Ah you mean that is a noose around his neck....god love him
Poor sod will have to keep paying for awhile since child support here is until the child reaches 18 or in cases of special needs until they are 23, so he is stuck paying 20 euros a week for our daughter until she is 23.
Is not worth the hassle hun, took 2 years back and forth to get that, that is why I get so annoyed when men on here go on about women getting everything , houses, cars, lol I had to sell my car to buy food and he came after me for half of what I got for it..took me 5 years to pay off the debts he left, when I filed for divorce in October he rang to say he was taking me back to court to reduce payments, am awaiting a court dare for that...
I just feel that sometimes on here people go on about how the woman takes the man for everything he has .... is not always the case...took me 5 years to pay of the debts my ex left me with..am not asking for praise, there are many men and women out there dealing with the same thing, I just want ppl to realise that when a marriage breaks down it is not always the man that is left in to pay the financial cost.
My ex gave up his job in order to avoid paying support. I never asked for anything for myself, I am more than capable of working, so as I said I got 20 euros per week per child.I work part time so that I can be at home for our daughter who is special needs.
Not at all, there are so many poor souls in far worse position then me and mine.
I knew I had done my job as a parent right when one Christmas, when we were writing their Santa lists, my son said to me ' Mam I dont need anything, I want some stuff, but I dont need it'
Thank you, I called her Zoe for a reason, it means LIFE she was born less than a year after her brother who only lived for a short while.
My arms are empty They ache for you You stood no chance You came to soon In such a rush To join this world You would not stay Inside my womb Where I could keep you safe and warm
I hope you are in a better place With Gods love shining on your face A piece of me died that day with you A piece forever lost
As the years pass I see your smile In your sisters face She is my special child
A gift from God When you had gone To help me heal To help me smile
My arms are empty They ache for you My precious boy I will always love you.
On a personal level, my daughter has always been a hero to me. At the age of 3 I was told she would never walk, talk or be able to look after herself.
Thankfully Zoe herself didnt believe that.
I watched her determination to do all of these things, copying her older brother, falling down to many times to count but always trying again. I saw the frustration in her eyes and witnessed the tantrums as she got bigger, I saw the intelligence in her and the frustration that she could not express this. Always a fighter she is now 16 and going to mainstream school with learning support. A popular and outgoing girl who was maid form captain this year.
vonney Forum Posts (6,371)
RE: another saturday night and i ain't got nobody!
Well I have never found to be a closed club, like anything in life, you get out what you put in.