I never could accept that, even from a young age. I grew up around a devout Christian. Her moral compass and dedication was admirable. But I couldn't see it being any different than equating to be a decent human being.
I mean when I am dead, I'm dead. But that fear you will be damned and take up residence with the devil if you don't follow me was never for me.
But when I see people do good and pay it forward. That is part of humanity to me. It also makes me smile a lot.
Tell us about Holly war? Because I think a lot of people associate the misunderstanding of the group ISIS have of this. Rather than what it is meant to be...
Thanks, is it true that Jihad has one of the pillars is to overcome such things as hatered, malice, anger and pride?
What justifies Jihad?
You see Said, the reason I am saying this is because it is not much different than other religions. There are people that follow it to the scripture and those that don't. That translate it very differently.
Sure there are bad followers of Catholics and Christians. Just as there are of Muslims. Everyone can highlight people who do wrong in both.
I didn't say you said it. I was asking you to clarify your point.
I think I am fairly restrained. But there does come a point as a woman. I am not going to put up with a man giving me a hard time. That does not make me less feminine, it means I have lost any respect for you as a man (not personally)
I am not a fan of certain behaviour or certain types of men. Perhaps as much as you are not, hence the topic.
That would be your defination of a real man. Mine as a woman would be somewhat different.
You are asking if I value my feminity right? I am saying yes I do. But are you saying that when women are not passive aggressive and speak their mind they lose that?
Now I would agree with you on this but from personal experience online I can tell you there is not much respect from some of the men. Often I have remained polite but firm with these guys. But there does come a point where you are continually disrespected that it changes that conversation.
So to answer your question. It depends on the man. There are a few men on here that I have a lot of respect for. I will always respect that and return it.
You should NEVER try to isolate a woman from her friends. Same goes for women with men.
Dating was never going to be easy Said. You have to have the confidence in who you are to engage and be polite to all those ladies. After polite conversation and an introduction. Then perhaps ask her if you can take her out sometime. Perhaps leave your number so she can make the choice without any pressure. Then as a gentleman thank them for their time and be on your way.
Many men are aware of this. That is your chance and she will respect you more for it. You don't need to take the day off work for it.
I am not sure who you are talking too when it comes to depression. But in how you portray your knowledge and interactions comes across cold towards those with such a challenge in life.
There is only two ways I can actually see someone being totally unaware of why they are on medication. First that they were as a minor and they didn't approach the GP but were taken to their GP by a loved one. Therefore have lack of understandin. Second, is that they were sectioned under the mental health act. Either way I still cannot see how someone would keep taking tablets and not know why.
Along with this, codependent on what exactly? Medication? People? The condition? Their bed? I'm curious.
It's called respect love, but you have to remember something for me here. With the right guy, you don't have to be a lady in the bedroom all the time. Just yourself and believe or not there are men that are considerate of how you feel and check that you are ok. Those kind make me smile.
If his general attitude towards women and people are bad. Then I am not sure why you would end up in the bedroom with him. Unless you want a bad guy type, which I highly doubt. Some ladies find that exciting. Personally, it would be like adding my bits to the sahara dessert in search for a watering hole. (trying to make you laugh)
Guys are not so very different than women you know in that aspect. They have their insecurities aswell.
You're not going to get any clearer way in that environment. It's not like online, you have many visual cues. Online unless a guy goes how about it, it's just banter as no body language. You are still going to need to pick the best guy, to get to a 1-2-1 situation. Otherwise it will look like you're not interested either.
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sorry. I am a tad tired.
RE: Science Vs Religion: will science eventually prove or disprove religion?
I think having a conscience helps Dee. Plus I don't know about you, but I actually feel good to give.Experiencing good deeds is great way to feel humanity and often it is by an act rather than materialism.