Thanks shell and it felt more like 12 btw. Yes it was a big shock but all that matters is that he is ok and thank goodness he is. I will send your wishes to him, he actually might be on for a while tonite depends on whether he has to fight the grand kids for the computer or not.
Im not feeling to kind right now lve ordered 3 sets of pajamas for my mother for her birthday via the internet as l couldnt find what she wanted in any shop. I have to change the order 3 times so far due to that size not being available. So lm now getting 2 pairs of pajamas and have been given a $36.00 gift voucher to replace the pair that is out of stock. I now have absolutley no idea what the pajamas look like that lm getting, lm in a total state of confusion....no wonder l hate shopping
I did the same for one of my nephews, he gave me down payment and we set up a direct deposit into my account. He's a good kid and he hasnt let me down yet, he has kept the payments up and lm sure he wont let me down.
My father passed away about 12 months due to cancer, he was estranged from the family in the end due to his treatment of all us. Sadly he died a very lonely old man but he bought it on himself, in the end his behavour was so unforgivable and we had to part ways from him for our sakes. I hadnt spoken to or heard from him for 5 years. The only one he ever had time for was my brother who stood by him till the end. He openly used to say to people he had 1 child just to give you an idea of what he was like...he had 5 children! and probably a few more that we dont know about. Sometimes you just forgive anymore.
thats what l thought too curly, l was pretty much raised by my mum. My father was the most selfish person lve ever known, even though he was thier for most of my childhood he wasnt a good father or husband for that matter. My mum on the other hand is one of the most giving people lve ever known. I like to think that lm lot like my mum...at least l hope l am, l would never want to be like my father.
Yes my mum is the kind of lady you think she is and she has said to me that she worries that she is a burden. But l have told her that she isnt and never will be and she will never go into a home unless she needs around the clock nursing care. Society has got it so wrong now, we should look after our parents if it is at all possible and only put them in a home if you absolutley have too. And l know how lucky l am to still have her
No its not easy, but l love and admire my mum so much and l feel privledged to be able to pay her back in kind for always being thier for us no matter what was going on in her life. I will go the health food shop tommorow and get some L-Lysine for her, she was lucky we got her to the Dr within 72 hours so she had the anti-viral...so it could have been worse. Thanks Jem
She is not capable of helping others, l had to pick her up off the floor two times last night. She has very bad arthritis and a spine condition which has caused her to lose all the muscle strength in her back, arms and legs. So she is how she is and shall remain so. In fact its a miracle she is not in a wheel chair as she was told she would be by the age of 45, she is now 76. She is one of the strongest, toughest women lve ever known and if the worst she suffers from in life is having bouts of deperession, self pity and dwelling on the past sometimes so be it she has earnt the right to do so. I wont be answering anymore of your posts on this subject with you Rob, you dont know the full history here and never will know it is private and lve had enough of this subject.
And dont you think l try that Rob, l do it every day, l always tell her she should be thinking about the things she can still do and who she still has in her life instead of dwelling on what she cant do and whom she hasnt got in her life anymore. Believe me when l say l have tried every approach and l must be doing something right because even her Dr is surprised that she is still around and has said he relizes lm the only reason that is the case.
RE: Are smokers faces different from their non smoking friends?
Thats ok Daggy, you didnt know and yes he is ok.