What could you prefer, if...?
Perhaps, once again I'd like to heard opinions from members here about a situation... and sorry in advance that it is going to be about Crocodile again!I think I upset a lot of members here by keep posting my sad love story... in fact, I know that my love to Crocodile is a tragedy. I want to stop. I want to look for someone else! But the problem is that over 2 years passed, I still can't help myself think of any one other than Crocodile! :(
I have been on this site since broke up. Exchanged emails and skype nick with few people long time ago but after just several emails or one time chat I recognized that I don't want to go further with anyone because Crocodile is still fully inside my heart, so I deleted and blocked all!
I love Crocodile a lot... and I think Crocodile does love me too! But Crocodile has special reasons from his kids that he has to choose leaving me... :(
So, the question is: if you were Crocodile, mean you have to be in the situation that you have to leave your love for your kids, do you want your love being a single forever to keep pure friends relationship with you? OR, you prefer your love find someone else to be with so that you don't feel guilty as if she is abandoned by you?
I think I know what I want and what I should do. For sure I don't need an advise what to do and what should I do in this situation. Just I'm curious about how people think and do in the position of Crocodile in this case... I'm really curious about this... so, I would be appreciated to hear your opinions....
Thank you and goodnight!
Comments (24)
Are you saying you and crocodile love each other but that he is not free to be with you because of his children?
Is he with the children's mum? Is that why he is not free to be with you?
I always think parents should put their children first at least till they are grown up.
However if it is just the children and no other woman involved I do not see what the problem would be.
You are beyond help as you don't want to move on.
KNenagh, why not just reply straight to my question?? Life is NOT everyone same as you as what you think...
Wallops1964 and Ekself, thanks, I think the same you... I think that's what Crocodile wants from me but the problem is it's hard for me to love someone else other than him... :(
Anyway, I'm not surprised because there are many cases like what you said had happened around, but it's for sure NOT my case. Trust or not but I hope you will have chance to open your mind a bit to know that life are not all the same...
I had worse story that u have but I move on as life not always look at back.
Use it as a lesson for your life & keeping use it to always look at back
I have problem to understand your English too. What do you mean by saying don't carry the baggage that I do?? I do NOT need you to carry any of my baggage. I just hope for you to understand that in this life there are "baggage" quite different from yours.
Each one of us on here has our own story of pain. I was married to a good man .. my soul mate for nearly 28 years.. we planned to be together forever. I KNOW how hard it is when things go wrong.. the pain is awful and you do feel like you will never be happy again. I did for the best part of 2 years. Of course I was happy with my children but I honestly thought I could never ever love someone as I loved my ex...BUT now as the years are passing by... 4 now... I am realising that after letting GO!!!! which was the hardest of all things to the dreams we shared... I took out of our relationships the joys we had, the memories made and our beautiful children, and 2 grandchildren. I decided it was time to let go of the hopes and dreams of `us` AND start being ME!! I found when I let go.. that I liked being me, I started to find things I like to do for me. Now I enjoy a wonderful happy and fulfilled life. But it truly is all about moving on.
No it is not easy... BUT is possible. So many of us here have walked in your shoes... which is why we can say what we do.
We want you to be happy and enjoy your life and live it to the full.
Good luck Mimi
Many thanks for what you wrote anyway. Crocodile and I had beautiful love but finally its turned to tragedy. What I wish for him is the best. And I myself trying hard to move on. But I can't love anyone else (at least for now), and in fact, I still care for him a lot...
To someone who just made judgment on my sister and I relationship, just in short, please do NOT come to my blogs again ever as you know nothing about me and my life to talk to me as such! You are just same as a lot of people who LOVE to close eyes to give advise but do not concentrate to the question from the blogs. I'm someone who don't like to talk something out of blog subject, so, I prefer to delete the junk comments to keep my blogs clean. Thanks.
Find someone for whom you are his most desired choice. Someone you can trust because they won't hurt you that way again.
Love is complicated. I still love my ex as a friend. I know that we will never be together again because trust has been lost. But, that does not mean I want the worse for her. In fact, that is why I broke up with her. I felt, if she is not totally happy with me, who am I to hold her back from finding true happiness. I sincerely wish her the best in the world and hope she finds true happiness. I think, that is the power of love and how complicated it is.
You are welcome for the advice. :)