Could you tell me, about men and their feelings
I'm just curious, why it seems that most men will not show their true feelings. Why won't men cry? Is it only the women who cry and show emotion. At least that is how it seems to me. I could be wrong.Is it the way a man was taught to believe as a child? Is it because fear of rejection, or that they just simply do not care. I hope that's not the case.
Do you feel men get a bad rap if they do cry or are totally honest about their feelings? In my life, I don't remember too many guys who shared feelings or cried. Is it still the same way? I'd rather have a man that could communicate and was not ashamed to cry or admit when he was wrong.
Are you not a man, or lesser of a man if you do cry or show your feelings? I was just wondering. I'd love to hear back on how you feel on the subject, If you are not afraid to show your feelings and it's alright to cry or lol.
See my examples, none of these men where unwilling to share emotions! LOL.
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PinkPoet I was fixing to sign off and I seen this and I wanted to tell you my experiance with this. My husband was very good at telling me how he felt. And showing his feelings. He did not cry but a couple of times that I seen. I do believe alot of them do think there is a stigma to it. But the reason our marriage was such a success is we both had the capabilities to be able to comunicate with each other even when we knew the other might not like what was being comunicated. That is when the respect comes into play. I respected his right to his feelings as he did mine. I think it kind of spoiled me for now I have no problem telling someone how I feel and some I don't think really want to know how I feel unless I am on the same page as they are. And yes as women to you will find some who either just do not care or do not have the tools to be able to comunicate. Don't know if this helped but if your thinking comunication is important it is.
True feelings and crying probably will not appear until you marry but we do.
I don't care what people think about my blubbering and teary episodes over happiness or sadness. And I don't think I am a lesser man for doing so!
Looking back, I think that watery eyed look at the begining of the last re-la-so was actualy a warning sign of things to come. More and more water seemed to leak from the eyes as the relationship went on. Till the final end, when the water works really went full on.
So yes, I am blamming the enviroment man is in, when it concerns mans emotions...
Boys Cry when No One can see them !!
When No One can see them Cry !!