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RE: Sure Signs of a Healthy Relationship

Hi Johnny, how are you? so, alls I need is to read a profile that says: I'm looking for a partner that supports each other's opportunity for growth,who shares their emotions,pays less attention to attractive others,that she sees the positive side of commitment, she practices self compassion, she expresses her gratitude, and she focus's on the humility side of life...thats it? That shouldn't be to difficult, should it...wait a moment I'm getting her email now, this must be the one.....

RE: If I was a cat (ok, a spoiled pampered one)

Hi Viv, true, I had to rescue a cardinal and a robin from her grasps. She tantalizes them and it's unmerciful......I'm going to join a club for the preservation of our birds...... maybe they can give me some tips...like putting a mussel over her mouth before going out for the day....hmmm!!!! that's an idea, but she already has so much stuff around her neck, flea collar, name collar, address tag....poor thing....

RE: If I was a cat (ok, a spoiled pampered one)

Hi Viv, true, I had to rescue a cardinal and a robin from her grasps. She tantalizes them and it's unmerciful......I'm going to join a club for the preservation of our birds...... maybe they can give me some tips...like putting a mussel over her mouth before going out for the day....hmmm!!!! that's an idea, but she already has so much stuff around her neck, flea collar, name collar, address tag....poor thing....

RE: If I was a cat (ok, a spoiled pampered one)

Ken, I should feel lucky then. I was sitting on the couch and the cat came in and all I could see was her face. She had a strange look, so I looked deeper and sure enough next to the slippers was a dead mouse (in one piece).....I gave her a treat and sent her on her way.....gotta love it...

RE: If I was a cat (ok, a spoiled pampered one)

Ken, I should feel lucky then. I was sitting on the couch and the cat came in and all I could see was her face. She had a strange look, so I looked deeper and sure enough next to the slippers was a dead mouse (in one piece).....I gave her a treat and sent her on her way.....gotta love it...

RE: Outright funny song from a witty oldie

still smiling hard here...

RE: Who Sleeps With Whom?

Hi Cat, haven't been here for a bit...any news on your cat??

RE: Who Sleeps With Whom?

Hi Cat, haven't been here for a bit...any news on your cat??

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

and to our surprise here she is....

RE: It was not puppy love.

Bea, he should be divorced by now, never give up hope......

RE: The Missing Person’s Department.

got you...



here's his number meow-meow-meow

RE: The Missing Person’s Department.

Cat, I think when he gets home you should take him to counseling..



hope it works....

RE: The Missing Person’s Department.

Probably not cats are usually very afraid of water....he/she is probably perched in a tree looking down at you, seeing how concerned you really get......have you gone out looking??

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

well when you have dastardly programmers like our 'Cat' mulling round your sweet loving robot can be reprogrammed into a psychotic killer.....

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

Call, i was thinking, we already have robots that roam the earth. They are called narcissist. The narcissist is proficient in mimicking human emotions and then project those emotions back to their victim....so, if they can do it, then programming it should not be very difficult...

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

Hi OW, true the posh aren't on FB, because they're too busy figuring out how to create a new world 'crisis'.....

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

Hi Call, good points, will we have robot marriages.....in Ireland, definitely....

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

this is the only stoned our Cat got today....

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

one of the issues of the unjust court system is the volume of which the courts have to deal with......so the cookie cutter approach is fastest and easiest, to use your words we are just shoved to slaughter. But, this happens to women as well...ones who are financially secure. A girl friend of mine had to pay her ex $500 per month for the three boys because she made more money then he did. So, it does work both ways, but like I said due to the surplus of men we hear their stories the most. Unfortunately, like any other system some try to beat it. I've known women who have wanted out of the marriage so bad they took nothing, no support, no alimony nothing, just the clothes on their back. Like stated, get the lawyers out and give a chance for the man to man up and do the correct thing....I know, not going to happen...

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

As they say Cat 'NOTHING WORSE THAN A WOMAN SCORNED'.....I rest my case.....that's why God invented the man cave...

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

As they say Cat 'NOTHING WORSE THAN A WOMAN SCORNED'.....I rest my case.....that's why God invented the man cave...

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

sad story Cat, that's why the youngans don't want to get married at all. the system is like the Robin Hood approach to life. And no one wants to hear the details, like you taking care of 'her' two children, it never factors into the equation. It has to change...like I've mentioned before there's rumblings about a 5 yr marriage, no risk, evaluate at end of contract. It only makes sense, if lawyers are involved there should be a contract to litigate over, no??

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

from what I can tell Cat, Choch just threw corn flake pie in your face...ouch..

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

from what I can tell Cat, Choch just threw corn flake pie in your face...ouch..

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

now, the more I think about it I have to look at the lawyers here. They do not make things better, just the opposite. Instead of 2 adults working things out for the best of the family going forward the attorneys create a level of bad will and we know the results.....government involvement can never be a good thing in our most personal lives.....

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

cat, we did the politically correct thing back when and like you said that was nothing.......

RE: We Are Surrendering Without A War

good blog Cat, you out did yourself here....well we have Bella Abzug and Gloria Steinem to thank for what we have......burning of the bras is behind this.....not a bad idea actually

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

capricorn....

Will lose face to face communication in 20 years

KN, the way automation is taking jobs, we'll all be on the corner in a herd chatting about how things use to be......