Some did, some didn't. Some like to feel they have the upper hand. Especially when things go wrong.
Just have your own perception. Personally, I prefer to keep things private. But you cannot control what other people choose to do. Often it is used as a form of trying to control the other person.
I am sure, I have been around plenty of them in my life to know this. Most people treat online casually, well until someone catches feelings for another.
The point is, we're all so very different with different ideals. That the only time it will actually work is if two people are on the same page. That requires a leap of faith, honesty, communication and moving it offline.
I have found that somewhere in those 4 elements, something is missing within those two people that creates any negativity. So take a leap of faith. Be honest, talk about changing it from an online conversation and take it offline. Don't be blinded..
If I Were a Boy Beyoncé If I were a boy Even just for a day I'd roll out of bed in the morning And throw on what I wanted and go Drink beer with the guys And chase after girls I'd kick it with who I wanted And I'd never get confronted for it 'Cause they'd stick up for me If I were a boy I think I could understand How it feels to love a girl I swear I'd be a better man I'd listen to her 'Cause I know how it hurts When you lose the one you wanted 'Cause he's taken you for granted And everything you had got destroyed If I were a boy I would turn off my phone Tell everyone it's broken So they'd think that I was sleeping alone I'd put myself first And make the rules as I go 'Cause I know that she'd be faithful Waiting for me to come home
Alot of American's date several people at the same time. Making a choice later down the line. Seeing it as, not putting all their eggs in one basket. Not saying all do, but to me that is the exact opposite of what you are trying to convey.
Well that certainly isn't how I define a relationship. I define it on building a future, working at it together. Having a bond through trust and intimacy.
Well some of us are honest from the get go. Scammers will always exist. It's earning a living to them.
You see they are real people, but their intent is very different. There are plenty of tell tale signs and you have to have your own limits of what you're prepared to do and for how long.
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Ha and your humour wil carry you far :)