Yourse so beautiful for a man eyes to be wandering when he's got you! Goes to show SOME men are just pigs and want their cake & eat it too. I'm sorry girl, that sux!
I'm normally not a jealous person and I've never experienced a boyfriend of mine flirting with any of my friends but if it happen I would probably not like it and would feel jealous and disrespected.
I think people should mind their own business! If two people love each other, their skin color shouldn't matter. What matters is the love they share for each other.
RE: Should the guy txt the girl first?
Unless you're old-fashionshed, I don't think it matters much these days.