RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

Ha and your humour wil carry you far :)

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

laugh it was the 3 books!

RE: TRUMP vs IRAN

I don't know Merc, but if they are. It wouldn't be me in how many talk to other people. Just something I find really unattractive as a woman.

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

I was told that too lol

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

You can have mine too. I keep updating it every day in hope. But I guess I am ageist as I don't feel comfortable talking to guys much younger.

A flaw, but true.

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

(Sigh) no matter how many times I keep putting age restrictions on my mail settings. It doesn't help. frustrated

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

I've been known to drink pints. Well of lager & black.

But my preference would be Rum or wine these days.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Some did, some didn't. Some like to feel they have the upper hand. Especially when things go wrong.

Just have your own perception. Personally, I prefer to keep things private. But you cannot control what other people choose to do. Often it is used as a form of trying to control the other person.

Something I don't agree with.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Hmm I would say keep it private rather than on the forum. The forums are perhaps a better way of seeing if you have a common ground.

Kinda like try before you buy.. or go to private conversations.

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

Merc stop at the 3rd pint laugh

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

Toodles wave

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

Ok I can accept that.

Does that mean I don't give you water?

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

laugh So you're not my friend? crying

Tinker!!

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

God damn it laugh

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

laugh I winked.

help

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

I am sure, I have been around plenty of them in my life to know this. Most people treat online casually, well until someone catches feelings for another.

The point is, we're all so very different with different ideals. That the only time it will actually work is if two people are on the same page. That requires a leap of faith, honesty, communication and moving it offline.

I have found that somewhere in those 4 elements, something is missing within those two people that creates any negativity. So take a leap of faith. Be honest, talk about changing it from an online conversation and take it offline. Don't be blinded..

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

I am really sorry but I really don't swing that way wink

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

If I Were a Boy
Beyoncé
If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
'Cause they'd stick up for me
If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone
I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home


....

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

There is no tea emoji. But the thought is there. hug

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Alot of American's date several people at the same time. Making a choice later down the line. Seeing it as, not putting all their eggs in one basket. Not saying all do, but to me that is the exact opposite of what you are trying to convey.

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

I clearly need more coffee laugh

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Well that certainly isn't how I define a relationship. I define it on building a future, working at it together. Having a bond through trust and intimacy.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Someone who has no intention of taking it anywhere. Well my version. Therefore wasting your time.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

I have no intention of dating. It isn't because I am bored or lonely. It's because I like different opinions and seeing different perspectives.

But I am upfront about it, I won't and don't play games with people. But the amount of guys who think they can change my mind is frustrating.

So honesty does not always work. See?

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

But the same thing actually happens offline as well. There will always be people with their own agenda.

Are you saying that would like the site to put in rules where you photo I.d yourself for verification?

dunno

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Well some of us are honest from the get go. Scammers will always exist. It's earning a living to them.

You see they are real people, but their intent is very different. There are plenty of tell tale signs and you have to have your own limits of what you're prepared to do and for how long.

Just my thoughts.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

I see, well I guess to me maturity would be for the person to ask the other what their interest is in me or vice versa.

But it still would be a choice to trust.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Urm but to be fair a confident person doesn't have those issues?

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

So if you are talking to someone you like. Would that question not be on your mind? dunno

I've had men ask me that question or say you seem to be very friendly with..

Works both ways dependent on the interest each person has in another.

RE: How to make online dating more successful!

Doesn't that imply lack of a) Trust and b) self doubt?

This is a list of forum posts created by Rachie14.

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here