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RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 15

Your love is king...

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It's always the men, Krema, who are the culprits....

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....door slightly ajar....



You ought to consider doing likewise missy!

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Yes!

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Thank you Tom.

You've seem to have found the woman of your dreams, going by what I read on here.

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As I understand it J....a fwb applies to a "free for all friends".

...but you're getting warmer. I'd be looking for an exclusive fwb arrangement only.

I'm fussy. What can I say?

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You'd need a few of those just with one meet with me....

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I get what you are saying.....I think....

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I'd say you'd be a very intriguing, interesting encounter, Red, at the very least.

I would very much like to share a coffee with you. Just a coffee...and I'll keep some aspirin handy...

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Hi Krema

I was certainly never a great juggler of men.....I only want one

Yep, time can be a factor for us....and that's why I hesitate a little into getting myself involved....I wouldn't be able to give "him" my all. I need to keep plenty in reserve for my children.

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Hi Demi,

My situation is a little more complex than the norm...so I need to continue to be up front and honest from the get-go.

...but, yep....would be nice to have that someone in my life to share special moments with.

All the very best and thank you for your comment.

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That certainly would be a treat I'd look forward to....

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I do Red...

Occasionally I get a head-ache...

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Why? what were you going to say?

You're looking good for your years T. You have no worries....

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Hiya Geri...

I'm probably a little less demanding....I'm not wanting the full commitment....just a nice, easy, natural stroll in the park is how I see it.

...and you're right....patience is the key.

I'm coming up 55 soon....not such a spring chicken, but as Deb mentioned, will remain open to the possibilities.

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Hi Deb

Leaving my comfort zone... scary....

I think I just get a little fed up with the dating process....making the effort. I've only really contemplated closing the door firmly shut just recently...I like to believe there are still gems out there for us...and yet we're so down under here, that it's almost impossible to consider someone not local. I wouldn't expect anyone to make a long distance commitment.

I'll leave the door ajar....and venture further...maybe to my mailbox....he could be the postie, after all....

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Hi Deb

Just read your post before I logged out.

I have to go.

...but will respond when I get back this afternoon.

I'll catch up with you then.

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Rohann

A love affair.... hmmmmm being romantically swept away.....that would appeal, I must say...and be very distracting.

I think I'd like that.....very much.

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Yes....you're right, of course. I would not be looking for love but a friendship first and foremost.....and potentially see where that heads, if anywhere.

So many of us get caught up in the "gotta have the relationship"....that we forget the basics of just being friends.

Thank you for your advice.

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You know I will....ultimately make my own decision.

Just interesting to hear other's viewpoints.

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Hi Galrads

Thank you for your advice.

Dating is indeed poopy. That's all I have to say on that....

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I will indeed Track....thank you.

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Red.....*she googles "visceral"*

Can you dumb it down a tad for me please?

I forgot to mention the other day: I think you're a very clever man....always challenging. Wise beyond your years.

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It takes a selfless man J.....to deal with my situation. Not all men like to be at the bottom of the totem pole, but I live in hope I will find a man who is understanding and patient.

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Hi Track

Yep, always up-front and honest about my situation.

I was dating not long ago. The men I met, seemed more interested in my bedroom décor than getting to know me first....

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Thanks everyone for your comments and advice.

I'll deal with it MY way......I always was, anyway.... regardless.

I was just interested in your views, is all.

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Hi South.

Thanks for your comment.

No, I don't need counselling....

A man in my life perhaps, is what I would like.

I'm cheery enough to be around....

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No. I'm sorry J.

Thank you for your comment but you've got that completely wrong.

You have no idea what I contend with on a daily basis.

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Oh....he larrrves me....

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I'd settle for a boyfriend Molly....sounds a little childish....but it'd have to be a "ok, I'm not tired....let's do something" arrangement....and yet I'm not into any of the abbreviated forms such as fb or fwb.....just someone who is prepared to put up with all I have going on.

I've hopped off the shelf for the time being....I need a breather!