Well, I don't want people knowing if I have an interest in them before I'm ready to share it with them by email or flower. I like having that 'privacy' factor. If I want them to know, then I request to put them on my friends list.
No. This discussion was just brought up recently in another thread. I still say I wouldn't want people knowing who my favorites are. That's what a friends list is for.
Yes, we certainly do, Ras. I remember working 2 or 3 jobs at a time to make sure my daughter had what she needed. And I always seemed to be 'robbing Peter to pay Paul'. But I didn't want to 'live on the system' because I didn't want my daughter thinking that it was the easy way out. I've always been a very determined, hard-working person. I wanted to instill the same values in her.
I used to get soooo angry with men I'd talk to who said, "I give her all that money & she spends it on herself!" I kept retaliating with, "Do you think she takes each of HER paychecks & says, 'OK son, this is for you & this much is for me'???" A good parent will pay for/buy whatever is NECESSARY for the well-being of that child. Made my blood boil!!
No offense Snuggs, but I think your stereotypes are a bit out-of-date in the modern world. It's not just the man's job to be the provider, while the woman pays the bills with his money. It is now a shared responsibility. With today's economy, most families couldn't make it on one income. JMO.
I totally agree. My ex paid sporadically while my daughter was growing up, which was extremely hard. The only time he paid was when he had a girlfriend & they put him in jail. She'd bail him out. He eventually became over $8000 in arrears.
Now that she's 22 & on her own, the SCDU is going after him full-force. And now, he's FINALLY paying on a regular basis. It would've been much nicer to have the money when she was growing up so that I could do more things for/with her. I hated saying no to her all the time.
I've been helping her out now with the payments I get... buying clothes for her children & such.
But see, on the other forum, the only person who couldn't view the particular poster blocked was the person who blocked him/her. I just think that if you're being harrassed by someone, but want to post to an interesting thread, it'd be a nice feature to have.
See, I think it should be toward the poster. There have been posters on here... in the past... who I didn't have time for their nasty remarks. I would've just blocked them altogether.
There have been times in this forum, where a certain poster will start an argument with me & then follow me from thread to thread, posting horrible, vindictive things. If we had that option, it could save some a lot of hurt.
I belonged to a forum once that you COULD ignore certain posters. When they posted to a thread, if you had them blocked, you didn't even see their posts! That was a nice option.
Alivia was born on October 29th. My birthday is October 9th & my grandmother's was October 18th.
I never got around to crocheting any of the grandchildren blankets.
But I have 2 blankets that were given to me by friends at my baby shower when my daughter was born. I need to wash them & hand them down to my daughter for Alivia. They were both crocheted by these women for me/her.
This is so wild!!
Yeah, that one made me say, "what the...." too!