Hi Saggi nice to meet you Thank you for your compliment :) Yeah I knew Marketa from Once, it is such a great movie I love it so much, I watched it again and again and again and I even wrote about it in one of my blogs. Such an inspiring evening I had, I thought of sharing it here thank you for reading and sharing your thought too :)
Ed! Thank you for having been so nice and supportive to me. It means a lot, really
Shay, maybe because nothing can mean anything from "nothing", "something difficult to deliver", or "never mind you wouldn't understand anyway", or the worst "I have told you million times and you forgot anyway so why bother telling it again"
Welela, Thank you for your wishes, I wish you a wonderful life too
Shay, Thank you for having been so nice and kind to me, I wish you best of luck
Mbak Ching, Matur nuwun sanget, have a good life in Jogja. I miss Jogja so much, and one day I will show him this lovely city that has been my home too
Hi Waf I am traveling and I miss you guys, just got bad connection in my room so I can't visit this site as much as I want to. Lots of things have been going on here...
Scrofa, at the end of the day I think what more important is being honest to one another, and in this case no string attached is honest, no manipulation of feeling whatsoever.
Pinky, that other attachment is not what I mean in this case. Having family (I have 4 kids) is the best thing that has ever happened to me, I wouldn't have it any other way even I am given another chance to live. "I'd be lost without the weight of you two on my back", a quote I love from a very beautiful movie "Winter's Bone".
Fun, I’m not sure I follow you. Perhaps you would like to elaborate more?
Felix On the other hand, I think to be in a “no string attached” kind a thing you also need skills. Have you ever seen “No String Attached” the movie? Those 2 main characters failed.
Saskia, Thank you for sharing your story, it gives this warm feeling for me as I don't really think I will ever be with a man again, but if someone like Luciano exist, then there is hope. There is a man who can love you enough to trust you to grow as a person not to own you. All the best for you in the years to come, Saskia.
Captain, Kids are the most precious thing I have. As a nomaden at heart, they're the one who keep my feet on the ground
Lachi, Hey love birds, so glad to see you two happy and enjoy the trip Will you still be in Bali this weekend? I might be there, wanna kiss my second home before my trip. Let's meet if you are
Dear all, thank you for all your comment and sorry for the late reply. I was with my friend whom cried over her boyfriend. I had to calmed her down and took her to where she stayed before headed home, which where I am now. After showering my son and dinner with kids, I am finally here and wow such a lot of comments. Thank you again for all your responses.
For me when someone said "I am not good enough for you and you deserve someone better", it mean he is not good enough for me and I deserve someone better, it's as simple as that. If he is being honest to feel that he is not good enough, then he is not good enough. If he is lying or being diplomatic because he has someone else, it means he is not good for me because he is lying or has someone else behind my back.
So my answer if someone says that will be "Yes, I think you are right, you are not good enough for me. Thank you for being honest with me."
Hi Snoopy, No, I don't travel for work, instead traveling is my passion. I am a freelance, therefore it allows me to travel. I did not find traveling as an obstacle in my relationship as usually my partner also loves traveling. I used to make money from traveling with my partner. We traveled, I wrote, he took picture, we sent the article to travel magazine. It was fun doing what you love and get paid. And to your other question, It is also true that traveling is a nice break to have some time alone.
Hug, Life is indeed ironic. Remind me of a song Ironic by one of my favourite singer Alanis Morisette
Hi Roxana, No, we both have decided to be a good friend, and I am not actually into long distance relationship. And after 2 years engaged with an Indonesian girl and finally broke up, he never thought of having another Indonesian girlfriend, he said. It's just nice to be there with someone you know, rather than wandering all alone. And we both more or less enjoy the same things like theatre, dance performance, things that once glued us together.
Saskia, Yaaa, that's too bad. I kinda miss him, it's been 2 years since the last time I saw him. Ah well, maybe it's time to meet someone new
Courage and love.
Hi Saggi nice to meet youThank you for your compliment :) Yeah I knew Marketa from Once, it is such a great movie I love it so much, I watched it again and again and again and I even wrote about it in one of my blogs. Such an inspiring evening I had, I thought of sharing it here thank you for reading and sharing your thought too :)
Ed!
Thank you for having been so nice and supportive to me. It means a lot, really