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RE: it's not easy!- no es facil...

gut instincts hunnie

if something feels right then go for it, get to know this guy and take things slowly
if it starts to feel wrong then it normally is
i met my ex of a dating site so it can and does happen
good luck

RE: being kissed

you know exactly what women want by the sounds of it craig

RE: Do women love beard ?

i dont like beards x

RE: being kissed

cant beat a long sensual kiss on the lips
followed by the kissing of the neck to get me going personally but for that i really care for you kiss has to be on the top of the forehead, sooo nice

RE: Weight Standars on dating sites !!!

omg how1e you have that so wrong, i have on my profile for weight as average and i would not say at a size 8-10 that i am a little on the large side, i put average cos i myself feel after four kids i am average as i am not skinny or slim like some,

i have to agree with blueeyes on this one, its men like you who assume women are a little on the large side by what they write or like other men who put great big expectations on women to be slim

i was a big girl as a child and it was on meeting my now ex husband at the age of 17 who told me i had to loose my extra tyre which i did do to please him, after 12 years he then left me for a woman who is huge, his problem was he said i got too much attention of men by being slim and he never liked, he had insecurities, i suppose he thinks being with a bigger women he feels safe that noone else will be interested in her which is sooo wrong

women have so much pressure on them to stay slim thats its just not right, i must admit me myself hates being over a certain weight now but thats how i feel but if someone else is happier with their size then why shouldn't they be the size they want without everyone critising them

RE: Weight Standars on dating sites !!!

at 5'2 i try to stay at 112 Ib which according to the link above makes me desirable and yet i still think mmm could loose a few more pounds or after four kids at least tone up more but thats just the way i think, i could never imagine being 150 Ib at this height, i only got to 130 Ib when i was 9 months pregnant with my last baby

but it is down to each individual, i would never not date anyone cos they were over weight, my last boyfriend was 6ft tall and weighed 252 Ib , it was what he was like on the inside and not what he looked like on the outside or how much he weighed

RE: Heartbreak

i have had my heart broken into a million pieces

it literally feels like someone has ripped it out of you

you cant stop crying, cant sleep, feel sick, cant eat, constant head ache, a feling of emptiness, cant eat, just dont want to get up and face the day

but you can pick yourself up slowly, its trying to focus on the good things around you, remembering who you have in your life who loves you and leaning on them for support

difference is when you have truly loved and have had your heartbroken you find yourself wanting what you have lost, trying to replace that person is hard as you compare everyone to him, even though you dont mean to but you know your doing it and you just cant stop it, its mad
you build this barrier up against you so you dont let anyone close to you unless they prove to you their not going to hurt you which i hard for that person as they need to get close to you to prove to you that they care for you

its catch 22

they say it takes 6 weeks for evey year of being with someone for your heart to truly mend and to heal hence why the longer you have been together the longer you need to give yourself time to heal

RE: He should also be loyal, dedicated, well-rounded,

i found exactly the same with men, they say they want a serious relationship but then only want to see you at the weekends, in my book that means a casual relationship, everyone has different ideas of what a certain relationship or values are, its finding someone that you connect with that has the same values as you

not all women or all men are the same but then thats what makes us unique individuals

good luck with your search, your perfect partner is out there somewhere

RE: Hi

welcome to cs babychev, i have not been here long myself but i love it here, everyone is so nice and welcoming
just watch out for jester his a bit dodgy you know only kidding, his lovely, they all here

RE: biker women

ame you dont live closer, i love bikes and have not been on the back of one for way tooo long

RE: hey there

so very true, you can be there for your kids and love them but you still need to find time to sit back and relax

RE: BIKE DAY

sounds perfect, enjoy

RE: hey there

hey i know that feeling, i have four kids myself, how old are your kids

RE: Long time, no seen

congratulations on yor engagement

there is no reason why you cant remain on cs just because your in a relationship, just state on your profile that your hear to make friends only and that you have found your perfect man, you can never have too many friends hunnie, i love this site as it does not feel like the average dating site

RE: Love will come when u least expect it!

i was talking to matt last night funny enough on facebook, a whole lot of flirting was going on and we spoke about everything, i told him that that nothing has changed between us except we dont see eachother, the chemistry is still there, my feelings for him are still there and even if we were together and i saw him once a month i could deal with that but he couldn't he reckons as he says he would want me near all the time,we have become so close these past 2 months and we can tell eachoter anything, he does regret finishing it with me and he thought it was for the best at the time, maybe one day he will change his mind and we can find a way of being together
how far away are you from your partner then jack ?

RE: please be honest what do you think

donnie and siebesiech are so right

like donnie said you cant rush things and the best relationships do come out of friendships or at least thats what i am trying to believe, i met a guy in august and we had two dates, i have fallen for him big time but he finished things with me cos of the distance was too great, we live 189 miles apart, we still kept in touch by texting or emailing or talking on facebook and we have become such great friends, we tell eachother how much we care and how much we miss eachother etc etc etc and i am hoping that one day we may decide we can work something out but i dont want to wait around forever just in case that never appens and he does not expect me to either
like siebesiech said though you need to enjoy your own company for anyone else to enjoy being with you

as hard as it is try to enjoy lfe, talk to people, make friends, go on dates and see what happens, as the song goes..... only fools ruxh in

RE: Real women please stand up.

we are out here its just finding the one thats right for us, i believe there is someone out there for everyone its just not getting caught by the wrong ones
good luck in your search

RE: Does this site really work?

i met my ex on a dating site so i know it can work and have also made some very good friends that now se on a regular basis from dating sites so yes it can work
i am just waiting to find someone again, i did meet someone but was on another site called smooch.com and we like eachother loads but he lives 189 miles away which after meeting twice he deiced he could not do the travelling, gutted i was
met two other guys on smooch .com too after that but they tend to be messing me around
i wont give up hope though as i know these dating sites do work,
good luck in your search

RE: 20/11 My weekend

i know that feeling hunnie
sending you hugs

RE: Nice Site but Sorry to Say !

well said dom as always
i would like to think most of us are here for genuine reasons but if it means we can make friends along the way then even more the better,
i am loving it on here

RE: Well

this will be myfirst xmas spent as a single person, luckily i have my four kids to spend it with but wont be the same

RE: love will it be the death of us

i know how you feel john
i was 17 when i met my first love and i spent 12 years with him, the love of my life, the one i wanted to grow old with , we had it all, the perfect life, two kids and then on day he got up and left me, i lost it all, heartbroken

this was six years ago and i have had three failed relationships since and too many dates to even remember which have never took of, i want my life back, i want the life i had whoch was with the man i loved, i want to feel love again too but these things we cant rush and like i keep being told it will happen, dont settle for just anyone, i have read quote a few of your blogs now and your comments and one day your find someone special who deserves you and you will be happy

thinking of you

RE: conveying

good morning john, have a great day

RE: chances missed

i met a guy of smooch.com and was love at first sight, not a day goes by i dont wish we were together, i truly believe he is my sole mate, we talk every day and have become the best of friends, reason why we are not togeher is because he lives 189 miles away from me as has his kids live with him part time

i dont think any guy i settle for will be second best to this guy but he will always have a hold on me and a place in my heart, just aswell i have a lot of love to give

dont give up on finding true love

RE: kill um with kind ness

who do you want to slap and kick in the gut

have a good weekend too john

RE: Some Women, are High Spirited, . . others are a

what do you mean i was not listening propery, last time i checked you had written the words, therefore the correct english wold have been that i merely failed to read the correct infomation on your blog, however i still stand by the fact that most and not some are nt like the women you showed in your blog

RE: 4 Things Every Man Wants In A Woman

thats just common sense but works for men towards women too

RE: Lonely in a Crowd

i have been in a relationship where i felt lonelier being with him that when i was when i was single
it is down to you to change that, maybe change the circule of friends you have or the situations that cause you to be lonely
i agree with the net cos i think if i did not have this i would go out of my mind

RE: Some Women, are High Spirited, . . others are a

not all women are like either of those women that you showed but then the way i see it if your man is calm and relaxed around you and does not raise his voice then the women tends to be the same

RE: 2011

i have plenty

* loose weight
* tone up
* grow hair longer
* find a partner and settle down
* decorate house

omg thats a long list