Johnny,... Oh NO!!!! I have been terrible!!!! BUT I blame Mimi and her cup cakes
However this coming week as in tomorrow I am going to be a LOT BETTER!!!! I have just been away for a week and a half and well... I ate too much BUT next week I will report my weight situation whether good or bad..
Mimi, Pedal is saying that he has `let go` of his baggage... in other words the pain and heartache he felt when his relationship went wrong. He is saying it is you that is carrying the baggage of pain and heartache around with you.
Each one of us on here has our own story of pain. I was married to a good man .. my soul mate for nearly 28 years.. we planned to be together forever. I KNOW how hard it is when things go wrong.. the pain is awful and you do feel like you will never be happy again. I did for the best part of 2 years. Of course I was happy with my children but I honestly thought I could never ever love someone as I loved my ex...BUT now as the years are passing by... 4 now... I am realising that after letting GO!!!! which was the hardest of all things to the dreams we shared... I took out of our relationships the joys we had, the memories made and our beautiful children, and 2 grandchildren. I decided it was time to let go of the hopes and dreams of `us` AND start being ME!! I found when I let go.. that I liked being me, I started to find things I like to do for me. Now I enjoy a wonderful happy and fulfilled life. But it truly is all about moving on. No it is not easy... BUT is possible. So many of us here have walked in your shoes... which is why we can say what we do. We want you to be happy and enjoy your life and live it to the full.
If I was Crocodile and could not be with you or return your love for whatever reason I would want you to move on with your life and find someone who could love you as you deserve.
I say use your gut reaction ... It's never failed me. Now, I am a succour for the loveable rogue, as long as the roguishness is just that he teases BUT is kind and thoughtful with it.
Hi Mimi, I am not sure I fully understand what you are asking here. Are you saying you and crocodile love each other but that he is not free to be with you because of his children? Is he with the children's mum? Is that why he is not free to be with you?
I always think parents should put their children first at least till they are grown up. However if it is just the children and no other woman involved I do not see what the problem would be.
Lovely Mimi, my heart aches for what you didn"t get to have and share in.
I think the miracle of it all is that you are not bitter about either your father or your husband. That is quiet remarkable.. and something all of us could learn from. You are such a good mum yourself and love your kids so much. I know you have a special bond with them. To me you have taken your experiences and made out of them something positive and have learned from them.
Sending you the BIGGEST of hugs... and to all like yourself who did not know what it was like to grow up with 2 loving parents.
Hello lovely Xmai, The Saviours life was all about doing His Fathers will.. being obedient to what His Father wanted him to do so he could fulfil the mission he was sent here to do.How wonderful if we could capture that in our own life:s and recognise that Heavenly Father has a plan for each one of us.. if we but have the patience to allow Him to guide our life"s. Jesus was our perfect example in this as with all virtues. Patience truly is a wonderful gift to possess. Something I constantly strive to have, but do not always succeed.
So very sad to hear a dear CS member is no longer here. I did not know her but reading the comments I can tell she was a lovely woman who influenced others with her goodness. May she rest in peace .... free of pain
Gnite Nam, as always it has been a fun time on your blog.. thanks
Hope you get to see your video .. when Gypsy has sorted it. I sent DC to her rescue and see you sent Ken so between the two I am sure she will fathom it out.
Not sure where you are as I can`t see you.. maybe you have done that invisible trick often done on here and gone invisible
Here`s one for you (you will never know how long it took me to find that blessed emicon!!! I don`t drink.. well alcohol I mean ... so I searched all over for ages to find it, it kept hiding.. maybe like you when I was trying to say `cheers to Loulou`
Well Ken, the only MRE`s I have eaten are the ones they sell in the supermarket. Mind you I bet the ones you are showing are probably better for you than the ones we buy. I guess the military try to give you the best nourishment they can under the circumstances.
Nam, whenever I get on my soap box.. the audience goes to ......
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That of course is my kids.. they are the only ones I get on my soap box to.. but like I said it is too slippy to stand on anymore.. I think it got washed away...
But my soap box is very slippy Nam and I keep falling off it
I think it is with all the tears I have shed when people aren`t listenting to me ... tears and soap don`t go well together especially if that soap gets in your eyes..
Wishes for your week ahead....!
Hi Pedal, did I see you put some clothes on now? after the other blogHope you have a fabby week.. lots of happy times