love will come when you least expect it, i suppose i am lucky as i have my family, friends and kids around me so i am never alone
your a lovely guy john, your meet that someone special one day, you just cant rush these things, concentrate on all the good things you have around you and the rest will soon come when your not looking so hard
i am a non smoker so i have never had the thing of trying to quit although i have watched my mum for years saying she is going to quit and yet always fails my dad however gave up over night which i know could not have been a easy thing to do if someone told me to stop eating chocolate i would probably die
howeve can you imagine my disappointment when i found out my daughter smokes at the age of 14 reason behind it was because all her friends were doing it and it was cool, i dont understand this being i never smoked but i personally think standing outside bars etc freezing in this kind of weather does not look cool,
i took my daughter to the doctors to get help for her to quit but she says she now enjoys smoking but how can you enjoy getting stressed out when you need a smoke, surely thats not a enjoyable experiance, the doctor wont help unles she wants to quit, she knows the dangers in smoking but she has no intentions of stopping
i love blogging, it clears your head and its nice to get others opinions, unfortunatly you meet the odd one or two people which just dont understand blogging then criticises everyone as i found out today
nothing wrong with that remo as long as they know, i have been out on casual dates with different men, when i find the one i want to be with then that wil be different
billy you are sooo right, i would rather come across a natural profile whether it be crammed full of photos and loads of detail about themselve or just the minium detail and the one photo, in one respect the less detail the more you have to find out,
in the time when we used to meet out in pubs we never came with a profile wrapped around our necks for all to read lol
i think we are who we are and our profiles show that so if you dont like a profile then dont message them, as simple as that, like you cant change a person you cant change how someone comes across by the way they have put words on a screen, yes we can advice if they want advice, after all thats what the profile reviews are for
your blog was well written, unfortunatly you go on about proof reading your profiles and checking your spelling
i dont mean to be funny but i think you need to practise what you preach as i have noticed a few grammer mistakes and spelling mistakes on your profile
i dont believe anyone has the perfect profile as noone is perfect, i do however agree with you that people should put a photo up of themselves but not always being a smiley smiley photo, what if they dont smile alot ? my dad does not smile alot and if i saw him on this kind of sight with a grin from ear to ear it would most certainly be giving a false impression of him, not meaning my dad is a misery but he has the attitude that you cant walk around with a permanent fixed smile on your face
craig is right, they get a slap on the hand and told not to do it again
my ex beat me so bad and actually tried to do to me what a cobra snake does to his prey where they suffocate you to death, after my ex had held me down and beat me he then continued to hold his hand against my mouth and tried to suffocate me, 2 hours he put me through hell, telling me he was going to kill me, the police say it was all planned and he had every intention to kill me that night
i had photos of me, i had hand print bruises on me where he had held me down, bruises on my legs where he had knelt on me to pin me down, i had a suufocation ring around my mouth, my mouth was black inside where he had held my mouth so tight, a pinch mark bruise across my nose where he had held my nose so tight, my ear was black inside and out where he had hit me so hard, i had cuts and bruises else where he had hit me and held me down or where i had hit the floor and yet with all these photos he still got away with it
how ? what do you need to do or prove to these people who call themselves a jury, wil it take him to actually kill someone before they actually do something
its all sooo wrong and i hear stories like this all the time
i wrote a blog similar to this the other day about having a joke with a complete stranger, doen't it make you feel good inside, i am always talking to strangers
i had never stepped foot in a court before so was not sure what to expect but there was so much evidence against him and yet they could not come up with a verdict, they said it was my word against his, never heard so much rubbish in my life
no wonder so many people dont bother to take others to court if thats what your going to get
i personally would send him down and throw away the key if there is enough evidence against him
in 2007 my ex decided to befriend me, take me out with a few friends for a night out, he made sure my dog and kids were out of the house and then waited for my friends to leave before beating me so bad and threatening my life that he was arrested for attempted murder with all the photographic evidence too of the bruises etc i had he still got away with it
john you are so right, i never thought about it like that
i normally spend xmas day at home with my kids and partner, of course this year is the first time that i shall be alone with them
but my dad and my stap mum have invited us over for xmas day, they only live 5 minutes down the road so we will wake up xmas day open our presents then go there for the rest of the day then to my mums like normal boxing day except i normally see my dad that day too it will be nice to spend xmas day with my dad as i have not done that since 1996, the year my eldest daughter was born, i am lucky to still have my dad with us what with all his heart problems he has so i suppose this xmas i will take a step back and remember how lucky i am and how grateful i am to still have my parents with me
have a good xmas john, my thoughts will be with you also
i would not leave this site i dont, even if i met someone as i like the interaction and making new friends, even if they are cyber friends, think its a great site try smooch.com though as i have met a few people of that site but the interaction is not as good on there, it is purely just for dating
some women like much older guys, i had a friend of mine once who was 24 dating a 52 year old not for me i'm afraid but that could be because my dad is only 58 and my step mum is only 51, it just would not be right, i think an eight year age gap or less is ideal, i had a 15 year age gap once and it did feel like dating my father, not good
i must admit gotitall always seems to come up with good points so in one way i have to agree with him but surely we can be as faithful and family minded as the penguin x
like men, each woman is different and wants/needs different things its down to communication and finding out what eachothers wants and needs are, if your compatible then your have no problem doing this
i met a guy of the net in august and fell for him hook line and sinker but he finished with me cos of the distance, we were together for a few weeks only and we kept in touch and have become the best of friends, i continued to date where he has not and i have spoke to him about every date, he now admits he has been jealous of this and that he likes me alot and feels alot closer to me than ever before, he wants to meet up again but not sure to or not, there is a whole lot of flirting going on, we talk every day,
be interested to know if things work out for you too
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but that could be because my dad is only 58 and my step mum is only 51, it just would not be right,
RE: Before I Die !!
omg, glad your ok swan,