I am not sure if it's a question of "belief"... "Destiny" is a mixture of decisions, logic, persistence and hard word, but also meaningless actions, going with the flow, choosing with your heart, listening to your gut... It may not take you where you want but probably to where you should be...and of course that could change...any time, at any point of the journey... Don't know if that mad any sense, sorry...lol
Rejection is one thing dumping totally different... You reject someone you don't want to know but you dump someone you already know... The first doesn't really require explanation...
Ysabel, unfortunately nothing sweet in that... But hope you find your own way of dealing with it, that will bring you peace... Don't push yourself to do something you don't want to do...
Yeah, ghosting ... Not having the guts to be open and honest...it happens more than often... It's the worst thing to do to someone who have invested lots of time and emotions in you... Coward's behaviour...at its "best"...
Let it heal on it's own... Fill it with more love, it doesn't matter if you receive love...just let the love feeling flow and fulfill... It won't stop the pain but will make you feel better...
Hi Blue, it's never easy to estimate what will happen in a relationship.... That's why I do get into it fully, with no fear or questions... I know it will hurt at the end but isn't it longevity we are all looking for...it's just we can not be sure how long is really long for the other one... I have never been in a relationship with someone because "He" is suitable, comfortable or appropriate for my standards... Sadly many do that...
Vierk... Ridiculous...but expected from you... Sorry to disappoint you but all my relationships (except the first one) were with foreign men...because I lived abroad... I won't mention nationalities tho... May be I should finally try a local man...
Ah, I am kind of tired from all this "learning" to be honest... Giving 100% is the only way for me to be in a relationship...and even when you are shown the same it doesn't mean it will remain this way... I don't calculate how long it will last, don't have plans for how far it may go... I recently had to ask myself if I have dreamed whatever happened... I am trying very, very hard not to become grumpy and cynical towards relationships...and not to lose faith...
I stopped smoking 9 years ago, at once as well... I've always hated my clothes and hair to smell of cigarettes, and never allowed smoking inside my home... The benefits were obvious, fitter and healthier...
That's the truth Biff, I have done the mistake to expect mind reading in the past... We do communicate in a different way indeed... I think I've learnt my lesson and to be honest I like to be the one that shows care without questions...or counting who's turn it was...
The problem of the West is you just can not believe that others are able to disrespect you, your hospitality, your laws and your rules... You believe you have it all under control and nothing can go (that) wrong... It can, it does and it will...just under your nose...
Well, there are situation where the person doesn't leave you any other option but to be ghosted... It isn't a rocket science to think that there are more than one reason for ghosting... It could be rude for you but it could be a nightmare for the other one... Just saying...
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RE: Do you believe in destiny? Why or why not?
I am not sure if it's a question of "belief"..."Destiny" is a mixture of decisions, logic, persistence and hard word, but also meaningless actions, going with the flow, choosing with your heart, listening to your gut...
It may not take you where you want but probably to where you should be...and of course that could change...any time, at any point of the journey...
Don't know if that mad any sense, sorry...lol