I was never attracted to or surrounded with other Aquarians or Air signs in general, to be honest. Somehow, we would just fly next to each other without much interest. I always had much better friendships and relationships with Fire, Earth and Water signs. Somehow, I could always either learn something from them or gain some different perspective or understanding. Other Air signs (including other Aquarians) simply left me - indifferent and uninterested.
I was just interested to know what CS members think about the topic.
Personally, I prefer people who have philosophical rather than religious approach to life.
I couldn't be in a relationship with a religious person. Those who respect their tradition only (celebrate Christmas and Easter, for example, but are not believers - don't go to church, etc.) are OK, but I prefer atheists, agnostics and mildly spiritual people.
Is religion important to you? Would you date an atheist (if you are religious yourself) or a religious person (if you are an atheist)? Could you date a person who belongs to another religion? Do you think that similar religious beliefs are important for a relationship or completely irrelevant?
When I came back after taking a break of a few days, I noticed messages from some suspicious profiles, I was sure I had already blocked. And then - I went to check Blocked List and - it was empty! And now I have to block all those spammers/scammers all over again...
I'm thinking of preventing everyone from messaging me for a while...
Scorpio cannot submit to reason when he is overwhelmed by emotions. But, he can also understand why others cannot do the same, although it might not seem like that at a first glance. Scorpios often appear as judgemental, opinionated and criticizing and people sometimes cannot see under the surface that Scorpio understands very well the power of emotions and people doing silly things because of them. Every Water sign understands that - it's just much easier to talk about it with Pisces, for example, who often seem gentle and nice than with Scorpio who doesn't.
I think that you overestimate the intellect and reason. All Air signs are driven by the intellect and that's the realm where we feel most comfortable, but this doesn't mean that most human actions are based on it. On the contrary, when emotions and reason clash, usually emotions are the ones that win.
Aquarius is always in search of the deeper understanding of the human nature and a good conversation with Scorpio (if two of them connect - not every two of them would, of course) can be very insightful.
If interested in exploring the combination Aquarius-Scorpio further, you can take a look at these articles (and the comments people left):
It's very hard for me too meet such a man and I'm not sure if this will ever happen again. My 'passionate nature' appeared so far only with those two Scorpio men I mentioned before and party with one Aries man. Maybe it has something to do with Mars? I'm not sure, but men who can wake up my 'passionate nature' need to possess some specific combination of intelligence, deeper understanding, strength and passion and - in order for that to last - be reliable and make me feel secure. Meeting someone like that is ... close to impossible.
I would probably give up on that idea and find myself some nice Sagittarius man and have one of those comfortable relationships an Aquarius likes to have - relaxed, easy-going, playful, calm and peaceful - no pressure and no strong difficult emotions.
I used to be like that many years ago when it first became popular. I added too many people and spent too much time there. Then I deleted that profile and was without Facebook for several years. I opened it again mainly in order to stay in contact with Japanese friends. I find Instagram more fun nowadays, although I don't spend too much time there, too. It's rather useful if you are interested in arts and crafts or photography or anything similar - you can follow many interesting artists and see many interesting works.
Me. But, I mainly use it to stay in contact with international friends, share photos of some event that might be interesting to them or photos of nature, my cat, etc. I don't spend much time there. I also use FB Messenger to chat with friends.
Maybe rather get bored easily. Although, a typical Aquarius who is intellectual, calm and not very emotional could deal with that world, I guess. He just needs to have a very strong motivation.
They do sometimes. And I noticed something interesting - I prefer men who can deal with it. I think that they are much stronger than those who want me to always be nice and calm and kind. Some men I met even preferred that side of me. They thought it was much more interesting. However, it doesn't surface so often and even if it does - most of the time I can keep it under control.
True, it really does. I read somewhere that Aquarius-Scorpio combination is one of the best ones for people interested in understanding human nature, because it gives you two different perspectives and insights - intellectual (Aquarius) and emotional (Scorpio). That's how I comfort myself, at least.
I think that they should allow avatars for forums and blogs for people who don't want to use their own photo. So many people without profile pictures - it's so confusing...
I few days ago I read your profile and you wrote something I've been thinking about since: 'If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!'. This is so true!
Aquarius as a politician... Hm... This doesn't sound right somehow.
They say that our physical appearance is more based on our Ascendant than our Sun sign.
When I was younger, I wanted to have Libra Ascendant. I thought it would be so nice to be double air and be cheerful and carefree all the time. I was so unhappy with my Scorpio Ascendant and its difficult energies. Then a friend astrologer told me: 'If you had Libra Ascendant - you would never have such sparkling eyes!'. So, now, whenever some difficult Scorpio energy surfaces, I comfort myself: 'sparkling eyes... sparkling eyes...'.
The reason I started this thread is because I noticed a tendency on this forum among many members. Rarely anyone writes something 'from their heart'. Many people intellectualize about this and that and while their replies sound smart, at the same they don't show much understanding for human emotions and often show the lack of empathy. And it made me thinking - whether all those people just protect themselves from future pain, whether they built the wall of 'reason' around themselves that protects them from being hurt in the future... It's a shame that we cannot talk much more about our feelings in a relaxed manner on a forum like this one... Talking 'from the heart' without intellectualizing and 'being smart'.
RE: Male 4 Sale
You will hardly sell that one, because every male gives this for free. Maybe - giving him as a gift instead?