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princealoyiciousHouston, Texas USA1 Threads 1 PostsWho do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
It depends on a lot of things...how old is the child, what is the relationship etc etc...please expand
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
but to answer generally, my child, first every single time
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My child is a part of me. I brought him into the world. Had to choose 
, child. Otherwise I would not neglect my an. I would find time for both the people I love. 
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nomindgames: My child is a part of me. I brought him into the world. Had to choose , child. Otherwise I would not neglect my an. I would find time for both the people I love.
man not an-oops!
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Please all at once.
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Children should always come first, whether they're your children, children you know, or children you don't know.
The thing about being a grown up is that you're a grown up. Deal with it.
The thing about being a grown up is that you're a grown up. Deal with it.
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Whew, boy, is that a loaded question! In American culture, it is normally the kids who are coming first. It is seen as an outrage if a woman puts her man first here. I'll bet it is different in some other cultures. One of the things that is happening here, is that when the wife has a baby, she turns her attention fully on the kid and neglects the man. Of course kids take up alot of time, but spouses need to support each other; love can die of neglect.
To me, love, caring and respect is the most important thing. You love, care for and respect everyone equally, and no one comes before another. But when it comes to being in a new/newish relationship with a man, in that case of course the guy does not have equal footing. Only in a well-established relationship, and that takes time.
Just my humble opinion...
To me, love, caring and respect is the most important thing. You love, care for and respect everyone equally, and no one comes before another. But when it comes to being in a new/newish relationship with a man, in that case of course the guy does not have equal footing. Only in a well-established relationship, and that takes time.
Just my humble opinion...
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In response to: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
Great topic!
I try to do my best to keep it "even" between the two. The both need my TLC (Tender Loving Care).
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Depending on the situation sometimes I'd put my son first and sometimes my late husband.
But in order for me to had seen to their needs I had to tend to myself first.
But in order for me to had seen to their needs I had to tend to myself first.
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
With me it is not a who comes first thing. It would depend on what the situation was. The situation just might call for me to ignore everyone and cater to myself. I try to make good decisions in life. And I am the type that looks at the big picture. I wish it was simply putting things in order but that is not how it happens, so it would be what action needs to be done 
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
I would find this question strange if the guy was the father of the child.
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KNenagh: I would find this question strange if the guy was the father of the child.
Exactly K...also the age of the child. Is it an adult child or what?
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KNenagh: I would find this question strange if the guy was the father of the child.
Very strange indeed...
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
....why?.. Is a woman's role to 'CATER' to a man?....
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online today!online today!pisceslady7Kincumber nr. Gosford, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 4 Polls 1,910 PostsSurely BOTH parents are responsible to 'cater for' (I prefer 'nurture the relationship') with the child AND to each other.
If the child is still in the parent's care i.e. a minor child, they are CHILDREN and therefore need more guidance and attention than an adult.
I find it rather skewed to ask if a WOMAN has to chose for whom she will cater and not 'a parent'.
If the child is still in the parent's care i.e. a minor child, they are CHILDREN and therefore need more guidance and attention than an adult.
I find it rather skewed to ask if a WOMAN has to chose for whom she will cater and not 'a parent'.
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
Themselves 
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princealoyicious: Who do you cater to first: your child, or your man? And why?
let them fill thier stomach first 
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ali110: Themselves
Not all of us ali.True there are some selfish people who do only cater to themselves.
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Ccincy: Not all of us ali.True there are some selfish people who do only cater to themselves.
thats true ciny 
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