Forum is just that,"open discussion" ..and for those that are just in and out checking out profiles and leaving messages AM sure it is just that ..."a dating site" But just think of the weddings that have taken place,the relationships,be it romance or friendships,had it not been for socializing in forum,many of them would not have taken place ...and to me thats a wonderful thing.
Your right we have to deal with yesterday in order to make it in today ...however negative reply gives negative response. So touch base with what was and then place it upon a shelf to collect dust.
I have been financially independent for over 20 years. ...even in a relationship and I tend to be one of those that if something is done for me I am sure to put back what was given....then there are no words in time to come about me owing a thing.
For me personally my heart as to be in ...and that has nothing what so ever to do with the size of anys banck account.
A bit of a banter ...after taking a leave to care for my mother and then lossing her in October ...I experienced many emotions some in which I had not touched in a very long time ...and not always were my copying skill up to parr. Am in a new part of town ...not knowing a soul and having to do some real soul searching ...in order to stay focused and not loss touch with all that I have AND I am finding solace in things that have been put on the back burner ...me music,writting and recording, ...family,those that matter that is myself,the biggest refection of all that should be ...and not always is it easy BUT is always worth it ...in which case I am gratful for all that I have and simple things that make life so GRAND
I love expensive perfume ...and have a eye for a few different pieces of art AND yep, ...from time to time I indulge. ..and you know what??? I love it....tee-hee
Depends on the "deepth" of the relationship and the distance one is traveling. ...on can chat with someone local and want to meet sooner then later AND one could chat and have a distance betwween them and choose later then sooner ..in hindsight,ALL are,and should only be seen as dates, there fore there are no real conceived notions and or expectations. BUT the bottom line is this ...I think the sing of when to meet comes from withen and you both have a idea when that time is ...JMO
RE: A prayer please
Good lite for you and all that will be having to go,.