Sorry to hear about the fires, it is hard to see your home go up in flames.
When you need to get things off your chest this is the right place to come. You can say whatever you want as it is alright to feel this way for now, but you have to get back up, shake yourself off and start again as it is the only thing you can do.
She told him yesterday that she wants to go to school and take a course that is 6 months long. She wants to wait until after she is finished before moving in, he is the one who wants it now.
The prenup is because he had to fight his ex to keep the house and does not want to lose it. He lives in a small town and she does not drive so she also wants to get her license first as there is no buses there.
She sounds more sound than I would have been as I meet and married my first husband within 3 months.We were living together after a couple of weeks.
They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.
It is hard to believe that people would be so rude to tell you to not post. It is a free world and last time I checked we still have freedom of speech.
So tell them off, and you will do what ever you want.
I had to get a security check done and had to show I.D. My hair in the picture was red and he said I did not match my picture. I told him it was just hair dye.
I can relate with how you feel. I have been struggling with my weight for years now and wish I could stay away from all the junk food. I have done good in the past too, but cannot seem to get there again. I have the bad habit if I start, I finish it all. I will continue even though I know that the junk will make me sick the next day and I will feel awful and be on the toilet with bad pains most of the day, now that is bad.
I have thought about seeing if getting hypnotized will help.
The doctors refuse to give her any more help as they say they cannot help someone who does not want it. Right now she is still in the hospital and trying to get back into the mental hospital that she got kicked out from by returning drunk from passes.
I do not know why she wants to go back as she has been there four times already and either leaves or get told to leave. She says she knows if she can get back there she will be fine. I do not believe her.
She was in detox last week and when got out went straight to drinking and doing drugs and ending up in the hospital again.
She had a daughter and she gave her away as she could not stop the drinking or drugs and did not want to look after her. She said she is not the mother type. Her daughter is 5 now and in a good home, when the daughter visits me she will come to see her but not want to stay for the whole visit and leaves. I do not think it is good for her to see her daughter anymore.
She says she likes the feeling, and she does drugs with it. She says she likes how she can go into another world. She does admit she is an alcoholic and even goes to meetings sometimes.
She does not want to work, just to drink and play her music or watches movies. She says she has no ambition and work is not for her. She finally got disability pension so now she spends it all on drugs and alcohol after paying her room and board.
She phoned from the hospital yesterday and I told her I did not want to talk to her as I am tired of it. Do not know if it will make a difference or not.
Has already been to numberous treatment places, but do not work as she says she just wanted to cut down not stop, but then ends back where she is always in trouble again.
kitty01 Forum Posts (5,310)
RE: COFFEE CAKE
I cannot stand coffee grounds in a cup of coffee so not sure how I would like them in my cake, but I would be willing to try for a piece of CAKE.