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sarasvathy
Jakarta, Indonesia
A tiger in a cat's body.
There are things we wish not to happen, but we must accept
There are people we wish to keep, but we must let go
The rest will happen after you accept and let go
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I know some guys use it pretending they want you to feel better but that makes me so angry while I know what they really think.
It happened to me.
it could be :
- I cancel our commitment
- I am not strong enough to prove all my promises to you
- I only wanna take some advantages from you, and now it is the right time to leave you
- My mum/family disagree with our relationship
etc
is better for you if we split up...so we did...20 minutes later
I saw her with her new boyfriend.
For me when someone said "I am not good enough for you and you deserve someone better", it mean he is not good enough for me and I deserve someone better, it's as simple as that. If he is being honest to feel that he is not good enough, then he is not good enough. If he is lying or being diplomatic because he has someone else, it means he is not good for me because he is lying or has someone else behind my back.
So my answer if someone says that will be "Yes, I think you are right, you are not good enough for me. Thank you for being honest with me."
some of the excuses for get away for an other question or statement when you wanna find out
how's your trip mba?
Not yet, it will start on Nov 2nd.
I absolutely agree with you, Sara. I don't think it's game playing at all. Since I take people at their word, if a woman said that to me, I would assume she meant she wasn't good enough for me, regardless of what her motives might be. While it might be flattering for a young lady to be interested, I would be thinking that she deserves to be with someone her own age.
I absolutely agree with you, Sara. I don't think it's game playing at all. Since I take people at their word, if a woman said that to me, I would assume she meant she wasn't good enough for me, regardless of what her motives might be. While it might be flattering for a young lady to be interested, I would be thinking that she deserves to be with someone her own age.