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Feb 11, 2008 5:17 PM CST would you be with someone...
rockstar0779
rockstar0779rockstar0779Topeka, Kansas USA26 Threads 290 Posts
that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
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Feb 11, 2008 5:17 PM CST would you be with someone...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
yeah.. I would
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Feb 11, 2008 5:26 PM CST would you be with someone...
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?
yes
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Feb 11, 2008 5:32 PM CST would you be with someone...
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?


If I was really into them before I found out they were terminally ill it wouldn't put me off.. better to have lived/loved/lusted if only for a short time than to have never lived/loved/lusted at all.

However, if they didn't float my boat too much before I found out then I'd not date them just out of sympathy. But, I would still be there for them as a friend and to offer support sad flower
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Feb 11, 2008 5:34 PM CST would you be with someone...
iceman69
iceman69iceman69selfoss, Southern Region Iceland35 Threads 159 Posts
I must admit that the thought scares me to think that I might not do so but if I feel strongly attracted to her then I know I would but still the thought of it scares me coz I know how hard and wery taxing it is on your emotiones to be with a person with terminal cancer...
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Feb 11, 2008 5:46 PM CST would you be with someone...
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?



If my feelings were strong for him, yes I would.
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Feb 11, 2008 5:48 PM CST would you be with someone...
heedee
heedeeheedeenewry, Armagh Ireland52 Threads 1 Polls 770 Posts
constanza: If my feelings were strong for him, yes I would.




"something inside so strong"
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Feb 11, 2008 5:49 PM CST would you be with someone...
lustfull
lustfulllustfullTralee, Kerry Ireland7 Threads 295 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?

No not if it was terminal, ive had so many family members pass on to cancer, i really couldnt unless i was in love with them alreadyheart wings
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Feb 11, 2008 5:53 PM CST would you be with someone...
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
heedee: "something inside so strong"



Pardon moi, but did I just miss something here?dunno
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Feb 11, 2008 5:56 PM CST would you be with someone...
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Life is about opportunities, friendships, and experiences.
I have to say it would take me back hearing that. But if
I truly enjoyed that persons conversation and intellect.
Then yes I would continue on.
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Feb 11, 2008 6:13 PM CST would you be with someone...
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
I'm with Zellarone.
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Feb 11, 2008 6:24 PM CST would you be with someone...
fun_loving_4u
fun_loving_4ufun_loving_4uChicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 18 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?


yes, i would. Just because they hv a terminal illness doesnt mean i dump them ...i would live every moment with them, so that they cherish them before departing ... God Bless !!
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Feb 11, 2008 6:30 PM CST would you be with someone...
fun_loving_4u: yes, i would. Just because they hv a terminal illness doesnt mean i dump them ...i would live every moment with them, so that they cherish them before departing ... God Bless !!


nice answer, i agreethumbs up
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Feb 11, 2008 6:31 PM CST would you be with someone...
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Zellarrone1: If I was really into them before I found out they were terminally ill it wouldn't put me off.. better to have lived/loved/lusted if only for a short time than to have never lived/loved/lusted at all.

However, if they didn't float my boat too much before I found out then I'd not date them just out of sympathy. But, I would still be there for them as a friend and to offer support


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Feb 11, 2008 6:35 PM CST would you be with someone...
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?




yep i would
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Feb 11, 2008 6:36 PM CST would you be with someone...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
StarliteFantazy: yep i would


Oo helloooo my little buddy! hug
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Feb 11, 2008 6:37 PM CST would you be with someone...
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
Claayer: Oo helloooo my little buddy!
rolling on the floor laughing @ lil buddy


wave hiya girl good to see youbanana
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Feb 11, 2008 6:49 PM CST would you be with someone...
fun_loving_4u
fun_loving_4ufun_loving_4uChicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 18 Posts
blue_eyed_blonde: nice answer, i agree


Thanks a lot !! :)
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Feb 11, 2008 6:52 PM CST would you be with someone...
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
rockstar0779: that had cancer that was terminal..this is just a question that popped into my mind and i thought i would get some views on it..say you met the person and they told you after a while of knowing them maybe a couple of chats or whatever..would you still want to date them or become close to them know that someday you might lose them forever?


Do you love your mother or your father or your sister or your brother any less when they become ill????....I think not.
...and if common ground is shared would you not want to share and be the one who gets to hold fast unto some great memories and be apart of creating those that are new memories.
Sure the "fear" of losing one is always a hard task at hand,but the beauty of today is worth more then the never knowing about tomorrow.
...You bet I would...:)
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Feb 11, 2008 6:53 PM CST would you be with someone...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
starliteisbrite: Do you love your mother or your father or your sister or your brother any less when they become ill????....I think not.
...and if common ground is shared would you not want to share and be the one who gets to hold fast unto some great memories and be apart of creating those that are new memories.
Sure the "fear" of losing one is always a hard task at hand,but the beauty of today is worth more then the never knowing about tomorrow.
...You bet I would...:)


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