationship will not last - whether long or short term. at least, it will not last with any qualityand it is not always the one who is loved most who ends it. often the one who loves more gets fed up with always giving and not getting much back. often as not that partner ends it, and then, once gone, the other partner realizes with regret what has happened.

this many of us, I think, have learned from experience, unfortunately


thumbs up so very true.

And yes, the person who loves the least does has some control because the other person has given that power to them.
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Dec 22, 2010 4:43 AM CST The one who loves the least...
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
911gypsy: I think youre right........but what kinda love is that in which there has to "be" control? hmmmmmmmm???
I dont mind control,as long as she takes the handcuffs off me after.grin
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Dec 22, 2010 4:45 AM CST The one who loves the least...
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
sultryash: so very true.

And yes, the person who loves the least does (s)some control because the other person has given that power to them.
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Dec 22, 2010 4:45 AM CST The one who loves the least...
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
time4fun4u: I dont mind control,as long as she takes the handcuffs off me after.
Just shaddap and sit still............grin
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Dec 22, 2010 4:47 AM CST The one who loves the least...
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
sultryash: so very true.

And yes, the person who loves the least does has some control because the other person has given that power to them.


thumbs up peace
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Dec 22, 2010 4:48 AM CST The one who loves the least...
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
911gypsy: Just shaddap and sit still............
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Lovely reply bouquet
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Dec 22, 2010 4:51 AM CST The one who loves the least...
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.

Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?

Theirs some true to that statement,however i believe when both party's love each other,it will be equal.Things should be discussed before any big designations are made.wave
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