i never ever bashed you and i defy you to point out where i did
that is your perception and as many times as i said im sorry you feel that way and tried to separate your choice from your person you never got it and you still get what is apparently the delicious luxury of shouting about how bad i am-even tho it isnt true
i got mail too
never mentioned it
i dont care who agrees-thats the point of it all swiss whats right is right. period.
exposing someone when they arent present isnt right.
but if justifying it makes it ok for you i will just have to understand and exit
again my intent was never and still is not to bash
it wasnt a nice feeling to see you post that about me in here
i think it was unkind and more appropriate in email but thats just my lowly opinion isnt it?
this is exactly the opinion i was getting at all along
if a person is principled their values dont change
it isnt ok to treat some with simple decency and not others
im not no one- i am as someone as anyone else here we are all equal and i have feelings too yet here are two adult women that find it ok to be hateful and unkind to me
why? cuz 'i made you'?
sad really
show decency to those we like and who cares about anyone else thats whats wrong with the world
you can say whatever you like about me but my principles dont vary according to who is being inappropriate-
you didnt say it in mail you said it in this forum
believe me i dont want any business who you mail about what
funny you cant see who has kept it going
funny you have pointed out to others who have done this exactly what i have said
funny how you are here trying to protect and regulate traffic on an open forum
no forum or thread belongs to anyone anyway
it belongs to all which is why the rules are in place
5.This Forum is for public posts only. To email one-on-one with another member, use the "Email" button on that member's profile. The forum is not a platform to play out private arguments between members, or to expose the wrongs of others. Keep private discussions to email.
21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members.
all thru i made clear i was discussing principle and not 'attacking' swiss -and i dont BS i am clear and sincere
i can sleep tonight cuz i havent been horrid to anyone today
wikipedia is not comparable to a dictionary and CS has the right to define gossip as they see fit
you are free to report me but to mail me calling me evil and such?
what
ever
report away dear but i havent been unkind to you for a moment and you have been absolutely vile to me in such a letter and it is clear you can justify any ugly behavior as long as its you doing it
i didnt post on his blog like i know or dont know you
what i posted on his blog is what I posted on his blog
TO HIM
see thats the funny thing about principles
they apply across the board to everyone
and i didnt make up the definition of gossip it is what it is
you can cry wolf and shout how what you say is true but no one knows except you and he
CS and i happen to have the same definition of gossip its in their rules- read them
as i have said-this has zero to do with you, me and you,or me.
this has to do with what is right and wrong, regardless of who is doing what to whom, and also what is good taste and what are the rules at the site-which i happen to agree with.
i havent reported you, but that is my choice not to. you also have a choice- exercise it
you have now also made a personal attack on me. you do not, it is clear, understand my motives for posting- and you are also wrong about them.
2 wrongs dont make a right.
i can feel sorry the guy offended you but not agree with your method of scandalizing someone on here. its a shame you cant separate those 2 concepts
talking about OUR feelings and experiences WITHOUT placing attacking posts on the persons blog is common and within the rules-indeed
but anyone who would hear one side of a story and make a decision on a person based on hearsay is an adolescent. and they are also listening to gossip
just cuz you didnt mention his name here you mentioned how to find him and posted nastiness to his blog
thats not just sharing your dating experience
hey maybe im wrong
i say everyone at CS should talk to each other for a week and then post here about it and see if anyone ever gets together/
oh yeah and then lets post nastiness at each other complete with accusations -thats a great idea!!
why can you not for even a moment step back and see the big picture? why must you be in a victim state and think its an attack on you? its not. in fact there was some good advice there but you miss it being so busy being a victim-
im not meaning to cause you to feel attacked at all swiss-just wanting to get you to stop and think and have a golden rule moment maybe?
and i for one dont think youre even attractive really but i understand people
and men
as i said -i was speaking on principle
did you bother looking up the definition of gossip?
or reading the rules for posting?
i have no vendetta against you lifes too short kiddo
i said at least 4 times and explained my point repeatedly it is not personal about you
i made some points that are absolutely valid and i made some observations
not a big deal
you so often do the wail about how chicks hate you because youre good looking and blah-dy blah blah you are the first to feel personally insulted but always find justification in insulting another
youre too easy
you could never earn a vendetta from me
you completely misunderstood and for that i am sorry
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i was gonna say id buckle myself in
since you dont get it either
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