jbibiza Forum Posts (4,914)

RE: Question for Women...

He needs to get over himself... sounds like he's a legend in his own mind!

What do you think... to harsh?

I wouldn't need to be desperate to give you a call Sparky... just a bit closer!

What do you think... to harsh?

He had Elvis sideburns


hhhmmmm a chicken??? does it work?

Thanks Morgan, feeling a bit better just by venting...

I always loved New Yorkers ooby!

What do you think... to harsh?

I usually just ignore them as well, but I'm tired tonight, have a sore throat and working to many hours... he was just the icing on the cake and got torched for his trouble.

What do you think... to harsh?

I have a lot of young guy friends and adore them, and have had my share of younger lovers which can be great fun.... but this one was on about life partners, completing each others souls... yada, yada, yada... Do I look desperate and wealthy???

What do you think... to harsh?

I don't know about the rest of you women over 40 but I am so fed up with twenty something guys contacting me. This one said he was interested in someone who was straight with her opinion... possibly a mistake when contacting me.

So the following was my reply... what do you think.... to harsh?


Well you said you wanted someone straight in their opinions, be careful what you ask for because sometimes you get it.

Did you not read the age parameters on my profile, I'm willing to give a year or two in either direction, but you're not even close. What could we possibly have in common? I have a daughter just a few years younger then you are, I have been married, divorced, a single parent, a successful business owner and have traveled all over the world.

I am single because it is difficult to find a man who matches me in education, life experience sense of humor and maturity. I am looking for a partner not someone else to take care of and teach. Please don't insult my intelligence and that of other "older" women by thinking that because you are young we will be flattered by your attention.

Regards,

Jbibiza

RE: Introducing myself

RE: Sharon and Me

I'm really happy for you... but yes, devasted for me, if you hadn't been so far away...

Good Luck Ship, I really do hope it works out for you!!!! Try to enjoy a little hugging, I promise it'll make you feel good!!!

RE: has anybody ever ran into trouble whilst travelling abroad ? if so tell us the story !

When I first started traveling I began in Europe and did everything right to begin with... One credit card, one form of Id and a small amount of cash in a travel wallet around my neck, another set of the same in my bag, and another set in my backpack so that if something got stolen I would have 2 backups. Well after 10 months of traveling around Europe and nothing bad happening I got lazy and had all my stuff, id, credit cards, cash in my bag.

I arrived in Barcelona airport and was just getting ready to take the skywalk across to the train when I was shoved to the ground and my bag stolen... all of my stuff gone as well as my camera with about 200 photos that I hadn't had a chance to download. I was devastated! A friend wired me some cash and I spent a couple of hours trying to get a hotel room, but most wouldn't allow me to book because I had no passport or identification even though I had a report from the police station. I spent one night in Barcelona and then booked an overnight train back to my friends in Italy who took such good care of me and helped me replace all my missing stuff.

It's strange... you become so comfortable and then something like that happens and you feel so vulnerable all of a sudden. I missed traveling through Spain and Portugal in order to rebuild my confidence with the love and affection of the people I had met in Italy and then left for Thailand and the rest of my world journey. I spent another 2 years traveling and while I did have some unusual experiences, nothing bad like that ever happened again.

RE: Russian ROulette...send a flower to the person BELOW you.....

Stop following me..FFS...Abd I don' appresiate the web cam you hid in my bathroom.

RE: why do some people just like 2 dis others on CS

Is that sarcasm darling?

RE: Russian ROulette...send a flower to the person BELOW you.....

Pretty Eyes...


Thank you


Tina.... still waiting for my flowers....

RE: Russian ROulette...send a flower to the person BELOW you.....

OMG... goose is coming over to wash my car in a g-string... is that a threat or a promise luv?

RE: Russian ROulette...send a flower to the person BELOW you.....

Tina... where are my flowers!!!!

RE: Russian ROulette...send a flower to the person BELOW you.....

Down where? down under?

RE: Do you judge people before you get to know them?

I'm the same Jan... I completely trust my gut instinct when it comes to people, it saved my life when I was 9 years old and it's allowed my to go into compromising or scary situations with confidence. So many of the experiences I had while traveling involved trusting people, I met a man on the bus in PNG and wound up living with a tribe in the jungle for two weeks, but I knew I could trust him and am so happy to have had that experience!

RE: WOULD YOU GO ON DATE WITH ABOVE PERSON ????

Me too, a good time would be had!

RE: The surrealism compliment generator...

RE: WOULD YOU GO ON DATE WITH ABOVE PERSON ????

I thought you loved me... you don't want to go out???

RE: Love

Acceptance, passion, laughter, connection...

RE: True Love's Kiss

Time, as everyone said and also having a fulfilling life without him... keep yourself busy and active enjoy the company of friends and don't give yourself the time to think about and miss him.

RE: whats ur favourite book

The book I give most often as a gift and really love is The Alchemist by Paul Cohello followed closely by The Fairy Tales of Oscar Wilde... after that there are soooo many, I'm a reading fanatic!

The Time Travelers Wife
The Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns by the same author, I forget the name
The Glass Palace
Every thing by Ann Rice, Margaret Atwood, Carl Hyacinth and Patricia Cromwell
The Red Tent

I'll stop before I get carried away...

RE: Is it ''cool'' to make jokes about .....

I don't remember the exact joke but it was posted on a thread called the most tasteless or crude jokes... so while again I found it in poor taste, it did fit the category and I know the poster didn't mean to be insensitive... I think he just got a bit carried away.

RE: Is it ''cool'' to make jokes about .....

Hey Breezee, I remember the "joke" you were referring to... it was in poor taste but some people seem to find it easier to deal with things by making jokes. As I said I feel it was in poor taste, but I don't let things like that affect me, everyone deals with things in their own way...

Missed you!

RE: dissing

you're mama's so stupid she thought a "Quarterback" was a refund...

RE: dissing

You're so stupid, your mother told you to go buy a color television and you asked, “What color?”

RE: dissing

Ummmmm I think you meant the placenta... the fetus is the baby...

RE: Lizards

wiping eyes

RE: building a rockery in need of flowers...

How about a "shrubbery"?

RE: why do some people just like 2 dis others on CS

I went through that when I first started... but kept posting. Figured I just had to pay my dues and allow people the chance to get to know me.

I'm glad I stuck it out even though there were times that I could look at a page in the forums and see 7 threads I had killed and thought that everyone was conspiring behind my back to not talk to me and it payed off, I've met some great friends here!