Your right its not a easy task at hand, ...but can I ask you then does one not allow themselves into ones life as a friend,be it male or female because the pain is so deep??? More often then not one who is passing would not want to become involved emotionally and physically,but love has many ties and can be drawn on many levels. ....what is is worth far more then what is not more....even if just for the moment. JMO of course.
Do you love your mother or your father or your sister or your brother any less when they become ill????....I think not. ...and if common ground is shared would you not want to share and be the one who gets to hold fast unto some great memories and be apart of creating those that are new memories. Sure the "fear" of losing one is always a hard task at hand,but the beauty of today is worth more then the never knowing about tomorrow. ...You bet I would...:)
Anticipation is the hardest part. ...remember to breath...1...2...3...lol The journey will be well worth the anticipation and all the anxiety you are feeling. ...lite be with you on your new journey....:)
...oooO.............. ...(....).....Oooo... ....\..(.......(...).... .....\_).......)../..... ...............(_/...... ... I WAS ............ .......... HERE ......
I do, ...and some days its hard to obtain the memories of, and perhaps a part of me would just like to have a piece of yesterday to hold onto for just a wee bit longer.
A bottle of wine, ...some bread crumbs, a stroll along a path where you pick up 2 sticks to go with the line you have packed. .....Feed the birds,throw some line in for good measure,one never knows what you may catch, fresh air and a few glasses of wine followed by good company and you have yourself a wonderful afternoon,early evening.....:)
RE: would you be with someone...
Ca bon HJF!!!... ..!!