RE: Start a jar

That sounds like fun!
Happy New Year! teddybear

MEN WHO RUN

@Ostinance

Thanks for that great input. We know men do it and I also know that some women do too.

You appear to be talking about animal instinct and the mate not wanting to be dragged down.

Sons often care desperately for their sick mothers so why not their wives.

When I was pregnant my sister said perhaps he feels responsible. Well yessss!

I think Calypso had it when she said men want to feel jolly all the time.

So girls when we're sick just remember to be jolly whilst man flu is wholly acceptable.

Pack animals have such a great loyalty in sickness. dunno

RE: Best place in winter?

Seville has a good climate and there are plenty of towns in that area.

RE: Best place in winter?

I know someone who lives there not far from Allicante near the mountains and I was only visiting. Catalonia is my favourite place to be but the entire coast is taken up with tourism or industry these days.

Jaca in the Pyrenees is a great old and friendly town but cold in winter.

RE: Best place in winter?

CS I certainly didn't find that. Just go with a little bit of basic Spanish and they will soon come to your rescue?

RE: Best place in winter?

I've just returned from Spain. Inland Spain would be my choice and the language is the easiest to learn and pronounce. The South may be too hot and the North too wet so do your homework and make sure you get a pool which isn't too expensive to keep in Spain.

I would only live in the country or a small town with a garden but that may not be to your taste. banana

MEN WHO RUN

@ tenyearsafter

How true that is!

MEN WHO RUN

@ GG

I was really sorry to hear about your Hypothyroidism. I can totally relate to your comments as I too have that and needed to regain who I was. It took two years and only men who have experienced it will empathise.

It's not something you can explain to someone and if you were anything like me explaining anything wasn't possible.

The only sympathy I have for men on this subject is that it must be very strange suddenly living with a different person.

How strong is their love? It may be testing but I think you've helped prove the point of this blog GG.

I trust your recent health problem is improving? teddybear

MEN WHO RUN

Good advice KN! peace

RE: you are

Good luck seafish!

MEN WHO RUN

@Ian

This is what I mean Ian. Many men will run. Frankly I wish my man of 33yrs had run. lol doh

MEN WHO RUN

It can happen when a woman is pregnant too. Begs the question. What is love?

MISSING PARENTS

I'll try to let you know Angel!

MISSING PARENTS

@Angel
No. My parents are both dead but I have a friend who is about to meet his mother who left when he was 12yrs old. He is a very mixed up individual so I hope it goes well for him. His father died from alcoholism when my friend was 26 and still living at home.

RE: what are we afraid of?

Sadly this is your fear and he has to do what he wants and puts value on in his life. You wouldn't have him any other way because it just wouldn't be him.

I really feel for you because I have a grown son but he chose to be a nurse. Having said that nurses too are subjected to dangers and in his case he has to live with the nightmare of the many deaths of terminally ill people of all ages.

Give your son the facts and let him make his own decision but don't let him stay for you.

My heart really bleeds for you, truly! comfort hug sigh

MISSING PARENTS

Angel. I'm sorry to hear that you lost your dad at such a young age.

He loved you and cared for you when he was alive and that's wonderful. teddybear

MISSING PARENTS

@mei82..
How lovely to have been brought up by loving foster parents.

teddybear

MISSING PARENTS

@Zeurich

How difficult it must be for children caught up in multiple marriages! sad flower

MISSING PARENTS

@Solamente
'pushed me off' I think you feel a little bit upset by not having your family around you in the early days. comfort hug

RE: How To Relax...

My Ex husband could knit. He was very good with his hands! wink

RE: Purpose

Everything in life is an education and so is the same for everyone we meet. conversing

RE: Do black people make bad parents?

Russell Peters. hilarious!

So who's right and who's wrong? frustrated sigh

RE: WHAT WOMEN WANT

For me it's the subjects they talk about and their attitude!

MAKEUP

@solamente
Then it really pays to have good lips

RE: Do black people make bad parents?

@ flyjames

You truly sound like a good father and it's nice to read your comments.

My parents were white and sadly, I couldn't say the same about them. handshake

MAKEUP

I think we're getting more natural looking girls on here because the others are spending time applying their makeup! lol yawn

RE: Do black people make bad parents?

@Theresa
You are right. My mother's lover was brought up in England and obviously had a close bond to his daughters'

Some countries are very proud and also can be very cruel parents.

FGM is now being talked about here again. How can a parent stand by and watch that?

RE: Do black people make bad parents?

This is only my experience and its exact and not an average account.

I worked with a Ghanaian and she would only talk to her daughter with her back turned as if the child didn't warrant any respect.

My friend has just heard that her Malawian partner of 9yrs has been unfaithful. He has a child in Africa who wanted to come back to England to visit him but he doesn't want her here.

Another friend had a black African friend who had many children from different relationships and said he wants no contact from them until they are 18yrs old.

I know a professional woman who married a black African, had a child and her husband wouldn't work. He stayed for a few months then disappeared off the face of the Earth.

I have knowledge of only one more black parent. He was seeing my mother for years and wouldn't leave his wife and child to be with my mum. He always used his daughter as his reason for staying in his marriage. Were there other women he was seeing??

dunno

MAKEUP

@hans
Great images. Using makeup as an art form has my vote but I wear very little myself and very rarely.

Some people think that's weird so it's great hearing your views. teddybear

MAKEUP

@calypso
I've been away for a week. yay

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