that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
If I was really into them before I found out they were terminally ill it wouldn't put me off.. better to have lived/loved/lusted if only for a short time than to have never lived/loved/lusted at all.
However, if they didn't float my boat too much before I found out then I'd not date them just out of sympathy. But, I would still be there for them as a friend and to offer support
I must admit that the thought scares me to think that I might not do so but if I feel strongly attracted to her then I know I would but still the thought of it scares me coz I know how hard and wery taxing it is on your emotiones to be with a person with terminal cancer...
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
No not if it was terminal, ive had so many family members pass on to cancer, i really couldnt unless i was in love with them already
Life is about opportunities, friendships, and experiences. I have to say it would take me back hearing that. But if I truly enjoyed that persons conversation and intellect. Then yes I would continue on.
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
yes, i would. Just because they hv a terminal illness doesnt mean i dump them ...i would live every moment with them, so that they cherish them before departing ... God Bless !!
fun_loving_4u: yes, i would. Just because they hv a terminal illness doesnt mean i dump them ...i would live every moment with them, so that they cherish them before departing ... God Bless !!
Zellarrone1: If I was really into them before I found out they were terminally ill it wouldn't put me off.. better to have lived/loved/lusted if only for a short time than to have never lived/loved/lusted at all.
However, if they didn't float my boat too much before I found out then I'd not date them just out of sympathy. But, I would still be there for them as a friend and to offer support
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
Do you love your mother or your father or your sister or your brother any less when they become ill????....I think not. ...and if common ground is shared would you not want to share and be the one who gets to hold fast unto some great memories and be apart of creating those that are new memories. Sure the "fear" of losing one is always a hard task at hand,but the beauty of today is worth more then the never knowing about tomorrow. ...You bet I would...:)
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starliteisbrite: Do you love your mother or your father or your sister or your brother any less when they become ill????....I think not. ...and if common ground is shared would you not want to share and be the one who gets to hold fast unto some great memories and be apart of creating those that are new memories. Sure the "fear" of losing one is always a hard task at hand,but the beauty of today is worth more then the never knowing about tomorrow. ...You bet I would...:)
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