I wear Paris Hilton (please forgive me) but it smells awesome. Everyone comments on how nice it is. I bought I Am King by Sean John for my partner, it is divine, I could eat him. I was so in love with it, I carried the sample card around in my purse and if I ever saw it when someone was around I made them smell it.
I am more of a package person (no, not that package) . I think it is more an unspoken attitude, confidence, aura. I can't put my finger on a look, blonde, brunette, short, tall, fat, thin, it is more of the vibe a man puts out that grabs my attention. I love cocky confidence. Of course there has to be a physical attraction too and the chemistry but there is not a stereotypical thing that I look for attraction wise.
It is a turn off to me to see that someone drinks 'regularly'. I am not particularly interested in dating a drunk. I love a good time and drink when I am out but not every day.
RE: The biggest turn-off
Only if I can be the spooner, not the spoonee.