Maya74 Forum Posts (170)

RE: He hurt me, but my love is bigger than my anger.

Yes.

You will always regret if you don't try one more time.

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

You had true love and cannot settle for less any more.

Sometimes I wonder if meeting exceptional people during our lives is a blessing or a curse...

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

We can rationalize all that, but it simply doesn't matter when emotions are involved. Sometimes we are all childish and immature.


Let's go back to the topic and whether we build walls around us not to love again or love partially/rationally only.

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

I'm afraid that it's exactly what most of us do after a while... We build different types of walls and stay safely behind them...



Of course. The next phase is - ignore. Then it's all over and there's no going back.

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

molly said something about someone stopped loving you, it was not his fault, etc. but for me - it's all the same. In time I can become more reasonable and see things from another angle, but when I'm hurt - there's just one angle.



Yes.

Everyone has a dark side...

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 30 - 11

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 30 - 11

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

No, I just go through a phase of being verbally mean and spiteful toward the ex. Very immature, I know, but can't help it.

Our pets

Our pets

Quite possible.

Our pets

I read that cats like to be given a massage and I tried that once, but my cat looked me with dissatisfaction in her eyes, as if she wanted to say: 'What are you doing?!', so I gave up.

RE: Enneagram Test…. Discover Your Personality Type

I love taking tests.

This is my result:

Type 4: The Artist. The intuitive, reserved type.

The explanation is pretty true.



We did another test a while ago. It's also very interesting and accurate:

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

There's not much difference to me either.

I even think that it's better if I was intentionally hurt - I can be 'rightfully angry' and overcome everything faster...

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

Ideally - we should learn from our past mistakes and enter new relationships with that knowledge, yet fresh and capable to love and trust wholeheartedly again. But, can we really do that? Or do we develop all sorts of ways to protect ourselves from being hurt again and thus - maybe - prevent ourselves from being truly happy with someone else?

RE: …Do women want to be judged on their looks?

We are lucky, because most men don't think like LeeCharming.

Old love memories

This is so true.

RE: It's official: Men are more vain than women

Then you have to keep guard dogs to protect you from all those women trying to break into your house just to be with you...

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 30 - 11

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 30 - 11

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 30 - 11

RE: What's Your Talent?

You play really good.


I don't have any special talents.

Our pets

Pets are members of our family.



He must have been super cute!



Yes, true.

I think that people who have dogs have many opportunities to meet others, because they walk their dogs every day.



That's a lovely story.



They are sooooooo cute.

RE: …Do women want to be judged on their looks?

Most women don't wear their make-up all the time, especially at home, on the beach, when they go for a casual walk... Even if they do, most stick to some basic things, like a little powder or a lipstick/lip balm, mascara... Even women who work in the fashion industry - prefer to be without make-up in their free time. That's why you can see photos of so many famous people with no make-up in media - they wear too much make-up at work - on the stage, film shooting or modelling - so they prefer not to wear anything in their leisure time.

I don't know where you meet so many women with heavy make-up all the time...



How do you expect to find a woman who 'takes good care of her skin, her body and her feet' as you wrote in your profile with no help of the cosmetic industry? Creams, body lotions, etc. people use daily cost a lot more than buying a mascara and a lipstick every now and then...

RE: Quotes

Life is too short to learn German. - Oscar Wilde

Never knew before what eternity was made for. It is to give some of us a chance to learn German. - Mark Twain



And now back to grammar books.

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 30 - 11

RE: The fast pace of city life.

A nice house in some peaceful and quiet area where I could stay whenever I want. And when I want something different - travel to more noisy places and less noisy places all over the world, depending on the mood. That would be perfect.

RE: What ya got on the go.....SAY ANYTHING

True...

RE: …Do women want to be judged on their looks?

I read your profile and you say that you dress in suits and take a lot of pride in your appearance and it made me remember one thing that happened to me when I was in my 20's. I had a friend whose father was a doctor, always elegant, in nice suits, perfect haircut, a real gentleman. I met him with her on several occasions. So, one day she invited me to her home. It was a big house with nice furniture. When she said that she would introduce me to her mom, I expected to see an elegant lady. Instead, I met a woman with some shapeless undyed hair (partly gray), no make up, no plucked eyebrows, old-fashioned clothes and - hairy legs! I was shocked. My friend later explained to me that her father forbids her mother to wear any make-up, dye her hair or shave her legs. He likes that old-fashioned natural look. I wouldn't mind if they both looked like that - natural, with little to no care about their physical appearance - but that combination of a well-groomed man and a natural-looking woman looked so ... strange... But, I guess we all have a different taste...

Our pets

That's interesting... You are gifted.

RE: Do romantic still important nowadays?

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