Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
I've heard that a relationship will last if the man loves the woman just a little bit more than she loves him...I guess leaving her to control the relationship..
No wonder I see so many men with really bossy ( to put it nicely ) women, well now I know why.
sasyecats: I've heard that a relationship will last if the man loves the woman just a little bit more than she loves him...I guess leaving her to control the relationship..
No wonder I see so many men with really bossy ( to put it nicely ) women, well now I know why.
jeepers: I think control freaks control relationships. Other wise, I prefer an equal, work together sort of thing.
But Buddy...you told me that you like to be controlled. In fact you like to be whipped...and rode hard. I am confused. You are telling me to control you. But I am not in control. You are. Therefore you must be the control freak. Next time you can whip me Buddy. You know you want to!!!(it is payback time)(ahahahahahahahahaha)
sasyecats: I've heard that a relationship will last if the man loves the woman just a little bit more than she loves him...I guess leaving her to control the relationship..
No wonder I see so many men with really bossy ( to put it nicely ) women, well now I know why.
Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
my opinion is the one who loves more should love themselves enough to exit out and find someone who will love them equally the same..no one should have more control or power over another..Just my opinion on this but have learned to follow my own advise.. lol
Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
I think OP that it is a sad idea, but that it can sometimes be true in the beginning especially where one of the partners seems to make a greater effort, Bit IDK that it means that the other loves less. People have individual ways of sharing & expressing their love.
In a long term relationship of marriage the balance tips now & then both ways. If there is an overall lack of equilibrium or if the love really is markedly unequal for a lengthy time, the relationship will not last - whether long or short term. at least, it will not last with any quality
and it is not always the one who is loved most who ends it. often the one who loves more gets fed up with always giving and not getting much back. often as not that partner ends it, and then, once gone, the other partner realizes with regret what has happened.
this many of us, I think, have learned from experience, unfortunately
JeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA815 posts
mmichaelm: ...controls the relationship.
Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
Not necessarily. If the one who loves the most is smart and realizes he/she is being controled and not valued, that person will either insist on being treated well or will walk. I have experienced this from both sides.
JeanMarlow: Not necessarily. If the one who loves the most is smart and realizes he/she is being controled and not valued, that person will either insist on being treated well or will walk. I have experienced this from both sides.
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
todger: Dobro Utro A i'li Good Morning ! all !
Someone once told me to marry a man you like more than love but I couldnt marry a man unless I loved him unconditionaly hence I am still single
Todgeeee always nice to see you next time im back in June,we should have that same for me with men,if i happen to fall in love,no more rational thinking.. and im bloody stubborn too..
cherrybrandy: Todgeeee always nice to see you next time im back in June,we should have that same for me with men,if i happen to fall in love,no more rational thinking.. and im bloody stubborn too..
The realy frustrating thing is people tell you to ''go and get ''what you want but because I am a woman I am NOT supposed to go chasing him
and yes defo for that still waiting to try this Brandy Rakia you promised me
we just had 4 feet of snow here in Vlas but its warming up again and maybe 15 degrees Xmas day
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
felixis99: I think OP that it is a sad idea, but that it can sometimes be true in the beginning especially where one of the partners seems to make a greater effort, Bit IDK that it means that the other loves less. People have individual ways of sharing & expressing their love.
In a long term relationship of marriage the balance tips now & then both ways. If there is an overall lack of equilibrium or if the love really is markedly unequal for a lengthy time, the relationship will not last - whether long or short term. at least, it will not last with any qualityand it is not always the one who is loved most who ends it. often the one who loves more gets fed up with always giving and not getting much back. often as not that partner ends it, and then, once gone, the other partner realizes with regret what has happened.
this many of us, I think, have learned from experience, unfortunately
so very true.
And yes, the person who loves the least does has some control because the other person has given that power to them.
Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?
Theirs some true to that statement,however i believe when both party's love each other,it will be equal.Things should be discussed before any big designations are made.
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Its an expression we've all probably heard before. What do you think?