jampet Forum Posts (2,549)

RE: Do men enjoy the chase until they've caught you?

exactly- just because you know they will let you catch them, doesn't mean you can't still enjoy the chase

RE: Do looks really matter?

ha ha!! i only have a degree in agricultural zoology my brother would have caught that- even form the small picture ( can you tell i didn't go on to wow the world with my zoology skills I thinkg david attenborough can rest easy)

RE: WHAT PLACE ARE PLACES DO WOMEN LIKE TO BE TAKEN TO THE MOST ON A DATE?

whew!! thought i was going to have to be the pedantic one here..paris =France Rome= Italy

where do i like to be taken?? well if it's not an early relationship date, then the couch, the kitchen table, the bedroom, the shower- you get the drift. but on a first or even subsequent ones- either an atmospheric restaurant with good food and decent wine with his/ or your friends with waiters/waitresses that enjoy their job and have a laugh with you as well as serving,.... or a nice home cooked meal where you can sit and get to know each other better. I had both this weekend and i couldn't say which i enjoyed better. god i'm bragging now- shut up Alison ( but i deserve it )

RE: I met " the one" tongiht!

yeah me too- but we say... what am I?? scotch mist?

RE: I met " the one" tongiht!

wonder how they are now?? hopefully madly in love

RE: Do men enjoy the chase until they've caught you?

that doesn't just go for men- in my youth i was a bit like that- enjoyed the chase but once they showed interest i lost interest. Have grown up since then and would only allow men that i was interested in to 'chase' because i want to be caught

RE: Do looks really matter?

i can state honestly that it is!! my brother ( now a vet) when he was a student had an indian python, rats, pirahna fish etc as pets- he tried to get a tarantula, but apparently they wouldn't let him as there was no antivenom for sale. i think he was a woose and too scared and that was his excuse

RE: Do looks really matter?

i was talking abiut the snake-oops no snake in that picture

RE: Do looks really matter?

ok so he's a bit gorgeous. can't compete with perfection

RE: Do looks really matter?

when i first saw my man on our first date( had met him before) I thought- oh no- don't fancy him at all- not that he isn't goodlooking, just a split second thought- but we talked all night and i enjoyed his company. Am so glad as now i think/realise he is GORGEOUS!!

RE: Ever faked one?

um, guilty- but feeling no guilt

RE: I need...

glad you are feeling better but -here's one to keep for emergencies ..
what i need is motorway all the way from here to Dubl;in so i can get my real hugs sooner

RE: Advice On Is It A Turn - Off

going out on a limb here- i have always held the opinion that if i let a guy know i liked him ( this could be after a few dates when \i knew he was really interested in me, then it gave him the 'upper hand' and would lead him to treat me badly. i don't know what gave me this impression, because it has never happened, but we can't get rid of the demons that haunt us.

i realise now, again through cs to some extent,that letting someone know that i like him as much as he likes me, is not a bad thing, and even a good thing.

i have never been treated really badly by a guy or dumped , cheated on etc etc, so i have no real reason to be distrustful of men. I suppose what i am trying to say, is that MEN!! don't always see women who are a bit guarded, or reluctant to make the first move, as a 'tease' or players/ playing hard to get. sometimes we are genuine, passionate women, who just don't have the confidence in ourselves to believe that we are desireable to men, regardless of what we are told

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

i am- not getting married, but i'm loving every minute of it. life after a separation can really happen and it's......?? where are the fireworks emoticons?? !!

RE: any ladies who is interested in mathematics???

ok- so the boring answer- 1+1= 1- well it is a dating site after all!! can't believe noone put this answer yet

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

finally- yes!! living the life, loving the music !!!

RE: what is the one thing you dont want to happen on a first date?

arrgh- the kid from across the road came into my house last year to show us what he'd got- and left a trail all across the living room carpet merry christmas

for me- just to find out he is a jerk, that i have nothing in common with-or that he would obviously think i was not his type either!!

RE: "Ignorance is bliss.....this is tooo funny not to share guys

welcome back- i had laser surgery last year, but wore contacts before so was well aware of every wrinkle!!! you still look great hen!!!

ha ha- fastest christmas dinner

he'll be here tomorrow night- and i'll be child free then the real partying can start- need to get a few tips from you dru

RE: Vices

never met a vice i didn't like

ha ha- fastest christmas dinner

well, dinner with me and three techno-mad small boys was never going to be a two hour fest of conversation, witty repartee and cullinary appreciation!! 15 mins start to finish!! took me longer than that to peel the potatoes and veg. ah well, as said in the other thread- at least i had 3 healthy boys to talk to and share more than enough food with!! and i got to eat all the brussel sprouts ( for some that would be torture, for me- YUM!!

best way to help grieving friend at christmas

thank you all for your answers. i wish you all a happy christmas, and my thoughts with those who have lost someone

RE: Randomly Post The First Thing That Pops Into Your Head Thread

massage oil
chocolate
champagne

okay- just have to get over the flu and i'm going to have fun!!

RE: would you snog the one above you

well charming!! trying to disocciate yourself from me

RE: would you snog the one above you

erm- think i mught get killed- she's taken

RE: LOL...

some folk just love the challenge of a 'taken' person

me?? i am delighted for both you and stress ( separately of course )

RE: so happy :)

yeah- us foreigners have to take your word for it that that is good. well done you

best way to help grieving friend at christmas

thanks- i think that is what i will do-just spend some time with them

best way to help grieving friend at christmas

Following on from another thread that was mentioning how do they get through the first christmas without a loved one....
I have 2 friends that have lost their wife/husband this year through car crashes- both young people with 2 and 5 kids under 10 years old

those that have lost someone close to them... what is the best thing a friend could do for you this year?? I am at a bit of a loss as to what I should do- In ireland, I believe the tradition is for the bereaved family not to send cards or recieved them, not put up a tree etc ( i don't think this is the best thing if there are small kids in the house, but that is what they do apparently). should I stay away, and let them grieve alone? should I go there on Christmas day and hug them?
what would be the best thing someone could do . I realise that everyone handles their grief differently, but there is probably some common ground.

To all those who are grieving someone this year

RE: would you snog the one above you

awh hell- i'll try anything- once!!