My child is a part of me. I brought him into the world. Had to choose , child. Otherwise I would not neglect my an. I would find time for both the people I love.
Many people are 1 person in cyberspace or maybe more, and different in person around those that know them. I try to be real when on a social site but if I could read my words through the last 8 years that I have typed, probably would find places where I wasn't being myself. At the time didn't realize it but I may have said an untruth or exaggerated without giving it thought. Hmmm. Been here at CS off and on for 7 years and from what I have read here, different types of people, many views on subjects, some totally fake, some very real and some in between.
I believe that at 1 time or another we are, will, or have been hypocritical. Not a god thing but at some time most of us have. I admit I have been along the 60 years I have lived. I don't like this trait in a person who does it often and they know it. I don't see success being relevant. JMO
I wouldn't tell a man he's a bad kisser. f other things were going good between us, I would ask if he would kiss me the way I liked. I wouldn't mind if someone asked me to kiss different.
What is the smoking and alcohol have to do with subject in general??????? I have always been a grump when I have to get up. If I wake on my own, no clock, I am better. Still I need my coffee and smoke, wash my face and then I open the drapes to the world. I have got use to being alone now for about 8 years. Not sure if I got married if I would wake saying good morning , or warn him to give me 20 minutes before talking that day. Always loved working midnights. Much more a night person
Conquer fear of height by hot air balloon. White water rafting if I can ever find someone to go with. Paint ball or laser tag. Visit Venice Italy and a scenic Ireland countryside. Fly a remote control plane Go to the Christian Theme park outside Orlando.Get carnationss instead of red roses!!!! Do things positive I will be remembered by. Ok I'll stop now.
Please stay safe. No one is unreachable as some think. If you don't do this already, need to scan entire pc at least 1 time a week. Inbetween should check for malware, trojans etc. every few days. Make sure your programs also scan only files,and other settings. Many are free. Don't go to links you are not sure are safe. Don't open mail that looks like a familiar person or place but the address is off by 1 letter or number, etc.. When I was new to pc, joined this site (1st site!) and this was told to me. Take it or leave it.
Example hot coffee reply hot weather reply weather forecast. This will probably not get a response till tomorrow and then only 1 . That's okay it won't stop me from another game
Santa doesn't need any feel good drinks. He may get lost and miss some homes. Or get stuck in the chimney. He has work to do, then come the 26th of Dec. he can dance all he wants.
Saw 5 messages in mailbox and 4 flowers. It is rare I get more than 3 a week here and maybe 3 flowers. This was in a 32 hour window of time. So I admit I was a tad excited that maybe 1 of these people, new to me, would be the start of something good. . All were what I consider to be most likely or definite scammers- !!! Okay I came back to reasonable thinking very quickly. Then as I am reading what was waiting for me, 4 more suddenly popped in! Must be set up that when someone comes on line, auto message sent . If any were seriously interested in me Coco, the person, strange they happened to be on and write me within 4 minutes of my being on line. I know all sites have these people or robots, been around enough to know what to look for, have ignored in the past, have discussed in groups or forums where others have commented on scammers and "up to no gooders", so why tonight does it bother me so? Rhetorical ?. Just had to get it off my chest and now sharing I feel better. I do not hate the bad people who do the scamming. I don't tell them off. I am above doing so usually. Tonight just was different for me and I was in a great mood before . Now I am back to where my head was before coming to site for mail. Just wanted to get the negative feeling out of me. to the folks who keep the forums going, and to the real people with real reasons for being here Okay I'm done now.
Interesting, no nays or yah on subject so far. . Great subject and much controversy last 10 or so years. I agree with Frisly about organ donation. So many people get a new chance in life from donations. Is there a much powerful gift to give than the gift of life, or much better life. I worked in a hospital where it became mandatory when a patiant passsssed on, for staff member to ask if they would donate any or all organs. Others I worked with felt uneasy about it, so I volunteered because I feel it is important to get the word out. So many people just never give donation a thought. I was on the bone marrow registry in the USA for many years. That means if I would have ever matched to someone in database, I would go in hospital, have procedure where Dr. takes bone marrow and puts it i the ill person. Can save lives and worse I would have had was a few days of soreness. Sadly I now can no longer be considered a donor due to an illness . There are different opinions on the subject and I respect some of the people who are not into the idea of donation, especially body parts when you pass on. To each his own.
The internat. forums are always much busier than the state's forum. It's nice to communicate with people who are closer to home. People who refer to a soft drink as pop not sodja. The only place where we celebrate Sweetest Day.
RE: Today is a wonderful day!
Thanks FriskyOne! If you see this, been hours since you posted, hope you had a great day. Nice to see a positive thread. Hope all are well as can be.