I've quit twice before, for quite a while each time. This time will be for good. I watched my mother wither away from emphyzema. I never want my grandbabies to watch me suffer like that!
I had a boss like that snuggs. To this day, I call her "The boss from HELL". And she truthfully was. She lived each day to make her assistant's life miserable. No, I wasn't the only one she'd done it to. She went through 5 assistants in 4 years. She would purposely do things to make me look incompetant, incapable, & actually tried to make me look like I was LOSING it!
I emailed the assistant she had before me & asked if it was just me or was she always like that. Her reply was, "Well, let's just say that I don't go home crying anymore." That was my answer. It wasn't personal. She was just a jealous, miserable, lonely b*tch.
After that, I set out to find a new job. Ironically, my current boss called me & I hadn't even remembered applying for the job! It was surely a blessing in disguise!
I'd kept in contact with the assistant who took my place for a while. She ended up seeing a psychiatrist & on antidepressants. Soon after, I found out that my previous supervisor quit to go to... now get ready for this.....
Just to let you know... my boss never makes a big deal out of it either. It's not that he's not appreciative, it's just his personality. We all know that he cares in the day-to-day things he does for each of us.
This year, he was 'guilted' into "participating". He's not here today... had a meeting at another campus. One of the other supervisors made the vases up for us & brought them down. And she also provided the 'goodies'.
With friendships, just send a friendly email. Let them know you liked a topic they started or that maybe you two had stuff in common. Nobody can ever have too many friends! I've been gifted with quite a few friends on this site. But I can always use more.
With Doc, he showed interest in the threads. Then people caught on & played 'Cupid'. Then he sent me flowers & emails. The rest was history.
If you're interested, don't be afraid to show it. Even if the other person wasn't initially interested, just by striking up conversation, you never know what may happen!
Sit back & enjoy the ride. We're a good bunch of people. I've met many great friends here. And you just never know what else could happen, when you least expect it!
I had 2 grandsons & now my daughter gave me a beautiful little granddaughter, Alivia, to spoil & buy little dresses & things for. I'm sure she'll be spoiled by all, including Mommy, Daddy, & her big brothers.
Thanks John! Great pics of progress! I can't wait to come down & see how things have changed. But I have to admit, I'll NEVER get over the loss of all those beautiful Antibellum homes that lined the beach!
RE: Say something....to anybody...TRY to be nice...
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