Newlife08 Forum Posts (2,715)

RE: facebook good or bad

Best of luck Loyallover, take your time and you will find that person who is looking for you.

Sometimes 'the grass is greener on the other side' seems to fit, instead of working on any hiccups.

Forget about your lost love, look to the future.

52 dates!! Hell got some catching up to do

RE: Need Help

Well anyone who might be interested in you would read your profile, which is a little bit confusing to me if I might say?

You say you have never done internet dating before but with no luck??

You say you want to travel to Uk and Europe next year but also start a degree next year??

Anyway, if I wanted to (I am not as I don't think I am in your age bracket being 53!!) if anybody wanted to contact you - they can send you a flower, message...... etc. Good luck.

RE: Be honest - would you see this women again?

If I were you I would be considering sending a tape to the biggest TV company in the UK - you must have a natural gift for getting people to spill their guts - a la Tom Cruise jumping on the sofa kind of thing??

RE: Kizzys bar is now closed

Hell - what are we going to do for "Happy Hour" now???

RE: The "L" Word

So I am guessing from the above replies that seeing someone for 18 mths exclusively and not saying "I love you" is a bit slow

RE: The "L" Word

That's good advice toffeeapple. If you don't say "I 'L' you" to that person he will be thinking she doesn't[/i] love me when you maybe do - just a little bit but you don't want to say those words because once you've said them you can't take them back.

To me it means a higher level of committment to each other. It means you love each other for all your beauty and imperfections, warts and all!!!

RE: The "L" Word

Actions speak louder than words? Sometimes people find it so easy to say "I love you", but it is what they do that is more important. If they say they love you than act like a total ******* then they don't mean it and they think by saying it, it excuses their bad behavious??

Doing the little things, sending you a romantic text, buying you a little something because they know you like that kind of thing, coming home with a bottle of your favourite wine, all ways of saying I love you, I care about you, I was thinking of you - but takes a bit more effort than just saying those 3 words.

I think by sayinng "I love you" it takes your relationship to a higher level?

RE: What do you.......

Wish I could figure out if this on/off relationship is right or not?? Driving me nuts, want him, don't want him, he's right for me, no he's not, too many obstacles, find a way round them? Am I being weak? Right I will make a decision and stick to it - which I do until he calls me for a 'chat' just to see how I am - and there I go again? All my resolutions and decisons go out of the window again!

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaagh, wish I had a bloody crystal ball.

He's all that I didn't want, separated but not divorced after 2 years, almost retired, I'm not, long distance, wouldn't even go for a coffee with someone more than 50 kms away - so how come we even met and clicked right away?

I really need a dstraction I think .......

RE: Hurting and Understanding

That just about sums it up - until you let go you won't be able to move on??

RE: How a Woman should treat her Man...

Treat him mean - keep him keen! That's my motto.

RE: Hurting and Understanding

I know how you feel - your head is telling you to do one thing, but your heart is saying something else?? Easy for friends to give advice in your best interests but maybe not so easy to carry out in reality?

Can't say any more than that as it is not clear who has done what and who needs to forgive who??

Maybe give both yourselves a bit of time and space to think a bit more clearly without the anger and emotion being so raw??

Best of .....

RE: What to wear to the snow.

Don't forget the most important thing - your hip flask for emergencies! It is guaranteed to defrost the parts that are about to drop off.

Haven't been skiing in Oz but been in Europe - fantastic, some of the best holidays I have had. Probably the only holidays I have been on that you eat anything you can get your hands on and still come back weighing less than before you went.

Have a great time - and watch out for those spunky ski instructors!

RE: Here Comes the Rain Again

Hope the weather is not too bad on the south coast of NSW south of Sydney - my ex mother and father in law live there. Especially as they were soooooooooo nice to me when I divorced their son.

Told them not to take sides but they wouldn't listen??

RE: The truth must be told!

All I know is the prices in the supermarket even for basics seem to have doubled lately. Anybody who has paid full price for towels or sheets in the last 12 months must be mad as the big stores have discounted them about every 2 months.

Don't think the Global Finacial Crisis is over yet, the first wave was USA troubles, now I think the way a lot of Europe is going we are still not out of the woods. It has a flow on effect.

I work in the health sector, aged care, it's a growing market on the gold coast, qld. We get more new clients every week.

RE: Here Comes the Rain Again

Great weather for staying snuggled under the doona a bit longer on the weekend??