I just don't believe it's only the internet. If you think about it. Even scammers are real people. All have motives. Although, I admit in my thinking some odd ones.
Eh we all make stupid mistakes, if we didn't we'd be robots and even they malfunction at times.
Learning to accept you won't always agree or get on and working through it. As we age we change our thoughts. Often it changes feelings for that person.
The only love I have found to be unconditional is with my kid. No matter how crazy they drive me. But I don't always have to like them to know I love them. Which is where I think we fail in long term. Not recognising this and talking things through.
It's hard to communicate with each other when feelings are hurt and we all have our ways with dealing with that. Which is where love is challenged.
I know I am one of those people. That sometimes I just need space from the person, simply so my emotional reactions don't make things worse. Often people will see that as a bad thing. Rather than the true intention is not to say things I don't mean. Causing a further divide and hurt. It is often seen as rejection, being pushed away. When that is far from my intent.
We all communicate on our own levels. It's reaching a level of compromise to enable us to talk.
I try to read your posts to enter into a discussion with you about the topic.
Then I realise after you have made several posts I won't bother because you leave me with the impression that it isn't a discussion, but just a statement of your own thoughts.
Something always brings me back to you. It never takes too long. No matter what I say or do I'll still feel you here 'til the moment I'm gone.
You hold me without touch. You keep me without chains. I never wanted anything so much Than to drown in your love and not feel your rain.
Set me free, Leave me be. I don't wanna fall another moment into your gravity Here I am and I stand so tall, just the way I'm supposed to be. But you're on to me and all over me.
Oh, you loved me 'cause I'm fragile When I thought that I was strong. But you touch me for a little while And all my fragile strength is gone.
I live here on my knees As I try to make you see That you're everything I think I need here on the ground.
But you're neither friend nor foe Though I can't seem to let you go. The one thing that I still know is that you're keeping me down.
You're keeping me down, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah You're on to me, on to me, and all over...
Something always brings me back to you. It never takes too long.
Compliments are nice. Recognising a person isn't interested is where you need to stop. Then you're crossing a fine line.
There are certain cultures though where it's normal to compliment and nothing is meant by it. One of my Italian friends explained there is nothing in it other than making another feel good.
Life experience that's all. I know personally what it is like to take on these people.
It's all a bad experience, but for every single person who has to go through it. Most people would and do give up. I can truly understand why.
In an ideal world talking would fix everything, but we are all reliant on being heard.
People these days talk for the sake of hearing themselves, not to listen. I replied here because of your desire to know. Sometimes that warren hole is deep and dark. You never do quite come back out of it the same. Which is why I would always tell people to be prepared and let them know exactly what they are letting themselves in for.
But the truth is, nobody will know realistically until they have no other choice.
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Is he 13?Sorry lost my vision so couldn't read.