When you're invisible no one knows what's approaching to If women should take role of Men to approach first wouldn't you fell that your manhood is undermine or even if you're flatter by it -wouldn't you miss excitment to be Romeo ? roll:
This is funny,thanks for laugh It's very important to read body language, maintaining eyes contact and if man doesn't look in women direction than probability is that he is not interested so it's women responsibility to herself to look somewhere else where is worth to consider any initiative but is it wise for women to take man job away to make a first move? Initiation can be welcome for shy man but real move should be still left to man,that's my believe.I like your quote;men should take time to discover women mystery as any wine that is taken too quick too soon looses much of joy of slow taste
this is fun to read about secret life Do you enjoy all this fire work that someone made of your life ? I wouldn't know anything if you didn't write this Blog and thanks for laugh
Dear Cat; one's the glass is broken is hard to put all the peaces together,it never looks the same again and it's great to give it a another shot of friendship recovery;if you brake it again you will remember why did it happened in the first place and that's the same thing with ex ...However;you should give it a try as you will always wonder what could of happen if you didn't hold back and there is always something special with old childhood friends,it reminds us of time we're want to go back and play like children again ...it's probably that playful PETER PAN that never wants to die in us as prolong childhood joy of life which in company of our childhood friend seams so possible to refresh this feelings of "forever young" Good luck with it.
Cmiyer;thanks for sharing this story. I sow the movie and it sticked in my memory as one of interesting love story because cultural differences is so drastically huge that for Western women to believe she can adopt to native traditional Kenya lifestyle seams more as exploring fantasies to eventually come into realization that she can not follow up his macho prejudice towards treatment of women that must fully adopt to his way. Minerva;one's he tried to bit her and that's not OK, as well he was giving goods for free from 'his wife shop' as in his mind relatives and friends could not be charged for goods but someone has to make an living so where is give and take in relationship ? It's hard to make judgments as it's simple two different world that clashes. Lovely story Good Blog !
I think Catfoot has some good points as real Love takes time in sharing good vibrations and most of all maintaining respect, consideration and commen interest/goals where two people can grow and wanting or distancing from intimacy in relationship is first sign where it can be felt how close people really are. Most people believe that after 7 years is critical time of relationship; it could be many things like middle age crisis or missing to refresh romance but if people value they're relationship they will work it out
I would go with Nonesmocker answer that seems objective I am forgiving person but I also rase white flag when there can not be improvement as it's better to move on when situation has no hope of resolving differences than to be stuck with the same repetitive issues that shows stubbornness of one way street but with people who consider two ways street it's easy to reconcile human errors and find middle ground of give and take
I always have at least few ecards and flowers and mostly from the same person who appears with he's warm thoughtful warding as Angel and now I often prefer not to have any emails from new man as I feel busy with the one that I am already in full on touch,loll Maybe I should write in my profile "already busy dating someone online, don't waist time"
Terorism is fear of todays world but this excuses to go into ordinary people privacy is going too fare to manipulate us and control us so ether way we lost sense of safty
123buterflyes; some times going for holiday helps not to notice time passing and who's waiting I think it can be challenging to accept being last on the man list of "things to do" as we all want to feel special with little something to go on but busy life schedule does needs understanding and flexibilities that can be like choing gum -you stretch and stretch as fare you can ...until you can't
Thank you for sharing your life experiences and it's nice that you find peaceful place in your soul to feel hamony within yourself and outside. We're all learning from each other and even bad things doesn't happen in life to make us miserable but teach us how to overcome our self pity and find better self to share beauty of life and wisdom
Stay away from Narcissist is good choice We need to change something about ourselves; about our own taste of what type of personality we're attracted to, we need to scratch deeper in surface of understanding "why"we choose what we choose in past to make difference for present and future ...Is it something from childhood that broth us to familiar path of behaviour that we recognise and attracted us to someone and what we need to stay away from ?
Hello teddybeerke88;only two grown up people can make things work between themselves but at the very beginning of courtship it's truly wonderful to have friends with positive INFLUENCE that can make difference in match making
Catfoot; we shell not forget that marriage with any distant relatives can give mentally or physically handicap children and if it doesn't happens in first generation it may happen to generation after so there is price to be payed for mixing up with blood relatives
Alcmaeon ; wowowo ... what a great comment I totally agree with you; it's important to take things as they are and not to loos sight that genuine people as we consider ourselves to be is out there too so we need to be patient and recognise opportunity that it may not always comes in the way we expect it
RE: why ?
When you're invisible no one knows what's approaching to If women should take role of Men to approach first wouldn't you fell that your manhood is undermine or even if you're flatter by it -wouldn't you miss excitment to be Romeo ? roll: