Ok, seriously though, all elements are needed in order to be happy and well balanced; the problem is when they are in conflict and you are going back and forth in your mind; that is when gut feeling comes in and settles the argument.
It's like a present; you have to open the box and see what's in it. Sometimes it's a delightful surprize and sometimes you might be thinking to yourself I need to return or exchange this
RE: Tell me your version of a romantic night and encounter
wasn't sure what you meant