psssh I don't know. Lucky for me I don't go on looks alone but want to get to know ppl personality wise before I introduce them to my family.
Unfortunately alot of people don't work this way. Hypothetically let's assume David Beckham had a flesh eating disorder that ate away at half his face.....how many women would want him then?
I remember when I was a little girl watching the movie 'The Elephant Man' with William Hurt. I also recall when the movie finished how I wished he had been my brother so I could have looked after him, been his friend and showed him the kindness that others never did.
Sometimes I think it can pay not to have a profile pic on this site, but I have mentioned that in another thread already. Looks can mean something, but at the end of the day, compatibility wins hands down!
good thread. If I could save it to favourites for easy reference I would. As it is, I am making a small post now so I can find it easily from my profile.
Not trying hard to find anyone. You meet the right person when you least expect it. They could be in your social circle already and you just haven't realised it yet.
If I were to meet you Rumyet I would spend hours upon hours on my makeup to show you that I thought very seriously about the date. I would hope that you appreciate my efforts when I show up!
That was a good read. Very interesting. I'm glad they left the grave untouched, it's more symbolic now, and I'm really amazed at how little is left of the infants :(
My apologies, I was not writing completely in first person, it was a generalised opinion of 'we as a society whole'. Not specific to you either. Some will fit the niche, some won't. I'm half in and half out. I recognise the issue and am trying to work past it.
I sometimes wonder whether we put a little too much emphasis on physical attraction when looking for someone to connect with. If people had no pictures at all on their profile we suffer from one form of sensory deprivation and are forced to use other measures to find someone compatible. ie: personality, intelligence, wit.
Some of the nicest people I have met on this site never had pictures on their profile.
What do you all think? Do we place expectations on others too much? Have we unintentionally narrowed our search options because we have become shallow; and as a society and our moral code has flown out the window?
I understand when someone states that physical attraction is conducive to a healthy relationship but doesn't one become physically attracted to the persona as well? Physical attraction fades, inner beauty will always remain.
After a period of time I would, not to live but to visit, take turns etc. If it worked out you could cross that bridge later and decide where to settle.
Heya wind. There is instant messaging in chat and also a cam/ audio option in IM as well, however, the system is glitchy and it may take a few goes to get through to a person. You need to make sure IM settings are set to 'on' and adjust who can contact you in this manner also.
This is done via the mail page. In the left hand column is a tab for IM settings. Do not confuse it with IM requests. Click it, set it to on and anything else. Then you can IM someone when they come into chat .... hopefully. You can also click the im tab on someones profile to IM them if they're online at the time of viewing.
Site admin had techies in to overhaul the IM system but I don't think they've finished and if they are, then the system is unstable. Just keep trying imo.
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RE: What do my photos make you think about me?
That looks like a fur seal Dag :P