Fortunately I have never been clinically depressed. I have been down, feeling low, have a little crying jag but doesn't last long. I have been a whiner. A lot of people whine, I don't think they realise it. (especially in profile...."what wrong with me")waa! waa! waa!. Count yourself blessed to have a decent life. To be depressed would be debilitating without proper medical help. Hopefully one could turn a corner eventually and enjoy life again.
11 weeks...it is a good start...you ain't done yet. lol. I found when I would be sitting watching TV...my left hand would move over to the side table as if to pick up a cigarette. I would have to remind myself "Oh yeah, you don't smoke anymore". I would dream I was smoking. Wake up, and be upset because I thought I had actually smoked a cigarette. It took a good 2 years for that craving to go away.
FAT chance I am having surgery in early January. I am pretty damn sure I will lose a few pounds after surgery. (not the intent of the surgery). Best of luck to both of us.
So true Larry. I quit 12 years ago and it was because I wanted to. I would only get mad at people who said "You shouldn't smoke you know".....like duh don't you think I know that stupid. Well that's what I wanted to say to them. But I would say "I know, I know" and smile. But I did manage cold turkey. Finally have no desire to smoke, but that craving took years to go away. Now I am trying to diet, which I find hard, cause you can't stop eating!!!
I wish there was a safe button as you went. For some reason my computer leaves where I am typing in any program and minimizes or sometimes I just lose everything altogether. Do I follow what of people say about me..NO...cause it is usually said behind your back in gossip form. I am guilty as the next person. Nations do it. Sometimes I regret what I have said. But can't be perfect cause I am human. And humans are not perfect.
Sorry misunderstood, and no I did not know anything about your relationship with him, so I ASSUMED, of course we all know what that means. Anyways, LD relationships are not easy to maintain. Hope you find someone closer to home and that is worthy.
A wise man said to me recently, 80% of a relationship is initially based upon the first 10 seconds of meeting someone and then 20% may or may not follow. And yet on the internet we are trying to base a 100% of a relationship on that 20%. And he is right. I remember not too long ago, met a fellow, we decided to go for a walk as our initial meeting. Well as soon as he got out of his car, I immediately thought NO! he is not for me. I haven't seen him since. (was from another site).
There is nobody below yet...it would depend if I liked the person...if yes...I would drop rose petals. If didn't like person I would drop an anvil. A great big black one. BOOM!
Definitely Time4....a gentleman in and out. One young pup that is no longer with us...(sorry he is still alive)(gosh no freaking out). Taff....likes to play with his balls... (you're not going to live this down Taff) hahahahaha
Just a lot of new faces Larry (to me). Seems like CS is on the downside of the hill and hasnt hit bottom yet. I am finding it rather boring here. Not that it has to do with anyone or anything...it will take a while for groups to form and personalities to shine. Apparently it goes in cycles. So have to wait awhile before it starts ascending once again.
Morning Bob...Merry Xmas...saw him too...he was really flying, presents falling from the sky. Most made it down chimneys but a few crashed right through the roofs. oh oh!
Still awake...just woke up about 20 minutes ago...Santa went to my daughters house...she has a chimney... What about you...spending it with you family ?
I must have my head stuck in sand cause to me most of these people showed up yesterday. But I just checked someone profile and they have been here for years. I guess I just don't pay attention. So for any people that I have ignored....I am sorry...if I ignore you in the future ...sorry again...my memory never has been good. But Merry Christmas to new and old members.
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RE: DEPRESSION
Fortunately I have never been clinically depressed. I have been down, feeling low, have a little crying jag but doesn't last long. I have been a whiner. A lot of people whine, I don't think they realise it. (especially in profile...."what wrong with me")waa! waa! waa!. Count yourself blessed to have a decent life. To be depressed would be debilitating without proper medical help. Hopefully one could turn a corner eventually and enjoy life again.