Cookies and cream first, cookie dough second. I also like vanilla with the chocolate shell stuff that hardens when you put it on. Or triple chocolate fudge.
When I was younger I didn't have the self-confidence to take the initiative, and ended up with whoever chose me, rather than being more picky and going after what I wanted.
I have more confidence in myself now. If a man rejects me, it won't kill me, I'm just not his type. And he's not my type either. Actually in my experience very few men are going to reject an advance from a woman, unless he's an extreme control freak and has to have the upper hand and do all the chasing. And who wants that?
Am I right guys? How many of you would be put off by a woman taking the initiative and letting you know she's interested? I'm not talking about some girl coming up and saying she wants to f**k, but a nice advance just to let you know she'd like to get to know you better.
Some things there are no explanation about. Why would you get so angry about it? Are they shaking your non-belief? If not, leave em alone about it. No one can make you understand something you don't believe in. I'm not gonna try to change your mind. Just don't get pissed off at me cause you can't change mine.
So why did you feel the need to argue with her about it? Who's judging who now?
Like I said, leave me alone and let me believe what I know in my heart is true, and I'll let you believe that you're no more important than an ant if that's what you want.
BTW, we are all animals. That doesn't mean we're all the same.
Ok, I'm like ultra Baptist, my daddy was a preacher, but I wouldn't say I didn't like someone just because they were an atheist. God loves misguided souls, and so do I. (J/K )
No kidding, I have friends who are atheist, or at least agnostic, but I don't judge their beliefs and they don't judge mine.
Some atheists do judge believers, like you're ignorant if you believe in God, and want to convince you how stupid you are. Those are the ones I don't like. You can believe or not believe anything you want, as long as you extend me the same privilege.
If you don't want people judging your beliefs, don't tell them. I don't discuss religion with anyone unless they bring up the subject, sometimes not even then if it seems they want to argue about it. I'm not gonna argue with anyone about what I or they believe.
I am more spiritual than religious. Religion is man's creation, a way of expressing something that is really beyond our comprehension. Spirituality is our personal relationship with a power greater than we are, and every person has a different way of expressing that. No one should force another into their version of that relationship.
Not only will you not gain from it, the children won't either.
However, you can't change the past, so why ponder what you should have done. All you can do is go on from here and do the best you know how, just as you did the best you knew how in the past.
RE: Can working with your partner improve your relation, or maybe destroy it?
Yes.