Right time, right place. I'm more than happy to share how I feel, and to show emotion. Crying doesn't come easy for the simple reason, it takes a hell of a lot to go wrong beofre tears come. There is also the case that if she is feeling sadness to at that point, I would prefer to be there to comfort her and not be an emotional wreck rolling on the floor in a heap of tears
what is very important here is that in any communication with someone, you are very honest about who you are and what you want, expect from them. Hopefully they do the same. Does save an awfull lot of time then.
There are no set rules, only guidlines. Most are laid out to protect you from some physco. If you prefer to meet early then there is nothing wrong with it, just make sure you know you'll be safe. I think most prefer to spend more time knowing the character and personality of a person before meeting, especially if its a long distance as flights may not be cheap and arranging time off may take time or need to be planned ahead.
As for me, it changes from person to person, a lot has to do with how quickly we feel comfortable with each other and of course the distance between us.
You'll probably find its not being healed that causes all the friction here. So many bitter people blaming the world for their split up, or failing to find someone. We all carry baggage but make sure its stored in the loft before signing in,
As an adult, sitting wherever you are sitting, you can't really use the arguement, you are provoked....... no one takes your hand and presses the keys, no one forces you to press send........you do have choice, to reply or not, to ignore or not......... What could be happening is that you take out on here any anger you have in your real life.
I would say, be nice to the ladies and gentleman on here... but looking around at who's posting, lady and gents maybe a bit too kind.... so, try and be nice to the men and women here
When a man doesn't carry his ego like a stick, and doesn't feel he needs to prove his worth. Doesn't need to brag to get attention and would prefer to encourage than put down. Understands the true value of a woman, her strenghts and weaknesses. You'll find a gentle-man.
If someone never allows for comments or responds to them it wouldn't be them blogging, more like preaching. If you have something to say and don't want responses then talk to a wall and don't post.
When a guy phones you last minute for a date, its probably because his real date has given him the push or can't make it. He'll then phone around finding a replacement. The later the call, the further down his list you are
lgs .take a look at what happens on the blogs here. Someone posts good news, some good fortune, there will be those who become jealous, envious, aggressive even because it didn't happen to them. Post bad news, and it makes them feel good........
lgs Possibly yes, or we've become gossip mongers, looking for the next titbit of someone elses life so we don't have to, for a few moments, face our own.
The reason they don't is the majority of people don't want to hear it, they want to gloat over the bad things that happen. It makes them feel better in their life knowing those bad things aren't happening to them. Bad news sells papers.
@takemetofrance Nothing compares to the scent of a freshly showered woman, the sweet song of I love you and the brightness that shines in her heart. Spring though comes a close second We've had rain and lots of it, huge hail stones, perhaps we could do a trade, some rain for some sun
RE: Am i a fool..???
I only have your side of the story to go on, hers could be quite different.........besides all that though, my response would be..Forget it, enjoy the time there, meet the Canadian women, have fun and move on from what happenend, life is too short to harbour grudges.