The letter feels fully disingenuous Sol, albeit some essence of the beginning. Your need to end things and write her, instead of speaking with her directly, is not about her so, tell her what difficulty you might be having within yourself if deeply entering into relationship frightens you at this time and, as such, skip all the "I shall always treasure.." words.
Tell her, tell yourself, the truth, about you, perhaps speaking to this excerpt, which does seem to exude some level of truth...
"...this morning my heart is crying. As much as my body and soul long to be with you, to make a life of happiness together, my head tells me this cannot be ..."
If it's true for you that your body and soul deeply long to be with her, get out of your head! and tell her what within you will not allow you to know such joy! Anything less than that will most likely not serve you, or her. Write (speak) to her in complete honesty or do not write (speak) to her at all.
That is my suggestion and I hope it helps, even if in some small way.
I'd trust your personal experience; if you haven't met anyone nice when out on weekends (nightclubs) or while on dating sites, be open to meeting someone at community events, social clubs, personal interest groups or doing something you might otherwise enjoy... taking a class, going to a museum or the like.
In my experience, divinity shows us that the ordinary is extraordinary. It does not seem to me that we're necessarily meant to be ‘something else’ per se but rather, deeply rooted and Present To exactly where we are Now. That is to say, when we’re deeply rooted In Presence to our current experiences it seems that it’s from there that we can then become 'something more.'
It does seem that it's precisely when we're completely ourselves that we’re most likely 'moving in complete divinity.'
Nice clearing of the field Ken and the mower... that was neat. You're really good at showing and talking people through a project.. I think you'd be great teaching instructional classes on how to fix things!
Hi Crazy, Perhaps it's during the times we're not in relationship that it's very good to learn, to Know, that we're already whole in our essence, in our totality, just as we are.
And then, inside that Knowing, we deeply know that we need a deep connection, need love and companionship, and that that's all so perfectly beautiful
if 'simple' means your meeting a woman who is more than happy with the simple things in life you'll find her, for she most certainly exists!
many women are not interested in a long distance relationship thus, perhaps, 'the block?' Regardless, don't be discouraged. You may need to be open to meeting someone outside this specific, well, space lol
Yes, much better Ken! That baby of yours looks pretty comfortable there... pretty much like he's not going anywhere, even for water
Thanks for sharing parts of your life with us. I think most of our lives are pretty simple and life seems very much about simply loving the gift of simplicity
Hi Ken, My honest feedback is I'm not sure how many will have a desire to watch let alone give feedback when an image of a deadly weapon serves as the entrance way into a day in your life. You shared you received silence. Silence can be a powerful and direct communicator.
Unconditional love is a reality most of us have yet to realize. I don’t know how we can speak of Love without speaking of it as Divine Love for they are one. I don’t think most of us can know the meaning of Divine Love until we know the meaning by way of changed consciousness, whether individually or through spiritual partnership.
In the mean time it seems the entirety of human life is our movement or growth from immature love to mature… that is to say, movement from notions of Love as being ‘romantic expectation’ to inhabiting our lives as Beings of Divine Love, realized.
In my experience, life is about learning what Higher Love is, about how to more deeply Love and about how to allow ourselves to be Loved, deeply so. Life is experience. Yes, we start out loving or attempting to love based on our earliest experiences of how we were or weren’t loved by sources external to ourselves.
But through relationships, our experiences can and do change and deepen as we come to know ourselves more clearly because we serve as mirrors for one another… eventually showing one another that true access to the source of all Love is found within each one of us and, from there flows outwards
hi shubhrank i don't know about 'never' trust an explanation but i do know to always trust your gut! your instincts will never fail you if and when you're in tune with your body
This writing is pure gift, Non. It's very beautiful and filled with truth and wisdom.
How often inside the space of our humanity do we at first rally against a given life experience because we believe it impeding our ability to connect with our deeper selves, only to find that within that experience, within ‘the illusive something hidden in the breeze’, is the very love and support our soul needs in order to know the higher light of its expansion
hi sands, my sense is that while impersonalization continues to intensify, the many systemic structures that contribute and have contributed to its creation are imperceptibly yet radically shifting such that we will be forced to create something new. god knows we need a little of that.
yes, human beings are mirrors for one another; and inside those reflections we are shown exactly what we need to see in order to further our growth and development
brokenman, your profile is quite hostile, but you may already know that. you are probably wasting your time on this site unless you decide to do something differently, within and without.
hi non, this reminds me of a passage from the book The Prophet, by Khalil Gibran... from the chapter 'On Crime and Punishment'
"... and the weak cannot fall lower than the lowest which is in you also. And as a single leaf turns not yellow but with the silent knowledge of the whole tree, So the wrong-doer cannot do wrong without the hidden will of you all. Like a procession you walk together towards your god-self. You are the way and the wayfarers. And when one of you falls down he falls for those behind him... "
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RE: Sarcasm
hmm, i suspect the casm to Sar is long and wide nonor, is that chasm? and, what or where exactly is Sar??
i think i've just confused myself